Chipembedzo Chapadziko Lonse: Kodi Dalai Lama wavomereza ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

Mu gawo la Marichi 2014 pa Larry King Tsopano, mndandanda wapa kanema wawayilesi womwe umapezeka kudzera pawayilesi yapa kanema wawayilesi ya Ora TV, Holiness the Dalai Lama adati ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "Chabwino." Poganizira zomwe ananena kale za Chiyero Chake kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumafanana ndi "chigololo," izi zidawoneka ngati kusintha malingaliro ake akale.

Komabe, mawu ake kwa Larry King sanatsutse zomwe adanena kale. Kaimidwe kake kwakukulu kakhala kakuti palibe cholakwika chilichonse ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pokhapokha ngati kuswa malamulo a chipembedzo cha munthu. Ndipo zimenezo zikaphatikizapo Chibuda, mogwirizana ndi Chiyero Chake, ngakhale kuti m’chowonadi si Chibuda chonse chimene chingavomereze.

Kuwonekera kwa Lary King
Kuti tifotokoze izi, choyamba tiyeni tione zimene anauza Larry King zokhudza Larry King Tsopano:

Larry King: Mukuganiza bwanji za funso lonse lomwe likubwera?

HHDL: Ndikuganiza kuti ndi nkhani yaumwini. Inde, mukuona, anthu amene ali ndi zikhulupiriro kapena amene ali ndi miyambo yapadera, choncho muyenera kutsatira mwambo wanu. Mofanana ndi Chibuda, pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chiwerewere, choncho muyenera kutsatira bwinobwino. Koma ndiye kwa wosakhulupirira, izo ziri kwa iwo. Chifukwa chake pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kugonana, bola ngati kuli kotetezeka, CHABWINO, ndipo ngati ndikuvomereza, chabwino. Koma kupezerera anzawo, nkhanza, n’kulakwa. Uku ndikuphwanya ufulu wa anthu.

Larry King: Nanga bwanji za ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

HHDL: Zimatengera malamulo adziko.

Larry King: Kodi inuyo mukuganiza bwanji?

HHDL: Chabwino. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi bizinesi yapayekha. Ngati anthu awiri - okwatirana - akuganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwambiri, zokhutiritsa, mbali zonse zimagwirizana, ndiye chabwino ...

Mawu am'mbuyomu onena za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Steve Peskind, yemwe ndi katswiri wa Edzi waposachedwa, analemba nkhani ya m’magazini ya Buddhist yotchedwa Shambhala Sun ya March 1998, yotchedwa “Molingana ndi Miyambo ya Abuda: Gay, Lesbians ndi Tanthauzo la Makhalidwe Olakwika Ogonana.” Peskind ananena kuti m’magazini ya OUT ya February/March 1994, Dalai Lama anagwidwa mawu kuti:

“Ngati wina abwera kwa ine n’kundifunsa ngati zili bwino kapena ayi, ndimakufunsani kaye ngati muli ndi malumbiro achipembedzo oti mukwaniritse. Ndiye funso langa lotsatira ndilakuti: maganizo a mnzanu ndi chiyani? Ngati nonse muvomerezana, ndikuganiza kuti ndinganene kuti ngati amuna awiri kapena akazi awiri avomereza mwaufulu kukhala okhutira popanda kuvulaza ena, ndiye kuti palibe vuto. "

Komabe, Peskind analemba, pamsonkhano ndi mamembala a gulu la anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ku San Francisco mu 1998, Dalai Lama anati: “Kugonana kumaonedwa kuti n’kolondola pamene okwatirana amagwiritsira ntchito ziwalo zogwiritsiridwa ntchito pofuna kugonana osati china chilichonse,” ndiyeno anapitiriza kufotokoza za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. coitus ngati njira yokhayo yoyenera yogwiritsira ntchito ziwalo.

Ndi ma flops? Osati kwenikweni.

Kodi chiwerewere ndi chiyani?
Malamulo a Chibuda akuphatikizapo njira yosavuta yodzitetezera ku "chiwerewere" kapena "kusagwiritsa ntchito molakwa" kugonana. Komabe, ngakhale Buddha wakale kapena akatswiri oyambilira sanavutike kufotokoza ndendende tanthauzo lake. A Vinaya, malamulo a malamulo a amonke, safuna kuti amonke ndi masisitere azigonana konse, kotero izo ziri zomveka. Koma ngati simuli m'banja, kodi "kusagwiritsa ntchito nkhanza" kugonana kumatanthauza chiyani?

Pamene Chibuda chinafalikira ku Asia, panalibe ulamuliro watchalitchi wokakamiza kumvetsetsa chiphunzitsocho, monga momwe Tchalitchi cha Katolika chinachitira ku Ulaya. Kaŵirikaŵiri akachisi ndi nyumba za amonke zinali kutenga malingaliro a kumaloko a chimene chinali chabwino ndi chimene chinali choipa. Aphunzitsi olekanitsidwa ndi mtunda ndi zolepheretsa chinenero nthawi zambiri ankafika pamalingaliro awoawo pa zinthu, ndipo ndi zomwe zinachitika ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Aphunzitsi ena Achibuda m’mbali za Asia analingalira kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunali chisembwere, koma ena m’mbali zina za Asia anauvomereza kukhala chinthu chachikulu. Izi, kwenikweni, zidakali lero.

Mphunzitsi wachi Buddhist wa ku Tibet Tsongkhapa (1357-1419), kholo la sukulu ya Gelug, analemba ndemanga yokhudzana ndi kugonana yomwe anthu a ku Tibet amaona kuti ndi yovomerezeka. Dalai Lama akamakamba za chabwino ndi choipa, n’zimene zikuchitika. Koma izi zimangomangiriza ku Tibetan Buddhism.

Zimamvekanso kuti a Dalai Lama alibe ulamuliro wopitilira chiphunzitso chovomerezeka kwa nthawi yayitali. Kusintha koteroko kumafuna chilolezo cha amalamu ambiri akuluakulu. Ndizotheka kuti a Dalai Lama alibe malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amatenga udindo wake monga woyang'anira miyambo mozama.

Kuchita ndi malangizo
Kuzindikira zomwe Dalai Lama akunena kumafunanso kumvetsetsa momwe Abuda amawonera malangizowo. Ngakhale kuti amafanana ndi Malamulo Khumi, Malamulo a Chibuda saganiziridwa kuti ndi malamulo a makhalidwe abwino omwe ayenera kuperekedwa kwa aliyense. M’malo mwake, iwo ali kudzipereka kwaumwini, kumangiriza okhawo amene asankha kutsatira njira ya Chibuda ndi amene apanga malumbiro kuti awasunge.

Kotero pamene Chiyero Chake chinati kwa Larry King, "Monga Buddhism, pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chiwerewere, kotero muyenera kutsatira molondola. Koma kwa wosakhulupirira, zili kwa iwo, ”akunena kuti palibe cholakwika ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pokhapokha ngati zikuphwanya lumbiro lachipembedzo lomwe mwapanga. Ndipo ndicho chimene iye nthawizonse ankanena.

Masukulu ena a Buddhism, monga Zen, amavomereza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, choncho kukhala Mbuda wa gay si vuto.