Iingcebiso ezi-4 zokukunceda ukuba uyeke ingqumbo
Iingcebiso kunye nezibhalo zokukunceda ususe ubukrakra entliziyweni yakho nasemphefumlweni.
Inzondo inokuba yinxalenye yokwenene yobomi. Ukanti ibhayibhile iyalumkisa: "Intukuthelo iyasibulala isidenge, nomona uyabulala osisiyatha" (uYobhi 5: 2). UPawulos ululeka ngelithi, "umkhonzi weNkosi akamele kulwa; umele ukuba nokulunga kuye wonke umntu; Oku kulula kakhulu kunokwenza! Inyathelo lethu lokuqala lokuba ngabantu abazele lubabalo noxolo (2 Petros 2: 24) kukwenza iintliziyo zethu zibone imiqondiso elumkisayo yokuba ingqumbo iyakha ngaphakathi kwethu.
Ezinye "iiflegi ezibomvu" zibonisa ukuba sinokukhangela iingxaki.
Ngaba unomdla wokubuyisela, ukuziphindezela?
Kodwa uThixo akasiniki mvume yokwenzakalisa nabani na, ngelizwi okanye ngesenzo. Wayalela: "Musa ukufuna ukuziphindezela okanye ube nenqala ngakumntu ophakathi kwabantu bakho, kodwa uze umthande ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu" (iLevitikus 19:18).
Ngaba kuya kufuneka ubonakalise ukuba ulungile?
Thina bantu abafayo asiyithandi kwaphela xa sisiva ukuba abanye bacinga ukuba siphosisile okanye sizizidenge; sidla ngokubacaphukisa abanye kuba benzakalisile ikratshi lethu Isilumkiso IMizekeliso 29:23 ithi: “Ikratshi liyamthoba umntu.
Ngaba ufumana "ukuhlafuna" imvakalelo ngokungathi ngumngxunya?
Xa simile ekucingeni ngeemvakalelo zethu kangangokuba asikwazi ukungaziyeki, asisakwazi ukulandela icebiso likaPawulos elithi “Yibani nobubele nemfesane omnye komnye, nixolelane, njengokuba naye uKristu Yesu wenjenjalo. uxolelwe ”(Efese 4: 32).
Ukukhupha ingqumbo yinto ekufuneka siyenzile ukuze sibe noxolo lwengqondo kwaye siphucule ubudlelwane bethu noThixo.Ngabantu abanokholo, asinakubeka ityala ukugxeka abanye ngokungonwabi kwethu. Naxa abanye bonile, sibizwa ukuba sivavanye iintliziyo zethu kwaye siphendule abanye ngothando.
Ke singaqala njani? Zama ezi ngcebiso zine zendele kwilizwi likaThixo ukukunceda uyeke ingqumbo nokukrakra kwaye ufumane uxolelo.
1. Xa usentlungwini, vumela ukuba uzive ukhathazekile.
Yitsho ngokuvakalayo, kude nokuva kwabanye, yintoni kanye le ibuhlungu. "Ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngokundijongela phantsi" okanye "Ndibuhlungu kuba engakhathali ngokwaneleyo ukuba angamamela." Ke ngoko nikela imvakalelo kuKristu, owazi kakuhle ukuba kuhlatywe njani ukuziva. "Ingaphela inyama yam nentliziyo yam: Iliwa lentliziyo yam, nesabelo sam, nguThixo ngonaphakade. (Iindumiso 73:26).
Thatha uhambo olungxamisekileyo.
Tshisa ezinye zeemvakalelo ukuze intloko yakho icace gca. Izibhalo ezingcwele zisixelela ukuba "Lowo uthiya umzalwana okanye udade usebumnyameni kwaye uhamba ebumnyameni" (1 Yohane 2:11). Singasoloko siphuma kobo bumnyama ngokwenza umthambo omncinci. Ukuba uthandaza xa uhamba, kungcono kakhulu!
3. Gxila kuhlobo lomntu ofuna ukuba lulo.
Ngaba uza kuyivumela inzondo ime endleleni? Ukuphonononga uluhlu lweempawu zomKristu kwi-2 Peter 1: 5-7 kwaye ubone ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ziyahambelana nazo. Ngaphandle koko, cela iNkosi ukuba ikubonise indlela yokulungelelanisa iimvakalelo zakho ezinzima kunye nomnqweno wokumkhonza.
4. Yandisa uxolo komnye.
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba uyenze ngokuvakalayo, kodwa kufuneka uyenze entliziyweni yakho. Ukuba oku kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, thandaza kwiNdumiso 29:11 uphendule uthi: “Nkosi, nika amandla kulo mntu undenzakalisileyo; UThixo amsikelele lo mntu ngoxolo. Awunakuhamba gwenxa ngokuthandazela ukulunga kwabanye!