Ubale wautali, momwe mungawongolere?

Pali anthu ambiri omwe amakhala kumeneko lero maubale a mtunda ndi mnzanu. Munthawi imeneyi, ndizovuta kuzisamalira, mwatsoka mliriwo uli nawo kuchulukitsa mtunda ndi kudzipatula chifukwa cha zoletsa za kusamuka. Kukhala ndi ubale wautali ndi kovuta, koma kosatheka.

Zikuwonekeratu kuti ubale wotalikirana ndi wovuta kusamalira chifukwa sikuti nthawi zonse umakhala wa pinki komanso maluwa koma izi sizitanthauza kuti uyenera kutayidwa. Ubale wamtunduwu umafunikira chilimbikitso kuthekera kwa banjali kugwira ntchito m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Imodzi mwa mfundo zofunika kwambiri zomwe maubwenzi akutali akhazikitsidwa ndi fiducia. Pakalibe izi, timadzipeza tokha ndi nsanje, mukukayikirana nthawi zonse. Ndiye pali kalori, kusonyeza mwakuthupi chikondi. Ngati simulankhulana ngakhale mutakumbatirana mwachikondi, zotsalira zochepa zaubwenzi ndizochepa.

Chinthu china ndicho lingaliro limodzi malingaliro wamba, patapita kanthawi, maubwenzi amakonda kudzilimbitsa ndi lingaliro lakumanga chinthu pamodzi. Pakadali pano, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa ngati onse awiriwa akuwona chimodzimodzi pokhala otalikirana. Ndiye pali zovuta zomwe zimapangitsa kumvetsetsa. Zimayimira chipatso chakumvetsetsa komwe kumakula pakapita nthawi. Zovuta zimalimbikitsidwa ndi zabwino monga kuwona mtima, kudzidalira, kukondana.

Maubwenzi akutali: kudzipeza mutapemphera

Lolani Mulungu alowe muubwenzi wanu chifukwa ndiye maziko omangira ubale wanu. Pangani msonkhano Zosawoneka tsiku lililonse mu preghiera. Kaya muwonana kapena ayi, kaya muli pafupi kapena muli kutali, muli nonse pamodzi m'manja mwa Mulungu, mtima wa Khristu ndiyo njira yachidule kwambiri kuchokera mumtima umodzi kupita mmwamba. L'Ukalisitiya Ndi malo omwe gulu lachikwati limapangidwanso, kuyeretsedwa ndikulimbikitsidwa. Mulungu wathu ndi Mulungu wabwino yemwe wakhala akutidziwa nthawi zonse, amene amadziwa zabwino zathu. Amayankhula ndi mitima yathu, timumvere. Komanso amalankhulanso kudzera m'masakramenti ndi m'mawu a Mulungu.Ulendo wathu timakhazikika pa mawu.

Kumva munthawi zovuta ayamba kunjenjemera ndipo mantha atenga malo. Only parola wa Mulungu adzaima kuti atitsogolere ngati nyumba yowunikira usiku. Tiyeni tikumbukire kuti ngati chikondi chomangidwa pamaziko olimba chimalimbitsa ndikukonzekeretsa onse kuthana ndi zovuta zokulirapo.