Izitshixo ezi-4 zokufumana ukonwaba ekhayeni lakho
Jonga ezi ngcebiso ukufumana ulonwabo naphina apho uxakeke khona umnqwazi wakho.
Phumla ekhaya
USamuel Johnson wenkulungwane ye-18 uthi: “Ukonwaba ekhaya sisiphelo sawo onke amabhongo. Kimi, oku kuthetha ukuba nantoni na esiyenzayo, nokuba yeyasemsebenzini, ebudlelwaneni okanye ekuhlaleni, sisityalomali kulonwabo oluyimfuneko nolusisiseko oluzayo xa siziva sikhululekile kwaye sanelisekile ekhaya.
Ukonwaba ekhaya kuthetha into eyahlukileyo kuye ngamnye wethu. Kodwa zine izinto ezibalulekileyo ezisoloko ziluncedo ukujonga ukuba ngaba wenza konke okusemandleni ukuvula ucango lwendlu eyonwabileyo.
1) Umbulelo La
umbulelo ngumkhuba osempilweni kwaye unokuthatha iindlela ezininzi ekhaya. Ungayibulela intuthuzelo elula yokuba nekhaya oza kubuyela kulo yonke imihla, ulonwabo olufumanayo kwilanga lasekuseni ngefestile ethile, okanye ubuchule bommelwane wakho egadini. Nokuba umncinci okanye umdala, ukuphawula izinto zokuba nombulelo kuya kukukhokelela kulonwabo ekhaya.
2) Ukwabelana ngexabiso lentlalontle
Olunye uluvo lwabantu ngokuhlwa ngokugqibeleleyo ekhaya yindibano yokwamkela abahlobo kunye nosapho. Ezinye zihlala ziyimidlalo yebhodi kunye nokuthetha okuncinci, ukunqwenela ukuba yedwa ekhaya. Nokuba ungoyena mntu uhlala ekhayeni lakho okanye ukuba wabelana ngendawo yakho, kubalulekile ukuba ulonwabo lwakho lube ngokucacileyo malunga nokwanelisa kwaye kukuthoba kwaye nokumamela oko abanye banokukufuna kwaye bakufune indlu ekwabelwana ngayo.
3) Ububele kunye nemfesane
Ikhaya elonwabileyo yindawo enemvakalelo kunye nendawo yokuhlala yenyama. Nika ingqalelo indlela othetha ngayo nabanye nakwikhaya lakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ujonge kwimfesane, uvelwano kunye nothando. Esi sisakhono esikufaneleyo ukusiphuhlisa, ngakumbi xa usabelana ngekhaya lakho nomnye umntu kwaye ungasoloko uhlangana. Njengoko umhlobo wethu uSamuel Johnson watshoyo, "Ububele busemandleni ethu, nokuba awukho."
4) Beka izinto eziza kuqala
Akukho mntu unokugcina yonke into ekhaya ngalo lonke ixesha. Kukho amatyala okuhlawula, imisebenzi eyenziwa ekhaya, izixhobo zombane ukugcina-zininzi kakhulu kuluhlu lwezinto ekufuneka zenziwe ukuba zingagcwaliswa. Uya kwandisa ukonwaba kwakho ukuba ubeka phambili ezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu, njengokulungisa amatyala akho kunye nokuphelisa "iphunga elimnandi", kwaye uyeke konke kuhamba. Ukuba kukho imfuneko, yongeza ukuyalela ngqo kuludwe lwakho lwezinto ekufuneka zenziwe ukuze wenze into ekonwabisayo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba wenza owona msebenzi ubalulekileyo wokuzinakekela.