10 iindlela ezilula zokuba ngumntu owonwabileyo
Sonke siziva sonwabile kwaye ngamnye kuthi uneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokufika apho. Nanga amanyathelo eli-10 onokuwathatha ukwandisa i-joie de vivre yakho kunye nokuzisa ulonwabo ngakumbi kubomi bakho:
Yiba kunye nabanye abakuthandayo. Izifundo zibonisa ukuba sonwaba ngakumbi xa sikunye nabo bonwabileyo. Hlala kunye nabonwabileyo kwaye badlule.
Melana nexabiso lakho. Into oyifumanayo iyinyani, into oyaziyo ukuba ilungile, kwaye yintoni oyikholelwayo zizinto zonke ezixabisekileyo. Ukuhamba kwexesha, kokukhona ubahlonela, kokukhona uya kuziva ngakumbi kunye nabo ubathandayo.
Yamkela into elungileyo. Jonga ubomi bakho kwaye uthathe isitokhwe sezinto ezisebenzayo, kwaye ungasusi into kude kuba ayifezekanga. Xa izinto ezintle zenzekile, kunye nabancinci, bavumele bangene.
Khawufane ucinge, Musa ukoyika ukujonga eyona nto uyifunayo kwaye uyabona ukuba uyayiqonda. Abantu abaninzi bayayiphepha le nkqubo kuba abafuni kuphoxeka ukuba izinto azisebenzi. Inyani yile yokucinga ukuba ufumana into oyifunayo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuyiphumeza.
Yenza izinto ozithandayo. Mhlawumbi awukwazi ukuhamba ngemoto yonke imihla okanye uthathe iiholide rhoqo ngexesha, kodwa okoko unako ukwenza izinto ozithandayo amaxesha ngamaxesha, uyakufumana ukonwaba ngakumbi.
Fumana injongo. Abo bakholelwa ukuba banegalelo kwintlalontle yoluntu bathambekele ekuziva ngcono ngobomi babo. Uninzi lwabantu lufuna ukuba yinxalenye yento enkulu kunabo, kuba luyanelisa.
Mamela intliziyo yakho. Nguwe wedwa owaziyo okugcwalisayo. Usapho kunye nabahlobo bakho banokucinga ukuba uya kuba ulunge kwinto engadadisi isikhephe sakho. Kunganzima ukulandela ulonwabo lwakho. Yiba sisilumko kwaye ugcine umsebenzi wakho wosuku okwangoku.
Zikhuphe, hayi abanye. Kulula ukucinga ukuba omnye umntu unoxanduva lokukufeza, kodwa inyani kukuba luxanduva lwakho ngokwenene. Nje ukuba uyiqonde, unamandla okufika apho ufuna ukuya khona. Yiyeke ukugxeka abanye okanye ilizwe kwaye uya kufumana iimpendulo zakho ngaphambili.
Vula uvule utshintsho. Nokuba ayiziva kakuhle, utshintsho kuphela kwento onokuthembela kuyo. Utshintsho luya kwenzeka, ke yenza izicwangciso zokulungiselela iimeko ezinokubakho kunye nokuseta ngokweemvakalelo kumava.
Bhakela ngokuzonwabisa okulula. Abo bakuthandayo, iinkumbulo ezixabisekileyo, ijeyisi ezinoburharha, imihla eshushu kunye nobusuku obunenkwenkwezi, ezi zizibophelelo ezibophelelayo kunye nezipho eziqhubeka ukunika.
Ulonwabo kunye nokufezekiswa kuyafikelelwa, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akuphumeleli. Ukuqonda ukuba yintoni esebenzayo kuwe linyathelo lokuqala lokufumana ngakumbi.