Cholinga cha uzimu

Kodi tingaphunzire chiyani kuchokera m'Baibulo pa nkhani yokhala tokha?

Kukhala wekha. Kaya ndikofunikira kusintha, kutha kwa ubale, kuferedwa, matenda opanda chisa kapena chifukwa choti, nthawi ina, tonse tinali osungulumwa. M'malo mwake, malinga ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi kampani ya inshuwaransi Cigna, pafupifupi 46% aku America akuti nthawi zina amakhala osungulumwa, pomwe 53% okha amati amakhala ndi zochitika pakati pawo tsiku ndi tsiku.

Ndi lingaliro ili la "kusungulumwa" komwe ofufuza ndi akatswiri akuyitanitsa mliri waukulu wazaka za zana la 21 komanso nkhawa yayikulu yathanzi. Ndizovulaza thanzi, ofufuza ku Brigham Young University akhazikitsa, monga kusuta ndudu 15 patsiku. Ndipo Health Resources & Services Administration (HRSA) ikuyerekeza kuti okalamba osungulumwa ali ndi chiwopsezo chowonjezeka cha imfa cha 45%.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji kusungulumwa kuli vuto? Pali zifukwa zingapo, kuyambira pakudalira kwambiri ukadaulo pochita zinthu ndi anthu, mpaka kukula kwakunyumba kuchepa pazaka, ndikupangitsa anthu ambiri kukhala okha.

Koma kusungulumwa sikungokhala lingaliro latsopano, makamaka pankhani ya uzimu.

Kupatula apo, ena mwa anthu odzazidwa ndi chikhulupiliro m'mbiri yakale komanso ngwazi zazikulu za m'Baibulo adasungulumwa kwambiri pafupi ndi anzawo. Kotero kodi pali gawo lauzimu kusungulumwa? Kodi Mulungu amafuna kuti tiziyenda bwanji pakati pa anthu omwe ali osungulumwa?

Malangizo akuyambira pachiyambi pomwe, m'buku la Genesis, akutero a Lydia Brownback, wolankhula komanso wolemba buku la In Search of God in My Solitude. Mosiyana ndi zomwe zimawoneka, kusungulumwa si chilango chochokera kwa Mulungu kapena vuto lathu, akutero. Tengani mfundo yoti atatha kulenga munthu, Mulungu adati, "Sichabwino kuti munthu akhale yekha."

"Mulungu adati ngakhale tisanachimwe, mwakuti adatilenga ndi kuthekera kuti tizisungulumwa ngakhale panthawi yomwe dziko lapansi linali labwino munjira iliyonse," akutero a Brownback. "Mfundo yoti kusungulumwa kunalipo tchimo lisanabwere padziko lapansi liyenera kutanthauza kuti zili bwino timakumana nalo ndipo sizomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha chinthu china choyipa."

Zachidziwikire, tikakhala osungulumwa kwambiri, wina amangodzifunsa kuti: Chifukwa chiyani Mulungu angatipatse kuthekera koti tizisungulumwa pomwepo? Kuti tiyankhe funsoli, Brownback akuyang'ananso ku Genesis. Kuyambira pachiyambi, Mulungu adatipanga ndi chosowa chomwe Iye yekha angachikwaniritse. Ndipo pali chifukwa chabwino.

Iye anati: “Ngati sitinalengedwe ngati opanda pake, sitikanaona kuti tikusowa chilichonse. "Ndi mphatso kutha kumva kuti tili tokha, chifukwa zimatipangitsa kuzindikira kuti timafunikira Mulungu ndikutipangitsa kuti tizithandizana".

Kugwirizana kwaumunthu ndikofunikira kuti tithetse kusungulumwa

Mwachitsanzo, taonani nkhani ya Adamu. Mulungu adathetsa kusungulumwa kwake ndi mnzake, Eva. Izi sizitanthauza kuti banja ndi njira yothetsera kusungulumwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngakhale anthu amene ali pabanja amasungulumwa. M'malo mwake, a Brownback akuti, kuyanjana ndikofunikira. Tchulani Salmo 68: 6 kuti: "Mulungu amakhazikitsa osungulumwa m'mabanja"

"Izi sizikutanthauza okwatirana kapena ana 2.3," akutero. “M'malo mwake, Mulungu adalenga anthu kuti azilumikizana wina ndi mnzake, kuti azikondana komanso kukondedwa. Ukwati ndi njira imodzi yokha yochitira. "

Ndiye tingatani tikakumana ndi kusungulumwa? Brownback akutsindikanso anthu ammudzi. Lumikizanani ndi kuyankhula ndi wina, kaya ndi mnzanu, wachibale, mlangizi, kapena mlangizi wauzimu. Lowani nawo mpingo ndikuthandizira iwo omwe angakhale osungulumwa kuposa inu.

Musaope kuvomereza kuti muli nokha, kwa inu nokha kapena kwa ena, akulangiza a Brownback. Khalani owona mtima, makamaka ndi Mulungu.Mutha kuyamba ndikupemphera motere, "Mulungu, ndingatani kuti ndisinthe moyo wanga?"

"Pali zinthu zambiri zothandiza zomwe mungachite kuti muthandizidwe nthawi yomweyo," akutero a Brownback. “Khalani nawo mu mpingo, lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira, thandizani kusungulumwa kwa wina, ndipo funsani Mulungu pazomwe mungasinthe pakapita nthawi. Ndipo tsegulirani mwayi watsopano womwe mwakhala mukuwopa kuyesera, zilizonse. "

Kumbukirani kuti simuli nokha

Yesu adasungulumwa kuposa wina aliyense, kuyambira kusala kudya mchipululu mpaka kumunda wa Getsemane mpaka pa Mtanda.

"Yesu anali munthu wosungulumwa yemwe adakhalako," akutero a Brownback. “Amakonda anthu omwe amupereka. Anapwetekedwa ndikupitiliza kukonda. Chifukwa chake ngakhale titakumana ndi zovuta kwambiri, titha kunena kuti "Yesu akumvetsa". Pamapeto pake, sitikhala tokha chifukwa ali nafe. "

Ndipo mutonthozedwe podziwa kuti Mulungu amatha kuchita zodabwitsa ndi nyengo yanu yosungulumwa.

"Tengani kusungulumwa kwanu ndikuti, 'Sindikonda momwe zimamvekera, koma ndikuwona ngati chisonkhezero chochokera kwa Mulungu kuti asinthe," akutero a Brownback. "Kaya ndikudzipatula kwanu chifukwa cha zomwe mukuchita kapena zomwe Mulungu wakupatsani, atha kuzigwiritsa ntchito."