I-4 IMIYALELO YOKUQINISA UTHANDO NOTHANDO
Namhlanje ndiza kuthetha ngothando nolonwabo kwaye, ngakumbi, malunga nolonwabo lwakho lwemihla ngemihla. Ulonwabo lwakho akufuneki ukuba lube ngumthombo wolonwabo womnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela zokuba wonke umntu afezekise eyakhe indlela yolonwabo, ebonelelwa yiNgelosi yoMgcini. Ukufumana ulonwabo ngakumbi suku ngalunye, ndikunika imiyalelo emi-4 eya kuthi incede ukukhokela kunye nokukhulisa uthando kunye nolonwabo kubomi bakho obuyimpumelelo.
Kuthetha ntoni ukonwaba "mihla le"?
Ndiyathetha ukuba thina-bantu-sihlala singoneliseki bubomi bethu bangoku. Isithsaba esidlulileyo sithatha ixesha lolonwabo olungasoloko luthetheleleka (siyalibala- kuba siyayithanda- ukuba sikhe sanamaxesha anzima) kwaye sicinga ngekamva "elonwabisayo" kwaye nokuba kutheni-ke ungawuboni umfanekiso omkhulu ? -ithweswe isithsaba ngempumelelo. Kodwa ngelixa silila ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye siphupha ngekamva eliqinisekileyo, ixesha, ixesha lethu, liyadlula kwaye liyinkcitha. Xa sivuka (kuba ubomi busibona sivukile, akunjalo?) Asonwabanga ngakumbi!
Anditsho ukuba ungambeki umfundisi wakho esenza izicwangciso zexesha elizayo, ndithetha ukuba uthando kunye noKonwaba, ulonwabo oluqinisekileyo nolunaphakade, luqala apha nangoku!
Olu luhlobo lokonwaba iNgelosi yakho ekugcina ikunikeza ukuba ulufunde; "Hlakulela" namhlanje.
Imiyalelo yokuhlakulela uthando kunye nokonwaba
Nangona kunjalo, unokubuza: indlela yokuhlakulela ulonwabo? Ngaba ilula? Ewe ndiyakwazi ukukuqinisekisa oko kwaye ndiza kukubonisa kungekudala.
Ezi zinto zine zisisiseko endinokuzibiza ngokuba yi "4 Commandments" ye-Guardian Angel ziintsika ezine zobomi obunempumelelo. Hlakulela uthando kunye nolonwabo:
Umyalelo woku-1: kukuhlakulela iziyolo ezincinci zobomi
Ukusuka kulonwabo olufunyanwa ekutyeni xa ulambile, ukusela xa unxaniwe, ukulala xa udiniwe kukonwaba okufunyanwa kukubona umhlobo, ukuwola umzali, ukubona ilanga liqhekeza amafu okanye ukuva imvula ipholile ishushu Usuku lwasehlotyeni ... zonke iindlela zokuzonwabisa okuncinci ebomini.
Umyalelo wesibini: funda kwakhona indlela yokuzithanda
Yeka ukuzibek 'ityala, uzive unetyala kwaye uzixabisile; funda ukuba uyi - ngokwakho - oyena mntu ubalaseleyo okhoyo kwaye oya kuze abekho.
Kuya kufuneka kwakhona uqonde ukuba ulutshaba lwakho olubi kakhulu xa uphambi kwesipili sothando kunye nolonwabo.
Umyalelo wesithathu: amava ngalo lonke ixesha lokuvuya njengoko unakho
Thatha mzuzu uziva wonwabile. Khawufane ucinge ukuba iyakuhlala ngonaphakade kwaye uyingenise, kuba yonke into inesiphelo. Nangona kunjalo, zxelele ukuba iintlungu, njengovuyo, ziya kuphela ekugqibeleni. Uya kudikwa kukukhapha kwaye ashiyele kwelinye ikamva; njengayo yonke into eyenzayo
Umyalelo we-4: akukho nto yenzeka ngamathuba
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba nantoni na eza ngendlela yakho, (uvuyo okanye usizi) uyayenza kuba uyitsalele kuwe ukuze ufumane ubomi phambi kobomi obungunaphakade. Khumbula ukuba yonke into iyadlula, ayinasiphelo kwaye yexeshana kuphela ukuze usondele kubunaphakade obungcwele.
Ukuseka le mithetho mine njengemigaqo yobomi kuthetha ukuyenza ibe ziintsika ezine zetempile. Ngaphakathi kwezi, ngoku unokuziqhelanisa "nezithethe zobomi" ezilandelayo. Zilula kodwa ziyasebenza kwaye ziya kukukhokelela kulonwabo yonke imihla. Hlakulela uthando kunye nolonwabo kwaye i-Guardian Angel yakho ihlala ikujongile.