Zifukwa zazikulu zisanu ndi ziwiri zakuulula mawa

Ku Gregorian Institute ku Benedictine College tikukhulupirira kuti ndi nthawi yoti Akatolika alimbikitse kuvomereza ndi chikhulupiriro komanso kulimba mtima.

"Kukonzanso kwa Church ku America ndi mdziko lapansi zimatengera kukonzanso kwa chizolowezi," atero Papa Benedict ku Nationalals Stadium ku Washington.

Papa John Paul II adakhala zaka zake zomaliza padziko lapansi akupemphera Akatolika kuti abwerere ku kuulula, kuphatikizaponso kudandaulira uku mwachangu povomereza komanso mu buku la Ukaristiya.

Mkuluyu adatanthauzira zovuta mu Tchalitchi ngati vuto lavomerezo, ndipo adalembera ansembe kuti:

"Ndimamva chikhumbo chokupemphani inu, monga momwe ndidachitira chaka chatha, kuti ndidzipezenso ndikuwunikiranso kukongola kwa sakalamenti la Kuyanjanso".

Chifukwa chiyani nkhawa izi zakulapa? Chifukwa tikadumpha chivomerezo timasiya kuchimwa. Kuwonongeka kwa lingaliro lauchimo ndiko maziko a zoyipa zambiri mu nthawi yathu ino, kuyambira kuzunza ana mpaka kusakhulupirika pazachuma, kuyambira kuchotsa mimba mpaka kusakhulupirira Mulungu.

Kodi kulimbikitsa kuvomereza? Nayi chakudya choganiza. Zifukwa zisanu ndi ziwiri zobwerera ku chivomerezo, zonse mwachilengedwe komanso zauzimu.
1. Uchimo ndi wolemetsa
Wophunzitsa adafotokoza nkhani ya wodwala yemwe wadutsa mozunguzika kwambiri komanso kudzimana kuyambira ali kusekondale. Palibe chomwe chikuwoneka ngati chothandiza. Tsiku lina, wochiritsirayo adakumana ndi wodwalayo kutsogolo kwa mpingo wa Katolika. Adakhala mmalo momwe kudayamba kugwa ndipo amawona anthu akuulula. "Kodi nanenso ndiyenera kupita?" Adafunsa wodwalayo, yemwe adalandira sakaramenti ali mwana. "Ayi!" Anatero katswiriyo. Wodwalayo adapita, ndikusiya kuvomerezedwa ndi kumwetulira koyamba komwe anali nako kwa zaka, ndipo m'masabata otsatira adayamba kuchita bwino. Wophunzitsayo adalapa kwambiri, kenako adakhala Mkatolika ndipo tsopano amalimbikitsa kuulula machimo ake kwa odwala ake onse achikatolika.

Tchimo limabweretsa kukhumudwa chifukwa sikuti ndikungophwanya malamulo okhwima: ndikuphwanya cholinga cholembedwa mwa Mulungu. Kuvomereza kumakweza chidandaulo ndi nkhawa zomwe zimadza chifukwa chauchimo ndikuchiritsa.
2. Uchimo umakulitsa
Mu kanema wa 3:10 ku Yuma, nzika Ben Wade akuti "sinditaya nthawi kuchita chilichonse chabwino, Dani. Ngati utam'chitira zinazake zabwino, ndikuganiza kuti zikhala chizolowezi." Akunena. Monga Aristotle ananenera, "Ndife zomwe timachita mobwerezabwereza". Monga Katekisimo amanenera, chimo limayambitsa mtima wofuna kuchimwa. Anthu samanama, amakhala abodza. Sitimaba, timakhala akuba. Kuphwanya komwe kumatsimikizidwa ndi zochotsa machimo, kumakupatsani mwayi wamakhalidwe atsopano.

"Mulungu akufunitsitsa kumasula ana ake kuukapolo kuti awatsogolere ku ufulu," atero Papa Benedict XVI. "Ndipo ukapolo wowopsa kwambiri ndi wochimwa ndendende ndi wochimwa."
3. Tiyenera kunena
Mukaswa chinthu chomwe ndi cha mnzake komanso kuti amakonda kwambiri, sichingakhale chokwanira kungomvera chisoni. Mukhala ndi mwayi wofotokozera zomwe mwachita, kufotokoza zowawa zanu komanso kuchita chilichonse chofunikira kuti mukonze zinthu.

Zomwezi zimachitikanso tikasokoneza chinthu mu ubale wathu ndi Mulungu.Tiyenera kunena kuti Pepani ndikuyesera kukonza zinthu.

Papa Benedict XVI akutsindika kuti tiyenera kutsimikizira kufunika koulula ngakhale tisanachite tchimo lalikulu. “Timayeretsa nyumba zathu, zipinda zathu, pafupifupi sabata iliyonse, ngakhale dothi limakhala lofanana nthawi zonse. Kukhala mwaukhondo, kuyambiranso; mwinanso, mwina dothi silimawoneka, koma limadziunjikira. Zofanananso zimakhudzanso moyo. "
4. Kuulula kumathandiza kudziwana wina ndi mnzake
Tinkalakwitsa kwambiri za ifeyo. Malingaliro athu amomwe tili ngati magalasi osokoneza angapo. Nthawi zina timawona mtundu wamphamvu waife womwe umalimbikitsa ulemu, nthawi zina kukhala wosawoneka bwino komanso wakuda.

Chivomerezo chimatikakamiza kuyang'ana moyo wathu moyenera, kulekanitsa machimo enieni ndi malingaliro osayenera ndikudziwona tokha momwe tilili.

Monga momwe Benedict XVI akunenera, kuulula "kumatithandiza kukhala ndi chikumbumtima chofulumira, chotseguka kwambiri komanso kukhala okhwima ku uzimu komanso monga munthu wa munthu".
5. Kuulula machimo kumathandiza ana
Ngakhale ana amafunika kupita kukaulula. Olemba ena adanenanso zoyipa zakubvuma kwa mwana - kukhala m'ndende m'masukulu achikatolika ndiku "kukakamizidwa" kuganiza za zinthu kuti azidzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu.

Sikuyenera kukhala mwanjira imeneyi.

Mkonzi wa Catholic Digest a Danielle Bean nthawi ina adafotokozera momwe abale ndi azilongo ake adachotsera mndandanda wa machimo atalapa ndikuwuponya mu mpingo. "Ndi ufulu bwanji!" Adalemba. "Kuyika machimo anga kudziko lamdima komwe kunachokera kunkawoneka koyenera. 'Ndamenya mlongo wanga kasanu ndi kamodzi' ndipo 'Ndalankhula pambuyo pa amayi anga kanayi' zomwe sanathenso kunyamula ".

Kulapa kungapatse ana malo oti asiyiretu wopanda mantha, ndi malo oti athe kulandira upangiri wachikulire ngati akuopa kuyankhula ndi makolo awo. Kupenda bwino chikumbumtima kumatha kutsogolera ana ku zinthu zowulula. Mabanja ambiri amapanga chivomerezocho ngati "kutuluka", kutsatiridwa ndi ayisikilimu.
6. Kulapa machimo athu ndikofunikira
Monga Katekisimo amanenera, chimo la munthu lomwe silinadziwike "limapangitsa kuti lisayanjanitsidwe mu ufumu wa Kristu ndi imfa yamuyaya ya gehena; ndiye kuti ufulu wathu uli ndi mphamvu yopanga zosankha zowoneka bwino, zosasinthika ".

M'zaka za m'ma XNUMX zino, Tchalitchi chakhala chikutikumbutsa mobwerezabwereza kuti Akatolika omwe achita tchimo lowononga sangathe kuyandikira Mgonero popanda kuvomereza.

"Kuti tchimo likhale lachivundi, pali zinthu zitatu zofunika kuchita: Ndi tchimo lachivundi lomwe limakhudza nkhani yayikulu ndipo, koposa pamenepo, limachita mokwanira ndikuvomereza mwadala", atero Katekisimu.

Abishopu aku US amakumbutsa Akatolika za machimo wamba omwe amapanga nkhani yayikulu mu chikalata cha 2006 "Odala ali alendo pachakudya chake". Machimowa ndi monga kuphonya Misa Lamlungu kapena phwando lamalamulo, kuchotsa mimba ndi matenda okhudzana ndi kugonana, kuba, zolaula, miseche, chidani ndi kaduka.
7. Kuvomereza ndiko kukumana kwanu ndi Khristu
Mukuulula, ndi Kristu amene amatichiritsa ndikutikhululukira, kudzera mu ntchito ya wansembe. Tili ndi kukumana ndi Khristu muvomerezo. Monga abusa ndi amisili podyera, timadabwitsidwa komanso modzicepetsa. Ndipo monga oyera pamtanda, timamva kuyamika, kulapa ndi mtendere.

Palibe zotsatira zazikulu m'moyo kuposa kuthandiza munthu wina kubwerera kuulula.

Tiyenera kufuna kukambirana za kuulula machimo pamene tikukamba za chochitika china chilichonse m'moyo wathu. Ndemanga kuti "ndidzatha kutero pambuyo pake, chifukwa ndiyenera kupita kukawulula" nditha kukhala wotsimikiza kuposa nkhani yazachipembedzo. Ndipo popeza kuulula ndi chochitika chofunikira m'moyo wathu, ndiyankho loyenera kufunso "Mukuchita chiyani sabata ino?". Ambiri aife tili ndi nkhani zosangalatsa kapena zoseketsa, zomwe ziyenera kufotokozedwa.

Pangani kuulula kukhala chinthu chabwinonso. Lolani anthu ambiri momwe angathere kupeza kukongola kwa sakalamenti wopulumutsa uyu.

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Tom Hoopes ndi Wachiwiri kwa Purezidenti wa College Relations ndi Writer ku Benedictine College ku Atchison, Kansas (USA). Zolemba zake zawonekera mu Maganizo Oyambirira a Zinthu Zoyamba, National Review Online, Crisis, Our Sunday Visitor, Inside Catholic and Columbia. Asanalowe nawo Benedictine College, anali wamkulu wa National Catholic Register. Anali mlembi wa atolankhani wa wapampando wa US House Ways & Means Committee. Pamodzi ndi mkazi wake April anali mkonzi mnzake wa Faith & Family magazine kwa zaka 5. Ali ndi ana asanu ndi anayi. Malingaliro awo omwe afotokozedwa mu blog iyi sakuwonetsa za Benedictine College kapena Gregorian Institute.

[Kutanthauziridwa ndi Roberta Sciamplicotti]

Source: Zifukwa zazikulu zisanu ndi ziwiri zakuulula mawa (ndipo nthawi zambiri)