Kodi mungakhale osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo wabwino? Kusinkhasinkha

Kodi Chimwemwe Chimagwirizanadi ndi Ubwino? Mwina inde. Koma kodi ukoma masiku ano timautanthauzira bwanji?

Ambirife timafuna kukhala osangalala osati akhalidwe labwino. Kwa ambiri aife, kufunika kokhala ndi moyo wabwino kumatsutsana ndi kufunafuna chimwemwe. Ukoma umatikumbutsa, m'lingaliro lina, za udindo wamakhalidwe kwa anthu ena, chilango chokhala ndi zilakolako zathu ndi zofooka zina, osatchulapo kuponderezedwa. Tikamanena kuti "munthuyo ayenera kukhala wokoma" zikuwoneka kuti payenera kukhala kuponderezedwa, pamene lingaliro la chimwemwe limatiuza ife kukwaniritsa zilakolako zathu, kwa munthu ufulu ankakhala chidzalo, kusowa kwa malire, zoletsa ndi repressions.

Kwa ife, chikhumbo chachibadwa cha chimwemwe chimakhudza kwambiri chikhumbo cha kukwaniritsidwa. Zikuwoneka kuti chisangalalo, ndikanena kuti "Ndikufuna chisangalalo" zikutanthauza kuchita zomwe ndikufuna. Kodi ichi ndi chisangalalo chenicheni?

Ngakhale kuti mawu oti ukoma amangotanthauza ubale wabwino ndi ena kapena kukhala mogwirizana ndi chilengedwe. Ukoma umatanthauza ichi, kotero apa pali kusiyana.

Kwa ife, chimwemwe ndi nkhani ya munthu payekha ndipo, koposa kafukufuku, ndi udindo. Koma palinso chinthu chachilendo pamalingaliro awa. Ngati chimwemwe chili thayo, m’lingaliro lakuti ndiyenera kukhala wosangalala, sikulinso chikhumbo chachibadwa cha munthu aliyense, chifukwa chimene chiri thayo si chikhumbo. Ndi udindo "Ndiyenera kukhala wokondwa". Ngati timaona kuti tifunika kukhala achimwemwe, kapena kusonyeza kuti ndife achimwemwe, chimwemwe chakhala cholemetsa.

Timafunitsitsa kusonyeza ena ndiponso ife eni kuti ndife osangalala m’malo moyesetsa kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi maonekedwe, zomwe zili pamwamba pa moyo wathu, kotero lero ndizoletsedwa kunena "Ndine wachisoni".

Ngati munthu akunena kuti akuvutika maganizo, ndiye kuti chisoni ndi nkhani yomwe ilipo, monga chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo, pamene kuvutika maganizo ndi nkhani yachipatala, yomwe imathetsedwa ndi mapiritsi, mankhwala, mankhwala, ndi zina zotero.

Ngati chisangalalo chikuphatikizidwa ndi ukoma, chimwemwe monga kudzipereka ndi moyo woyenera, ndiko kufunafuna zabwino, ndiko kufunafuna chowonadi, kuchita bwino tsiku lililonse ...

Di Bambo Ezequiel Dal Pozzo.