Kodi ife kapena Mulungu tisankhe bwenzi lathu?

Mulungu adapanga Adamu kuti alibe vutoli. Palibe abambo ambiri m'Baibulo, popeza akazi awo nthawi zambiri amasankhidwa ndi makolo. Koma tikukhala m'zaka za m'ma 21 zino ndipo zinthu zasintha. Ana amangokhala kumapwando a oledzera usiku wonse, kudzuka, kumenya nkhondo, kukhala ndi ana, kumenyera, kupeza bwino, ndikumakhala m'malo akumdima achitatu.

Koma pafupifupi mukufuna bwino, kotero kuti ndiyambitse ndikupereka lingaliro kumisonkhano yomwe mungapeze anzanu ambiri oyenera, mwakukhulupirira omwe amakhulupirira Mulungu. Awa akhoza kukhala makampu, zovina masukulu kapena zovina pasukulu, zazikuluzithunzi, makalabu apasukulu, ntchito zamatchalitchi (makamaka m'matchalitchi osakhala anu ngati muli nawo).

Njira ina yabwino yopezera munthu woti mukhale naye pachibwenzi ndipo mwina mukwatirane naye ndi kupereka nthawi yanu pazinthu zoyenera zomwe anthu amsinkhu wanu akuthandiza ena. Pakati penipeni pali mtsikana yemwe akufuna kukhala ndi tsogolo labwino ndi Mayi Right ndi wina yemwe Mulungu angavomereze.

Pezani nthawi yocheza komanso kumvetsera atsikana. Funsani mafunso omwe angawathandizenso kuyankhula za iwo okha, chiyembekezo chawo, maloto awo. Ndipo osadzipereka kuti alankhule za inu mpaka atakufunsani. Muyenera kuwapanga kukhala munthu wofunikira kwambiri pazokambirana.

Mukamapemphera kwa Mulungu, muuzeni za azimayi achichepere omwe muyenera kuwadziwa, kenako pemphani modzichepetsa kuti akuthandizeni posankha kuti ndi ndani mwa iwo (ngati alipo) yemwe angathe kukhala wokwatirana naye.

Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, musakhale pakhonde kudikirira kuti Mulungu akutumizireni mnzanu. Mudzadikira nthawi yayitali ndipo chinthu chokha chomwe idzatumize ndi mvula ndi matalala.

Mfundo yofunika yokhala pachibwenzi imapezeka mu 1Samueli 16: 7 pomwe Mulungu akuchenjeza mneneri Sameri kuti asaweruze munthu chifukwa cha mawonekedwe awo kapena mawonekedwe awo, koma machitidwe awo. Mtsikana wokongola kwambiri pamsonkhanowu mwina sangakhale wabwino ngati mnzake Jane amene samafunsidwa kuti akhale pachibwenzi.

Pamapeto pake, inu ndi Mulungu mukasankha kukhala bwenzi lanu, mchitireni monga a Johnny Lingo anachitira mkwatibwi wake. M'dziko la chisumbu lomwe akazi adagulidwa, mtengo wofunsa anali ng'ombe zinayi; zisanu kapena zisanu ndi chimodzi ngati mkaziyo anali wokongola kwambiri. Koma a Johnny Lingo adalipira ng'ombe zisanu ndi zitatu kwa mayi wocheperako, wosazengereza, wamanyazi yemwe amayenda ndi mapewa ake osakidwa ndikugwetsa mutu wake. Aliyense m'mudzimo adadabwa.

Miyezi ingapo pambuyo paukwati, mnzake wa Johnny adasandulika mkazi wokongola, wokonzeka komanso wotsimikiza. Johnny anafotokoza kuti: “Chofunika kwambiri ndi mmene mkazi amadzionera. Ndinkafuna mkazi wa ng'ombe zisanu ndi zitatu, ndipo nditamupatsa, ndikumamuchitira motero, adapeza kuti ndiwofunika kuposa akazi ena onse kuzilumbazi. "