Iindlela ezili-10 zokukhulisa ukuthobeka ngokunyaniseka
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kufuneka sithobeke, kodwa ke singenza njani ukuze sithobeke? Olu luhlu lubonelela ngeendlela ezilishumi esinokuthi sihlakulele ngazo ukuthobeka okunyanisekileyo.
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Yiba ngumntwana omncinci
Enye yeendlela ezibaluleke kakhulu esinokuthi sithobeke yafundiswa nguYesu Krestu:
“UYesu wabizela umntwana kuye, wammisa phakathi kwabo
Uthe ke yena, Inene, ndithi kuni, Ukuba anithanga niguquke, nibe njengabantwana aba, aniyi kukha ningene ebukumkanini bamazulu.
"Nabani na ozithobayo njengalo mntwana mncinanana ngoyena mkhulu ebukumkanini bamazulu" (Mateyu 18: 2-4).
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Ukuthobeka kukhetho
Enoba sinekratshi okanye sithobekile, lukhetho lomntu ngamnye esilwenzayo. Umzekelo oseBhayibhileni ngokaPararo, owakhetha ukuba nekratshi.
Wangena uMoses noAron kuFaro, bathi kuye, Utsho uYehova, uThixo wamaHebhere, ukuthi, Kunini na ungavumi ukuzithoba phambi kwam? (IEksodus 10: 3).
INkosi isinike inkululeko yokuzikhethela kwaye ayiyi kuyithatha, nokuba ayenzi ukuba sithobeke. Nangona singanyanzelwa ukuba sithobeke (bona # 4 ngezantsi), eneneni ukuthobeka (okanye hayi) kuya kuhlala kulukhetho ekufuneka silwenzile.
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Ukuthobeka ngeNtlawulelo kaKrestu
Intlawulelo kaYesu Krestu yeyona ndlela ekufuneka siyifumene ngayo intsikelelo yokuthobeka. Kungenxa yedini laKhe ukuze sikwazi ukoyisa imeko yethu yendalo, yokuwa, njengoko kufundisiwe kwiNcwadi kaMormoni:
"Ngenxa yokuba umntu wemvelo ulutshaba lukaThixo, kwaye wabakho ukususela ekuweni kuka-Adam, kwaye uya kuba njalo, ngonaphakade kanaphakade, ngaphandle kokuba uyanikezela kumtsalane woMoya oyiNgcwele, ajike umntu wendalo abe ngcwele intlawulelo kaKrestu iNkosi, nokuba ngumntwana, uthobekile, ululamile, uthobekile, unyamezele, uzele luthando, ukulungele ukuzithoba kuzo zonke izinto iNkosi ibona kufanelekile ukuba ziyenze kuye, nokuba umntwana uzithoba kuyise "( Mozaya 3:19).
Ngaphandle kukaKristu, ibingenakwenzeka into yokuba sithobeke.
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Ukunyanzelwa ukuthobeka
INkosi ihlala ivumela izilingo kunye nokubandezeleka ukuba kungene ebomini bethu ukusinyanzela ukuba sithobeke, njengakwabantwana bakwa-Israyeli:
Uze uyikhumbule yonke indlela akuhambise ngayo uYehova uThixo wakho, le minyaka imashumi mane entlango, ukuba akuthobe, akubonise, akwazi okusentliziyweni yakho, ukuba woyigcina imithetho yakhe, akuyi kuyigcina, (Dut. 8: 2).
“Ke ngoko, banoyolo abo bazithobayo ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa ukuba bathobeke; kungenjalo, ngamanye amazwi, banoyolo abo bakholelwa kwilizwi likaThixo… ewe, ngaphandle kokukhokelwa ekubeni balazi ilizwi, okanye bade banyanzelwe ukuba balazi, phambi kokuba bakholelwe ”(Alma 32:16).
Ubuya kukhetha eyiphi?
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Ukuthobeka ngomthandazo kunye nokholo
Singamcela uThixo ukuba athobeke ngomthandazo wokholo.
"Kwaye kwakhona ndiyakuxelela, njengoko besenditshilo ngaphambili, ukuba, njengoko wawusele ubufumene ubuqaqawuli bukaThixo. Ngokukwanjalo ndingathanda ukuba ukhumbule, kwaye uhlale ukhumbula, ubukhulu bukaThixo, nokungabi nto kwakho nokulunga kwakhe. Ukuzeka kade umsindo ngakuwe, izidalwa ezingafanelekanga nezithobekileyo nakwinzulu yokuthobeka, zibiza igama leNkosi yonke imihla kwaye zime ziqinile kukholo lwento ezayo. “(Mozaya 4:11).
kukwasisenzo sokuthobeka njengoko siguqa kwaye sizithoba kuthando lakhe.
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Ukuthobeka ukusuka ekuzila
Ukuzila ukutya yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokwakha ukuthobeka. Ukunikezela ngemfuno yethu yokwenyama kungasikhokelela ekubeni sibe nokomoya ngakumbi ukuba sigxila ekuthobekeni kwethu hayi kwinto yokuba silambile.
"Ke mna, xa begula, iingubo zam bezenziwe ngelinen. Ndiwuthobisile umphefumlo wam ngokuzila ukudla, umthandazo wam wabuyela esizalweni sam" (Ndumiso 35:13).
Ukuzila kunokubonakala kunzima, kodwa yiyo le nto kuyenza njengesixhobo esinamandla. Umnikelo wemali (olingana nokutya obuya kukutya) kwabo bahluphekileyo nabasweleyo kuthiwa ngumnikelo okhawulezileyo (jonga umthetho wokunikela isishumi) kwaye sisenzo sokuthobeka.
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Thobeka: sisiqhamo somoya
Ukuthobeka kuza ngamandla oMoya oyiNgcwele. Njengoko amaGalati 5: 22-23 efundisa, ezintathu "zeziqhamo" zonke ziyinxalenye yokuthobeka:
"Kodwa isiqhamo soMoya luthando, uvuyo, uxolo, ukubandezeleka, ubumnandi, ukulunga, ukholo,
"Ubulali, ubumnene ..." (ugxininiso longezwa).
Inxalenye yenkqubo yokufuna ukukhokelwa nguMoya oyiNgcwele kukukhulisa ukuthobeka okunyanisekileyo. Ukuba kunzima ukuthobeka, unokukhetha ukubekezela kunye nomntu ovavanya umonde wakho ngokufuthi. Ukuba uyasilela, zama, zama kwakhona!
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Bala iintsikelelo zakho
Le yeyona ndlela ilula, kodwa isebenzayo. Njengoko sizipha ixesha lokubala nganye yeentsikelelo zethu, siya kuziqonda ngakumbi zonke izinto asenzele zona uThixo. Olu lwazi lodwa lusinceda ukuba sithobeke ngakumbi. Ukubala iintsikelelo zethu kuya kusinceda siqonde ukuba sixhomekeke kangakanani kuBawo wethu.
Enye indlela yokwenza oku kukubekela bucala ixesha elimiselweyo (mhlawumbi imizuzu engama-30) kwaye wenze uluhlu lwazo zonke iintsikelelo zakho. Ukuba uyabambeka, cacisa ngakumbi, uchaze nganye yeentsikelelo zakho. Enye indlela kukubala iintsikelelo zakho yonke imihla, umzekelo kusasa xa uvuka kuqala okanye ebusuku. Ngaphambi kokulala, cinga ngazo zonke iintsikelelo ozifumeneyo ngaloo mini. Uyakumangaliswa yindlela ukugxila ekubeni nentliziyo enombulelo kuya kunceda ukunciphisa ikratshi.
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Yeka ukuzithelekisa nabanye
CS Lewis uthe:
“Ikratshi likhokelela kuzo zonke ezinye izinto ezimbi… Ikratshi alikuthandi ukuba nento, kodwa linokungaphezulu kunendoda elandelayo. Masithi abantu bayazingca ngokuba zizityebi, abahlakaniphileyo, okanye abahle, kodwa akunjalo. Bayazingca ngokuba batyebile, bakrelekrele, okanye bajongeke kunabanye. Ukuba wonke umntu abe sisityebi ngokulinganayo, akrelekrele, okanye akhangeleke entle ngekhe kubekho nto unokuzingca ngayo. Kukuthelekisa okwenza ukuba uzingce: uyolo lokuba ngaphezulu kwabanye. Yathi yakunyamalala into yokhuphiswano, ikratshi lanyamalala "(Mere Christianity, (HarperCollins Ed 2001), 122).
Ukuze sithobeke kufuneka siyeke ukuzithelekisa nabanye, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba sithobeke ngelixa sizibeka ngaphezulu kwelinye.
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Ubuthathaka buhlakulela ukuthobeka
Njengokuba "ubuthathaka buye baba namandla" sesinye sezizathu zokuba sidinga ukuthobeka, ikwayenye yeendlela esinokukhulisa ngayo ukuthobeka.
Kwaye ukuba abantu beza kum, ndiza kubabonisa ubuthathaka babo. Ndiza kunika amadoda ubuthathaka ukuze akwazi ukuthobeka; kwaye ubabalo lwam lwanele kubo bonke abantu abazithobayo phambi kwam; kuba ukuba bayazithoba phambi kwam, kwaye banokholo kum, ndiza kuzomeleza izinto ezibuthathaka kubo "(Etere 12:27).
Ubuthathaka ngokuqinisekileyo ayihlekisi, kodwa iNkosi iyasivumela ukuba sibandezeleke kwaye sizithobe ukuze somelele.
Njengoninzi lwezinto, ukukhula kwentobeko yinkqubo, kodwa xa sisebenzisa izixhobo zokuzila, umthandazo, kunye nokholo siyakufumana uxolo njengoko sikhetha ukuzithoba ngeNtlawulelo kaKrestu.