"Ndinapita Kumwamba ndipo ndinabwerera" kudabwa pamene zinachitika kuchokera kwa madotolo

Zinali pambuyo pa 4:00 Lachinayi, Marichi 15, 2007 pomwe Darryl Perry anamwalira.

Yemwe kale anali wothandizira ku University of Florida adasandutsa wothandizira zachuma ndipo mkazi wake, Nicky, anali atagona pakati pausiku tsiku litatha. Perry nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito maola 16 patsiku, Lolemba mpaka Loweruka. Abambo a atatu adaphunzitsanso gulu lawo la baseball la zaka 8. Mwamuna wokonda zinthu zauzimu, Perry nthawi zambiri amadzuka 4 koloko m'mawa kuti awerenge Baibulo ndikupempherera mkazi wake ndi ana asanayambe tsikulo. Ngakhale imfa yamwadzidzidzi yamunthu wazaka XNUMX idadabwitsa mkazi wake, abale ndi abwenzi, Perry adadziwa kuti zichitika.

Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi m'mbuyomu, mkati mopemphera m'mawa, akuti Mulungu adamupatsa uthenga. Pandekha m'chipinda chake, a Perry adamva dzanja likugwira phewa lake ndipo mawu akuti, Mwana, uyenera kufa chifukwa cha ine.

Modabwa, Perry anafunsa, “Ndani ameneyo? Kodi pali aliyense pano? " Anamva kupezeka modekha ndikukhulupirira kuti anali Mulungu.Salephera kukumana ndiimfa, adakankhira mphindiyo kumutu kwake ndikupitiliza tsiku lake.

Zinthu zinali kumuyendera bwino Perry, mkazi wake ndi ana awo atatu. Iwo anali osangalala. Moyo unali wosangalatsa Iye anali asanamvepo uthenga wochokera kwa Mulungu ngati uwu kale. Sizingakhale zoona.

Kenako, Lachitatu asanamwalire, a Perry adamvanso mawu. Iye anali atangomaliza kusiya ana ake aang'ono omaliza kusukulu. Mwana, nthawi yakwana, linatero mawu. Nthawiyi, palibe amene ankakana zomwe anali atamva. Anakhala mgalimoto yake kutsogolo kwa sukulu ya ana ake ndikulira kwamphindi 30, osafuna kuwasiya.

Koma adakwanitsa tsiku lonse, usiku komanso sabata lathunthu, mwachizolowezi. Mpaka m'mawa mkazi wake adadzuka ndikumva phokoso lake lachilendo. Chifukwa chake, atero Nicky, anali akupumira mpweya ndikuponya thobvu mkamwa asanaleke kupuma.

"Mzimu wanga unali m'mlengalenga ukuwona Nicky akundipatsa pakamwa," Perry akuuza Guideposts.org. "Ndidaona zonse."

Panalibe ulendo wochokera kuchipinda chake chakumwamba womwe amakumbukira. Chotsatira chomwe adadziwa chinali pomwepo mumalo owala modabwitsa, kutentha ndi mitundu yosadziwika.

"Mngelo amene Mulungu adatuma kuti adzandilandire amatchedwa Gabriel," akutero Perry. "Zinali zazikulu." 6'2, 230-lb Perry akuti Gabriel adamuposa. Ndi khungu lofiirira, kumanga mwamphamvu, tsitsi lake komanso mapiko osaneneka, a Gabriel sanalankhulepo kanthu kwa Perry ndi Perry sanachite mantha. Gabrieli ataloza kumbuyo kwake, Perry adakwera kuti akapumule pomwe Gabriel adamuwolotsa mumlengalenga kukawona okondedwa ake omwe adadutsa.

“Ndinawona amalume anga, agogo anga aamuna, agogo aakazi a mkazi wanga,” akukumbukira motero Perry. Ndipo akuti, adaona Mulungu.

"Mulungu Kumwamba ndi kuwala kowala," akutero, popeza samatha kusiyanitsa mawonekedwe aliwonse apadera, koma kukhalapo kwa mtendere wathunthu.

Perry adayamba kukondwerera, akumabwereza mobwerezabwereza, "Ndachita! Ndazichita! "

Dziwani mabuku atsopano a Guideposts okhala ndi nkhani zodabwitsa kuchokera kwa omwe adapita kumwamba ndikubwerera

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Kubwerera kuchipatala, thupi la Perry lidalumikizidwa ndi makina othandizira moyo. Katswiri wa mitsempha adauza Nicky kuti zochitika zokha muubongo zomwe zidalembedwa pamakina a EEG ndikumakomoka, zizindikiritso zakufa kwa khungu. Pambuyo pazochitika ngati za Perry, adauzidwa kuti kuwonongeka kosatheka kwa ubongo ndi imfa zidachitika mkati mwa mphindi 4-6 zaubongo wopanda oxygen. Zinatengera othandizira opaleshoni 7 mphindi kuti abwezeretse kugunda kwa mtima kwa Perry.

Thupi la Perry adapita nalo ku Orlando Regional Medical Center ndikumuika mchipinda cha hypothermia kuti atetezedwe kuwonongeka kwaubongo pomwe Nicky amapempherera chozizwitsa.

Dokotala wamatsenga adamuwuza kuti akonzekere kuchotsa mwamuna wake mothandizidwa ndi moyo. M'malo mwake, adafunsa lingaliro lachiwiri la Dr. Ira Goodman m'chigawo chapakati cha Florida.

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Pamaso pa Mulungu, Perry akuti, palibe mantha, palibe mkwiyo, koma mtendere. Pakati pa chikondwerero chake, Perry akuti Mulungu adalankhula naye.

Adamva Mulungu akunena kuti: "Anthu anga aiwala mphamvu yanga, Iwo adati, 'Mwana, bwerera.'” Perry sanakhulupirire zomwe anali kumva. Sanafune kubwerera. Iye anakana. Adati ayi! "

Chifukwa chake, akuti Mulungu adachotsa chophimba pakati pa kumwamba ndi dziko lapansi ndikulola kuti awone banja lake. Iwo anali akumwetulira, kowundana, monga chithunzi. Mtendere womwewo womwe adamumva atazindikira kuti ali m'Mwamba udakhalabe pomwe adavomera kubwerera ku thupi lake padziko lapansi.

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Kwa masiku Dr.Goodman amamuyesa Perry, kumulamula kuti amvere, ndipo palibe chomwe chitha kulembetsa. Perry anali atagona pabedi pake, osamveka kapena kusuntha kupitirira makinawo. Pa Marichi 27, tsiku 11 la Perry, Dr. Goodman adalowa mchipinda chake, ndikupereka malamulo omwewo. "Tsegulani maso anu," a Dr. Goodman adauza Perry. Tsiku lomwelo, Perry adawatsegulira.

Dr. Goodman adachenjeza Nick kuti ngakhale Perry atha kudzizindikira yekha komanso kuti amatha kupuma yekha, sangasokonezeke kwambiri, sadzakumbukira za iye kapena abale ake. Sanadzayendenso kapena kulankhula, anachenjeza.

Koma Perry atatsegula maso ake, m'modzi mwa manesi ake, wotchedwa Missy, adathamangira pambali pake ndikufunsa, "Mukundimva?" Perry adawoneka kuti akugwedeza mutu. “Ndine Abisi. Kodi ungandiuze Missy? " Anamufunsa ndipo adayankhula mawu akuti Missy. Pofika nthawiyo, Nicky anali atatsika mnyumbayo ndipo anali mbali ina ya Perry, atamugwira dzanja. "Mkazi wokongola uja ndi ndani akuyimirira mbali inayo?" Missy adafunsa ndipo Perry adatembenuza mutu wake ndikuwona mkazi wake. "Ndimakukonda," pakamwa pake adamuuza.

Madokotala ake alibe chifukwa chomupulumutsira, kupatula dzina lomwe adamupatsa: "Munthu Wozizwitsa". Kwa Perry, kubwerera kwake padziko lapansi sichinthu chachilendo.

Mawu a Mulungu kwa iye Kumwamba amakhalabe kumbuyo kwa malingaliro ake: "Anthu anga aiwala mphamvu yanga." Atafunsidwa chifukwa chomwe akuganiza kuti Mulungu adamutumizanso, akuti "ndikungoyankhula nanu [chifukwa] ndili pano."

"Adati sindingayankhulepo, sindidzadziwa banja langa," akutero Perry, zaka 10 zitadwaliratu. “Chabwino, ine ndayesera iwo onse molakwika. Ndimapita pa njinga. Ndimayenda tsiku lililonse ndipo zomwe ndimakumbukira sizichitika. " Palibe china koma mphamvu ya Mulungu yomwe ikadatha izi, akutero.

Komabe, Perry akupitilizabe kuchira. Pambuyo pake, adapezeka kuti ali ndi bongo hypoxia, matenda am'magazi am'mbuyomu omwe amachitika atataya mpweya muubongo. Perry waphunzira kuti kuyenda, kulankhula mozizwitsa sikutanthauza masiku a kuchira kwathunthu kapena kukhumudwa.

“Ndinavomereza kuti nthawi zonse ndimakhala wowonekera bwino. Anthu nthawi zonse amandiyang'ana, ”akutero za moyo pambuyo pa imfa. “Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Zimakhala ngati kuti umayenera kukhala wangwiro nthawi zonse. "

Perry amabweretsa mphindi zokhumudwitsa zake pachikwama chomwe amachigwiritsa ntchito pochiritsa. Masiku ena amalira. Ngakhale moyo wake sudzakhala womwe udalipo, Perry alibe mkwiyo pakubwerera kumalo osinthika kapena kusiya malo amtendere komanso okongola kwambiri omwe adakhalako.

“Sindingathe kukwiya. Nthawi zonse ndimafunsa Mulungu kuti, 'Kodi mukufuna kuti ndichite chiyani?' Ndabwera chifukwa wandituma kuti ndimubwerere koma ndikunena kuti samalani ndi zomwe mupempha kwa Mulungu! ”Akutero akuseka.

Ngakhale wokamba nkhani wachidwi tsopano ali ndi mawu pang'onopang'ono, osokonezeka, uthenga wake ndi wamphamvu kuposa kale lonse.

“Sindine wosiya ntchito. Sindidzasiya, ”akutero. "Malingana ngati Mulungu andipatsa mpweya, ndimasewera."