Izinto ezi-3 esizifundisa abantwana bethu xa sithandaza
Kwiveki ephelileyo ndipapashe isiqwenga apho bendikhuthaza umntu ngamnye kuthi ukuba athandaze xa ethandaza. Ukusukela ngoko iingcinga zam ngomthandazo ziye zatshintshela kwelinye icala, ngakumbi ngokubhekisele kwimfundo yabantwana bethu. Ndiya ndisiba ngakumbi ukuba enye yezona ndlela zibalulekileyo zokuhambisa inyaniso yokomoya ebantwaneni bethu yimithandazo yethu. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba xa sithandaza nabantwana bethu, abantwana bethu bafunda malunga nobudlelwane bethu neNkosi kunye noko sikukholelwayo ngoThixo. Masiqwalasele izinto ezintathu esizifundisa abantwana bethu xa besimamele sithandaza.
1. Xa sithandaza, abantwana bethu bafunda ukuba sinolwalamano olunyanisekileyo neNkosi.
Kule Cawe iphelileyo bendincokola nomhlobo wam ngezinto ezifundwa ngabantwana xa bemamele abazali babo ukuba bathandaze. Waye wabelana nam ukuba xa emdala umthandazo kayise ayifomula kwaye wayebonakala eyinto kuye. Kodwa kule minyaka idlulileyo umhlobo wam uqaphele utshintsho kulwalamano lukatata osele aluphele neNkosi. Into ebalulekileyo yeyokuba eyona ndlela iphambili azibonayo ngayo utshintsho kukumamela indlela athandaza ngayo utata wakhe.
Ndikhule ndinomama owayenobuhlobo obuthathaka neNkosi kwaye ndiyazi ukusuka kwindlela awayethandaza ngayo. Xa ndandisengumntwana, wandixelela ukuba nokuba bonke abahlobo bam bayekile ukuba ngabahlobo bam, uYesu wayeya kuba ngumhlobo wam ngamaxesha onke. Ndiyakukholwa. Isizathu sokuba ndimkholelwe kukuba xa ethandaza, ndingatsho ukuba wayethetha nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni.
2. Xa sithandaza, abantwana bethu bafunda ukuba sikholelwa ukuba uThixo unako kwaye uya kuyiphendula imithandazo yethu.
Ngokunyaniseka, ukufunda ukuthandaza njengeqela eMelika kwakunzima kum. Xa mna nomfazi wam sasihlala eMbindi Mpuma, sasidla ngokuba phakathi kwamaKristu alindele ukuba uThixo enze izinto ezinkulu. Sasiyazi indlela ababethandaza ngayo. Kodwa umyalezo ufikile kum ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo kuninzi lweentlanganiso zomthandazo endiye kuzo e-United States: Asikholelwa ukuba kuya kwenzeka nto xa sithandaza! Ndifuna abantwana bam bazi ukuba xa sithandaza, sithetha noThixo onamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba angayiphendula imithandazo yethu kwaye osikhathalele ngokwaneleyo ukuba angasimela.
(Nceda uqaphele ukuba awuvelisi ukholo olunjalo ukubonisa ubungqina ekunzima ukukholelwa. ngaye, kodwa sesinye isihloko esomnye usuku.)
3. Xa sithandaza, abantwana bethu bafunda ukuba yintoni esiyikholelwayo kuThixo.
Ndakhe ndacinga ngayo ngakumbi okoko ndafunda incwadi esandula ukupapashwa nguFred Sanders, Izinto Ezinzulu zikaThixo: Indlela uBathathu Emnye eguqula ngayo yonke into. Imodeli esisiseko yebhayibhile kukuthandaza kuBawo, ngesiseko sento ayenzileyo uNyana, enikwe amandla nguMoya. Ewe kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba sinokunxibelelana nabantwana bethu umbono ongafanelekanga woBathathu Emnye ngokuhlala sithandaza kuYesu njengomhlobo okanye ngokujolisa kuMoya kwimithandazweni yethu. (Anditsho ukuba umbulelo ubulela uYesu ngokufa kwakhe emnqamlezweni okanye umthandazo kuMoya oyiNgcwele umcela ukuba akugunyazise ngobungqina, ayisiyo imodeli yebhayibhile leyo.)
Abantwana bakho baya kufunda kuwe ukuba uThixo ungcwele ngokumamela kwindlela ozivuma ngayo izono zakho; ukuba uThixo nguThixo wamandla xa umnqula; ukuba kubaluleke ngokwenene kuThixo xa umbiza ngexesha lesidingo, njalo njalo.
Xa ndindedwa neNkosi, omnye wemithandazo endithandaza ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye yile: “Nkosi, ndifuna ukuba yinyani. Andifuni ukuba yinyani. Ndidinga ubabalo lwakho ukuze ndiphile ngale nto ndiyifundisayo. " Kwaye ngoku, ngenceba kaThixo, ndifuna abantwana bam babone into efanayo kum. Andibathandazeli; Ndiyathandaza eNkosini Kodwa ndicinga ukuba kuhle ukukhumbula ukuba abantwana bethu bamamele.