Malangizo a kukhala ndi malingaliro achikhristu

Kodi mudazindikira momwe zimakhalira zosangalatsa kuzilankhula ndi anthu omwe amaganiza bwino komanso amene akuwoneka kuti amakhalabe ndi malingaliro abwino? Ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu ziliri moipa, kusasamala sikulowa m'maganizo awo, osangoyang'ana milomo yawo kuti apange mawu osalimbikitsa ndi opanda chikhulupiriro! Koma tiyeni tichitike moona mtima, kukumana ndi munthu wabwino sichinthu chosowa masiku ano. Pepani, amenewo anali malingaliro opanda pake!

M'mawonekedwe ake osangalatsa, Karen Wolff akutiwonetsa momwe tingasinthire malingaliro athu olakwika kuti akhale malingaliro abwino - kosatha - ndi malingaliro abwino awa.

Maganizo olakwika motsutsana ndi zabwino
Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zosavuta kukhala ndi malingaliro oyipa kuposa malingaliro abwino? Ndi chiyani mkati mwathu chomwe chimatikokera ku mbali zoipa za zinthu?

Timawerenga mabuku. Timatenga nawo gawo pamisonkhano. Tikugula matepi ndipo zinthu zikuwoneka kuti zikuyenda bwino kwakanthawi. Timamva bwino. Zabwino zathu zikuyenda bwino ndipo tili ndi chidaliro. Izi ndiye ... mpaka china chake chitachitika chomwe chimatipangitsa kuti tiyambirenso.

Komanso sizikhala chofunikira kuti titibwezere kudziko la malingaliro osalimbikitsa. Itha kukhala china chophweka ngati wina yemwe akutiimitsa pamsewu kapena kutikankhira patsogolo. Ndi chiyani chomwe chimawonetsa zochitika zosavuta za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kuti mphamvu zambiri zotibwezera m'mbuyo?

Kukula kopanda malire kumeneku kukupitilizabe chifukwa komwe gwero silikulankhulidwa. "Timachita zonse zomwe tingathe" kukhala otsimikiza, kuyesera kuthana ndi zomwe timamva. Ndi ntchito yambiri yomwe imayesa kukhala yotsimikiza tikamadziwa bwino kwambiri mkati kuti sipangatenge nthawi kuti mavuto abwinobwino amoyo ayambike ndikuthira mu malingaliro athu onse.

Musaganize
Makhalidwe oyipa amachokera pamaganizidwe osayenera omwe amachokera pakupanga zinthu zoipa. Ndipo kuzungulira kuzungulira kumapita. Tikudziwa kuti palibe chilichonse mwa zinthu zoyipa izi zomwe zimachokera kwa Mulungu. Palibe cholakwika ndi momwe amaganizira kapena kuchita.

Ndiye tingathetse bwanji zopanda pake zonsezi? Kodi tingafike bwanji kumalo omwe malingaliro athu ndi omwe amakhala achirengedwe koma osatsata?

Tikufuna tikupatseni njira yamatsenga yomwe, ikagwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, ingathetse malingaliro anu osavomerezeka m'masiku atatu. Inde, kodi simukuwona zomwe zili pachinthu chotere? Kwa $ 19,95 chabe mutha kupanga maloto anu onse kukwaniritsidwa. Ndi mwayi bwanji! Anthu amalembera izi.

Koma tsoka, dziko lenileni silophweka. Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti pali zinthu zingapo zomwe tingachite kuti tithandizire kusintha kuchokera ku dziko lonyalanyaza kupita kumalo abwino.

Malangizo abwino olingalira za malingaliro okhazikika
Choyamba, yang'anani pa zomwe mukuganiza. Kodi mukukumbukira zomwe tidanena za kukakamira chifukwa sitidakumanapo ndi zomwe tidapezazo? Zochita zathu zoipa komanso mawu athu amachokera m'malingaliro athu osalimbikitsa. Thupi lathu, kuphatikiza pakamwa, lilibe chisankho koma kutsatira kulikonse komwe malingaliro athu akupita. Ndikothekanso kuwongolera malingaliro athu, ngakhale titakhala kuti takhulupirira. Mukangoganiza zopanda pake m'maganizo anu, mumasankha zina ndi zina zabwino. (2 Akorinto 10: 5) Poyamba, izi zingafune ntchito inayake, chifukwa mwina titha kukhala ndi malingaliro osalongosoka m'mitu yathu kuposa abwino. Koma pamapeto, ubalewo udzasinthanso.
Chachiwiri, siyani kulola malingaliro olakwika a ena kutengera anu. Izi zitha kutanthauza kuti tiyenera kusiya kucheza ndi anthu omwe sachita china chilichonse koma kusiya zinthu zoipa. Sitingakwanitse kuchita izi pamene cholinga chathu chikhale chokwanira. Anthu osavomerezeka m'miyoyo yathu sangakonde tikasiya kutenga nawo mbali. Ingokumbukirani kuti mbalame za nthenga zimasonkhana limodzi.
Chachitatu, lembani mndandanda wa magawo onse a moyo wanu omwe mukufuna kusintha. Lembaninso malingaliro anu onse osalimbikitsa. Ngati simungathe kuganiza za zinthu zanu, ingofunsani banja lanu. Tikugula akuthandizani kuti mupange mndandanda wautali kwambiri!
Chachinayi, tengani kanthawi kuti mulembe mawu olimbitsa, opatsa moyo komanso olimbikitsa. Dziperekeni kuwerenga mawu mokweza tsiku lililonse. Sangalalani ndi momwe amakukondweretsani. Dziwani mumtima mwanu kuti mukupita patsogolo, ngakhale simukuziwona. Pitilizani kutsimikiza.
Pomaliza, pezani nthawi kuti mupempherere izi. Simungathe kusintha nokha. Koma mutha kupeza nthawi ndi Yemwe amatha kuthandiza. Chitani zomwe mungathe ndikulora Mulungu kuti achite zina zonse. Ndizosavuta.
Njirayi isintha momwe timaganizira ndipo iyi ndiye njira yeniyeni yosinthira momwe tikuchitira. Kumbukirani, thupi limatsatira kulikonse komwe malingaliro amapita. Palibe njira yodzilekanitsa awiriwo, tikhozanso "kukonza" zomwe tikufuna, m'malo mongosiya mwangozi.

Ingodziwa kuti mtundu wa Mulungu wolungama mulibe chilichonse cholakwika. Ndipo ngati tikufuna zabwino kwambiri za Mulungu pa moyo wathu, kuyambira ndi malingaliro oyenera, malingaliro ake akhale owona.