Iindlela ezili-10 zokuthanda ummelwane njengoko uzithanda ngako

Kwiinyanga ezininzi ezidlulileyo, xa sihamba sihamba kwindawo esihlala kuyo, intombi yam yalatha ukuba indlu "yenenekazi elibi" iyathengiswa. Lo mfazi wayengenzanga nto kunyana wam ukuba afumane isihloko. Nangona kunjalo, kwakungekho zimpawu zingaphantsi kwesixhenxe "Akukho kungena" kwintendelezo yakhe. Ngokucacileyo, intombi yam yeva ingxelo endiyenzileyo malunga neempawu kwaye ke isihloko sazalwa. Ngokukhawuleza ndaziva ndigwetyelwe indlela endiziphethe ngayo.

Andizange ndazi lukhulu ngalo mfazi wayehlala ezantsi kwestrato, ngaphandle nje kokuba igama lakhe lalinguMary, wayemdala kwaye ehlala yedwa. Ndibatshangatshangisile xa ndigqitha, kodwa khange ndiyeke ukuzazisa. Oku kungenxa yokuba bendixakeke kakhulu yinkqubo yam kangangokuba andizange ndiyivule intliziyo yam kwisidingo esinokubakho. Esinye isizathu ngeli thuba liphosiweyo kukuba ndandicinga ukuba ayinanto inxulumene nam.

Inkcubeko edumileyo ihlala ifundisa ukuxhasa abanye ngeembono, umdla, okanye iinkolelo ezifanayo. Kodwa umyalelo kaYesu ucela umngeni kwinkcubeko. KuLuka 10, igqwetha libuza uYesu ukuba makenze ntoni ukuze abudle ilifa ubomi obungunaphakade. UYesu waphendula ngebali lento esiyibiza ngokuba, ngumSamariya Olungileyo.

Nazi izinto ezili-10 esinokuzifunda kule ndoda yomSamariya ngokuthanda abamelwane bethu njengoko sizithanda ngako.

Ngubani ummelwane wam?
Kwi-Near East yakudala kwabakho iyantlukwano phakathi kwamaqela ohlukeneyo. Ubutshaba babukho phakathi kwamaJuda namaSamariya ngenxa yokwahluka ngokwimbali nangokwenkolo. AmaJuda ayewazi umthetho weTestamente eNdala wokuba bathande iNkosi uThixo ngentliziyo, ngomphefumlo, ngengqondo nangamandla abo onke, bathande abamelwane babo njengokuba bezithanda (Dut. 6: 9; Lev. 19:18). Nangona kunjalo, ukutolika kwabo ngothando lommelwane lwalunomda kuphela kwabo banemvelaphi efanayo.

Xa igqwetha lamaJuda labuza uYesu, "Ngubani ummelwane wam?" UYesu wasebenzisa lo mbuzo ukucel 'umngeni kwisimo sengqondo saloo mihla. Umzekeliso womSamariya olungileyo uchaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuthanda ummelwane. Kweli bali, indoda yabethwa ngamasela yaza yashiyeka isecicini lokufa ecaleni kwendlela. Njengokuba elele nje engenakuzenzela nto kwindlela eyingozi, umbingeleli uyayibona le ndoda aze ahambe ngabom kuyo. Emva koko, umLevi uphendula ngendlela efanayo xa ebona le ndoda iswelekayo. Ekugqibeleni, umSamariya uyalibona ixhoba aze aphendule.

Ngelixa iinkokheli ezimbini zamaJuda zambona umntu osweleyo kwaye bayiphepha ngabom imeko, umSamariya wazenza mfutshane. Wabonisa inceba komnye umntu kungakhathaliseki imvelaphi yakhe, inkolo yakhe, okanye izibonelelo ezinokubakho.

Ndimthanda njani ummelwane wam?
Ngokujonga ibali lomSamariya olungileyo, sinokufunda indlela yokubathanda ngcono abamelwane bethu ngomzekelo womlinganiswa osebalini. Nazi iindlela ezili-10 nathi esinokubathanda ngazo abamelwane bethu njengoko sizithanda ngako:

1. Uthando lunenjongo.
Kumzekeliso, xa umSamariya walibona ixhoba, waya kuye. UmSamariya wayesendleleni eya kwenye indawo, kodwa wema wathi akubona indoda esweleyo. Siphila kwihlabathi elikhawulezayo apho kulula ukungahoyi iimfuno zabanye. Kodwa ukuba siyafunda kulo mzekeliso, siyakulumkela ukuba siqaphele abo basingqongileyo. Ngubani ofaka uThixo entliziyweni yakho ukubonisa uthando?

2. Uthando luqwalasele.
Elinye lamanyathelo okuqala okuba ngummelwane olungileyo kunye nokuthanda abanye njengoko uzithanda ngako kukuqaphela abanye. UmSamariya wabona le ndoda ingxwelerhi okokuqala.

“Kodwa umSamariya othile, owayekuhambo, wafika apho wayekhona umntu lowo; wathi akumbona, wasikwa yimfesane ke. Waya kuyo, wawabopha amanxeba akhe, egalela ioli newayini, ”uLuka 10:33.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubethwa kwendoda esitratweni kubonakala ngathi yinto enzima ukuyiphosa. Kodwa uYesu ukwasibonisa ukubaluleka kokubona abantu. Kuvakala ngokufana kakhulu nomSamariya okuMateyu 9:36: "Uthe [uYesu] akuzibona izihlwele, wasikwa yimfesane ngabo, ngokuba babephethwe kakubi, bezimfama njengezimvu ezingenamalusi."

Ungazinikezela njani kwaye ubazi abantu ebomini bakho?

3. Uthando lunemfesane.
U-Luka 10:33 uhlabela mgama esithi xa umSamariya eyibona le ndoda ingxwelerhekileyo, wasikwa yimfesane. Waya kule ndoda yenzakeleyo waphendula kwiimfuno zakhe kunokuba abe nosizi nje ngaye. Ungabonisa njani ukuba ubonakalisa uvelwano kumntu oludingayo?

4. Uthando luyaphendula.
Xa umSamariya wabona le ndoda, waphendula ngoko nangoko ukuyinceda yahlangabezana nale mfuno. Wawabopha amanxeba akhe esebenzisa izixhobo awayenazo. Ngaba ukhe waqaphela nabani na osweleyo kwindawo ohlala kuyo mva nje? Unokusabela njani kwimfuno yabo?

5. Uthando luyabiza.
Xa umSamariya wawakhathalela amanxeba wexhoba, wanikela ngezixhobo zakhe. Esinye sezona zixhobo zixabisekileyo esinazo lixesha lethu. Ukuthanda ummelwane akonelanga kumSamariya nje ubuncinci umvuzo weentsuku ezimbini, kodwa kunye nexesha lakhe. UThixo usinike izibonelelo ukuze sikwazi ukuba yintsikelelo kwabanye. Zeziphi ezinye izibonelelo uThixo akunike zona onokuzisebenzisa ukusikelela abanye?

6. Uthando alufanelekanga.
Khawufane ucinge xa ​​uzama ukuphakamisa indoda eyenzakeleyo inganxibanga e-esileni. Yayingengomsebenzi ulungileyo kwaye mhlawumbi wayenzima ukunikwa ukwenzakala kwale ndoda. UmSamariya kwafuneka axhase ngokwasemzimbeni ubunzima bendoda yodwa. Ukanti wayibeka indoda kwisilwanyana sayo ukuba imse kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Uye waxhamla njani umntu okwenzele yonke into? Ngaba ikhona indlela yokubonisa uthando kummelwane, nokuba ayonwabanga okanye ayiloxesha elilungileyo?

7. Uthando luyaphilisa.
Emva kokuba umSamariya ebophe amanxeba ale ndoda, uqhubeka nokunyamekela ngokumsa kwindlu yabahambi aze ayinyamekele. Ngubani oye wafumana unyango ngenxa yokuba uthathe ixesha ukuthanda?

8. Uthando lungumhlatshelo.
UmSamariya wanika umgcini wendlu yabahambi iidenariyo ezimbini, ezilingana nomvuzo weentsuku ezimbini. Ukanti ekuphela komyalelo awunikileyo kukukhathalela abonzakeleyo. Kwakungekho mbuyiselo ngembuyekezo.

UJennifer Maggio uthethe oku ngokukhonza ngaphandle kokulindela nantoni na ukubuya kwi-aritlce ​​yakhe, "Izinto ezili-10 iBandla elinokuzenza ukuphumelela abangakholwayo:"

“Ngelixa kuyinto entle xa umntu esimkhonzileyo esipha eyona nto, intliziyo, enkosi, ayimfuneko okanye ayimfuneko. Inkonzo yethu kwabanye kunye nokuzinikela kwethu ekwenzeni abanye kukwinto uKristu asele esenzele yona. Akukho Okuninzi."

Ziintoni onokuzincama ngenxa yomntu osweleyo?

9. Uthando luqhelekile.
Unyango lwabonzakeleyo aluzange luphele xa umSamariya kwafuneka emkile. Endaweni yokuba ayishiye yedwa loo mntu, wayiphathisa umphathi wendlu yabahambi. Xa sithanda ummelwane, umSamariya usibonisa ukuba kulungile kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukubandakanya abanye kule nkqubo. Ungabandakanya bani ukubonisa uthando komnye umntu?

10. Uthando luthembisa.
Xa umSamariya wayishiya indlu yabahambi, waxelela umgcini-ndlu yokuhlala ukuba uza kuzihlawula zonke ezinye iindleko ekubuyeni kwakhe. UmSamariya wayengenatyala lanto ixhoba, nangona kunjalo wathembisa ukubuya aze ahlawule iindleko zalo naluphi na ukhathalelo olongezelelekileyo olufunwa yiloo ndoda. Xa sibathanda abanye, umSamariya usibonisa ukuba silandele inkathalo yethu, nokuba asinyanzelekanga kubo. Ngaba ukhona umntu ekufuneka ujikile kuye ukubonisa ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani?

IBHONASI! 11. Uthando lunenceba.
“'Nguwuphi kwaba bathathu ocinga ukuba wayengummelwane walowo wawela ezandleni zamasela?' Ingcali yezomthetho yaphendula yathi: "Ngulowo ubenenceba kuye." Athi uYesu kuye, Hamba uye kwenjenjalo ”uLuka 10: 36-37.

Ibali lalo mSamariya lelomntu owabonisa inceba komnye. Inkcazo kaJohn MacArthur yenceba icatshulwe kweli nqaku leCrosswalk.com, "Yintoni amaKristu ekufuneka eyazi ngenceba."

“Inceba kukubona indoda ingenakutya kwaye uyondle. Inceba ibona umntu ocela uthando kwaye emnika uthando. Inceba ibona umntu yedwa kwaye imnika inkampani. Inceba iyasanelisa isidingo, hayi ukuziva nje, ”utshilo uMacArthur.

UmSamariya ngewayekwazile ukuhamba emva kokubona intswelo yale ndoda, kodwa emva koko waba nemfesane. Kwaye wayenokuqhubeka ehamba emva kokuziva enovelwano. Sonke sikwenza oku rhoqo. Kodwa wenza ngenxa yemfesane yakhe wabonisa inceba. Inceba yimfesane isebenza.

Inceba sisenzo esenziwa nguThixo xa esiva imfesane nothando ngathi. Kwivesi edumileyo, uYohane 3:16, siyabona ukuba uThixo uyasibona kwaye uyasithanda. Wenza olo thando ngenceba ngokuthumela umsindisi.

“Kuba wenjenje uThixo ukulithanda kwakhe ihlabathi ude wancama uNyana wakhe okuphela kwamzeleyo, ukuze bonke abakholwayo kuye bangafi kodwa babe nobomi obungunaphakade”.

Yintoni imfuno yommelwane wakho ekuqhubela kwimfesane? Sisiphi isenzo senceba esinokuhamba kunye noluvo?

Uthando alukhethi buso.
Ummelwane wam uMary sele efudukile kwaye usapho olutsha lumthengele ikhaya. Ngelixa ndinokuzifaka kwityala lokuphendula ngakumbi njengombingeleli okanye umLevi, ndiyazicelela umngeni ekuphatheni abamelwane bam abatsha ngendlela umSamariya ebeya kwenza ngayo. Kungenxa yokuba uthando alukhethi buso.

UCortney Whiting ngumfazi onamandla kwaye ungumama wabantwana ababini. Wafumana iiMasters zakhe kwiTheology evela eDallas Theological Seminary. Emva kokusebenza ecaweni phantse iminyaka eli-15, uCortney okwangoku usebenza njengenkokeli elawulayo kwaye ubhalela iiNkonzo ezahlukeneyo zobuKristu. Unokufumana ngaphezulu komsebenzi wakhe kwibhlog yakhe, iiNdawo eziVuliweyo.

Ngolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokuba ungamthanda njani ummelwane wakho, funda:
Iindlela ezili-10 zokuthanda ummelwane ngaphandle kokumangaliswa: “Ndaziva ndinetyala ngomyalelo kaKrestu wokuba ndinike ummelwane wam kuba ndandingabazi nabantu abaninzi abandingqongileyo. Ndinezizathu zokungamthandi ummelwane wam kule ncwadi, kodwa andifumananga gatya lomthetho wesibini mkhulu, uMateyu 22: 37-39. Emva kweenyanga zokuphikisana noThixo, ndade ndankqonkqoza kummelwane wam ndabamemela ikofu kwitafile yam yasekhitshini. Bendingafuni ukuba sisilo okanye fanatic. Ndandifuna nje ukuba ngumhlobo wabo. Nazi iindlela ezilishumi ezilula onokuthi umthande ummelwane wakho ngaphandle kokuba ungaqhelekanga. "

Iindlela ezi-7 zokuthanda ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu: “Ndiqinisekile ukuba sonke siyalazi iqela labantu abavela kwimeko ethile yobomi okanye imvelaphi kwaye sizaliswe yimfesane nothando ngabo. Sikufumanisa kulula ukuthanda abamelwane njengoko sizithanda thina. Kodwa ayisoloko ishukunyiswa yimfesane ebantwini, ngakumbi abantu abanzima ebomini bethu. Nazi iindlela ezisixhenxe esinokubathanda ngazo abamelwane bethu. ”