Izizathu ezi-3 zokuphepha ubukrakra
Izizathu ezi-3 zokuphepha ubukrakra
Xa ungatshatanga kodwa ufuna ukutshata, kulula kakhulu ukuba krakra.
AmaKrestu ava iintshumayelo malunga nokuba intobelo izisa njani iintsikelelo kwaye uyazibuza ukuba kutheni uThixo engakusikelele ngeqabane. Uthobela uThixo ngokusemandleni akho, uthandazela ukudibana nomntu olungileyo, kodwa akwenzeki.
Kuba nzima ngakumbi xa abahlobo okanye izalamane zonwabile emtshatweni nakubantwana. Ubuza usithi: “Kutheni kungenxa yam, Thixo? Kutheni ndingabinayo le banayo? "
Ukuphoxeka ixesha elide kunokukhokelela kumsindo kwaye ingqumbo inokukhula ibe ingqumbo. Rhoqo awuqondi ukuba uye watyhubela kwisimo sengqondo sokucaphuka. Ukuba kwenzeke kuwe, Nazi izizathu ezithathu ezilungileyo zokuphuma kuloo mgibe.
Ubukrakra bonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho noThixo
Ubukrakra bunokubeka kubudlelwane obuphikisanayo noThixo umbeke ityala ngokungatshati kwaye ucinga ukuba uyakohlwaya ngesizathu esithile. Ayilunganga kwaphela kuba iSibhalo sithi uThixo akapheleli nje ekuthandeni wena, kodwa uthando lwakhe luhlala luhleli kwaye alunamibandela.
UThixo ufuna ukukunceda, akakwenzakalisa: “Musa ukoyika, kuba ndinawe; musa ukubhekabheka, kuba ndinguThixo wakho, ndiya kukomeleza, ndikuncede; ndiya kukuxhasa ngesandla sam sokunene. (Funda uIsaya 41:10.)
Ubudlelwane bakho kunye noYesu Krestu ngumthombo wamandla akho xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Ukukrakra kulibala ithemba. Ukukrakra ngokungalunganga kukhokelela kwingxaki yakho, kunokuba kubhekiswe kuThixo.
Ubukrakra buzahlukanisa nabanye abantu
Ukuba ufuna ukutshata, isimo sengqondo esikrakra sinokukoyikisa iqabane elinokubakho. Ycinge. Ngubani ofuna ukubandakanyeka nomntu okhohlakeleyo kunye no-cynical? Awungekhe ulifune iqabane elinezi mpawu, akunjalo?
Ubukrakra bakho bengohlwayanga ngokusapho kwaye bohlwaye usapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo. Ekugqibeleni, baya kudinwa ukuhamba nge-tiptoe ejikeleze ubuhle bakho kwaye bakushiye wedwa. Ke uya kuba yedwa kunangaphambili.
NjengoThixo, bayakuthanda kwaye bafuna ukukunceda. Bafuna okona kulungileyo kuwe, kodwa ubukrakra buyabagxotha. Andinatyala. Abazintshaba zakho. Utshaba lwakho lokwenyani, lukuxelela ukuba unelungelo lokuba krwada, nguSathana. Ukudimazeka kunye nobukrakra zimbini zeendlela zakhe azithandayo zokumka kuThixo.
Ukukrakra kukuphazamisa kwinto yakho efanelekileyo
Awunguye umntu ongenabuntu, onamandla. Awuhlaseli abantu, wehla kwaye ungavumi ukubona nantoni na elungileyo ebomini. Ayisiyiyo wena, kodwa uthathe into oyithandayo. Uthathe indlela engalunganga.
Ngaphandle kokuba ukwindlela engalunganga, unengqalutye ebukhali kwisihlangu sakho, kodwa unenkani kakhulu ukuba uyimise uyisuse. Ukushukumisa loo ngqalutye kwaye ubuyele kwindlela elungileyo kwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwicala lakho. Nguwe kuphela onokuphelisa ubukrakra bakho, kodwa kufuneka ukhethe.
Amanyathelo ama-3 aya kwinkululeko ekukrakra
Thatha inyathelo lokuqala ngokuya kuThixo nokumcela ukuba abenoxanduva ngobulungisa bakho. Ukonzakalisiwe kwaye ufuna ubulungisa, kodwa ngumsebenzi wakhe lowo, hayi owakho. NguYe owenza izinto ezilungileyo. Xa ubuyisela kuye olo xanduva, uya kuziva umthwalo onzima ushiya ngasemva.
Thatha inyathelo lesibini ngokubulela uThixo ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo onazo. Ngokugxila kokuhle kunokubi, uya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe ufumane uvuyo olubuyela ebomini bakho. Xa uqonda ukuba ubukrakra lukhetho, uya kufunda ukuyala kwaye ukhethe uxolo kunye nokwoneliseka endaweni yoko.
Thatha inyathelo lokugqibela ngokuzonwabisa kunye nokuthanda abanye abantu kwakhona. Akukho nto inomtsalane ngaphezu komntu onothando novuyo. Xa usenza olo gxininiso ebomini bakho, ngubani owaziyo ukuba zeziphi izinto ezintle ezinokwenzeka?