Amanyathelo ama-4 ekufuneka uwaqwalasele xa iBandla likuphoxa
Masinyaniseke, xa ucinga ngecawe, igama lokugqibela ofuna ukulidibanisa nalo kukuphoxeka. Nangona kunjalo, siyayazi ukuba iicawe zethu zigcwele ngabantu abaye badana kwaye benzakala yicawe - okanye ngakumbi amalungu ecawe.
Into kuphela endingafuni kuyenza kukukhanyisa ezi zinto zidaniswayo kuba ziyinyani. Kwaye ngokunyaniseka, akukho nto imbi njengecawe. Isizathu sokuba ukuphoxeka kwecawa kukhathazeke kakhulu kukuba kuhlala kungafuneki kwaye kuhlala kuyothusa. Kukho izinto ezithile olindele ukuba zenzeke ngaphandle kwecawe, nangona kunjalo xa zisenzeka ngaphakathi ecaweni ukuphoxeka kunye nentlungu inkulu kwaye kunokwenzakalisa.
Yiyo loo nto ndifuna ukuthetha namaxhoba-abo bakwicala lokufumana. Kuba kuphinda kuvame ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kwaye abanye abantu abaphindi bavuke. Unaloo nto engqondweni, ndifuna ukukunika izinto ezine oza kuzenza xa icawe ikuphoxisa.
1. Chonga ukuba ngubani okanye yintoni ekuphoxileyo
Kukho intetho ethi ungamlahli umntwana emanzini okuhlamba, ukanti inxeba lecawe linokukwenza ukuba wenze loo nto. Ungayeka yonke into, uhambe kwaye ungaze ubuye. Ngokusisiseko, umkhuphe umntwana ngaphandle ngamanzi okuhlamba.
Into yokuqala endikhuthaza ukuba uyenze kukuchonga ukuba ngubani okanye yintoni ekuphoxileyo. Amaxesha amaninzi, ngenxa yentlungu, sithatha isenzo sambalwa kwaye siwasebenzise kwiqela liphela. Ingangumntu okwenzakalisayo okanye ekudumisayo, kodwa endaweni yokuchonga umntu lowo utyhola intlangano yonke.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokubakho amaxesha xa oku kufanelekile, ngakumbi ukuba umbutho ugubungela umntu obangele umonakalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uchonge ingcambu yokuphoxeka. Oku ayizukukwenza uzive ubhetele, kodwa kuya kukuvumela ukuba ujolise ingqalelo yakho ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona kunokuba nzima, musa ukugxeka iqela ngezenzo zomnye okanye ezimbalwa, ngaphandle kokuba iqela liphela linetyala.
2. Thetha ngokuphoxeka xa kufanelekile
Xa ukudana kwenzeka, ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba ujongane nokudana, kodwa kuphela xa kufanelekile. Kukho amaxesha apho kufanelekileyo ukujongana nentlungu kwaye kukho amaxesha apho inxeba linzulu kakhulu ukuba liphilise kuloo ndawo. Ukuba kunjalo, olona nyango lupheleleyo kukuba ushiye loo meko kwaye ufumane enye indawo yokunqula.
Ndingumzali wabantwana ababini kwaye omnye uneemfuno ezizodwa. Ngenxa yeemfuno zonyana wam okhethekileyo, usenokungasoloko ethe cwaka kwaye abe esecaweni xa kufanelekile. Ngenye iCawa umfundisi wecawa esasinikela kuyo ubungqina wafunda ileta phambi kwebandla lomntu otyelele kuloo cawa. Babesithi icawe intle kodwa abantwana abanengxolo kwindawo engcwele babaphazamisa. Ngelo xesha, kwakungekho bantwana babini kuphela kwingcwele; bobabini bebengabam.
Intlungu awayibangela ngokufunda le leta yabangela ukuphoxeka apho sasingakwaziyo ukuphinda siphilile. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, sayishiya icawa kungekudala. Senze isigqibo, ndingongeza emthandazweni, ukuba abantwana bethu banokucaphukisa singayi kwindawo efanelekileyo. Ndabelana ngale bali ukukwazisa ukuba kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kujongana nokudana okanye uqonde ukuba mhlawumbi ukwindawo ephosakeleyo. Undoqo kukuqinisekisa ukuba ufikelela kwisigqibo sakho ngomthandazo, hayi ngokweemvakalelo.
Inye into ekufuneka uyiqaphele kukuba ukuphoxeka esikufumene kuloo cawa enye akusenzanga sokonwaba. Sivume ukuba icawe ethile yayingeyondawo ifanelekileyo yosapho lwethu; kwakungathethi ukuba zonke iicawa azilungelanga usapho lwethu. Ukusukela ngoko siye saqhubeka nokufumana icawe ehlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zethu kwaye ikwanenkonzo yezidingo ezizodwa zonyana wethu. Ke, ndiyakukhumbuza, musa ukumlahla umntwana ngethumbu lamanzi.
Ngelixa ucinga emthandazweni malunga nokwenza, ungafumanisa ukuba eyona nto imbi kakhulu kwimeko yakho kukubalekela kuyo. Ngamanye amaxesha le yinto olufuna utshaba lwakho uSathana. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka uphendule ngomthandazo nangaphandle kwemvakalelo. USathana unokusebenzisa ukudana ukudala ukudimazeka kwaye ukuba kuyabonakala ngokwenyani kunokukhokelela kumka ngaphambi kwexesha. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ubuze uThixo, uyafuna ukuba ndiyenze okanye lixesha lokuba ndihambe? Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokujongana nokudana, nantsi isikhokelo esingqinisisiweyo sendlela yokwenza oku:
Ukuba elinye ikholwa lone kuwe, yiya ngasese uyokubonisa ukona. Ukuba omnye umntu uyamamela kwaye uvumile, ubuye wamfumana kwakhona loo mntu. Kodwa ukuba awukwazi, yiza omnye okanye amabini kunye nawe kwaye ubuye umva, ukuze yonke into oyithethayo iqinisekiswe ngamangqina amabini okanye amathathu. Ukuba umntu akavumi ukumamela, yiya ecaweni. Ke ukuba akasamkeli isigqibo secawa, phatha njengomntu okrexezileyo okanye ungumqokeleli werhafu. ”(Mateyu 18: 15-17).
3. Cela ubabalo lokuxolelwa
Nangona isezintlungwini zentlungu, nokuba uxolelwe unokuba neziphumo ezibi kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko, ngaphandle kokukhathaza nokuba benze ntoni, kuya kufuneka ucele kuThixo ukuba ubabalisele. Oku kuyonakalisa xa ungakwenzi.
Ndiyabazi abantu abonzakele ecaweni kwaye bavumela ubugwenxa babo ukuba buzonakalise kulwalamano lwabo noThixo nabanye abantu. Ngendlela, neli iphepha eliphume nje kwincwadi yokudlala yotshaba. Yonke into eqhuba wedge, idala ukwahlula okanye eyahlulahlula umzimba kaKristu ishukunyiswa lutshaba. Ukungaxoleli ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuyenza le nto kuwe. Kuya kukuthatha ukhwele kwaye ndikushiye kwindawo eya kuhlala wedwa. Xa uwedwa, usengozini.
Isizathu sokuba uxolelo lifune kangaka kungenxa yokuba uziva ngathi uyazithethelela ngokuziphatha kwaye ungafumani ulwaneliseko olupheleleyo okanye ukuziphindezela. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukuxolelwa akukho malunga nokufumana ibango lakho. Ukuxolelwa kuthetha ukuqiniseka ngenkululeko yakho. Ukuba awuxoleli, uya kuvalelwa ngonaphakade yintlungu kunye nokudana okuye kwenziwa kuwe. Oku kuphoxeka kuya kuguqula ibe sisigwebo sobomi. Inokuba neziphumo ezibalaseleyo kunokuba unokucinga, yiyo loo nto kufuneka ucele kuThixo ukuba ubabalwe. Anditsho ukuba oku kuya kuba lula, kodwa kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuba uyakufuna ukubalekela intolongo yokuphoxeka.
Emva koko uPetros weza kuYesu wambuza: 'Nkosi, kangaphi na endifanele ndimxolele umzalwana wam okanye udadewethu ondone? Ukusa kwizihlandlo ezisixhenxe? Uphendule uYesu wathi, "Ndithi kuwe, hayi kasixhenxe, kodwa amaxesha amashumi asixhenxe anesixhenxe" (Mateyu 18: 21-22)
Khumbula ukuba ukujongana njani nokudana kwakho
Kwakukho ezi zibiyeli ezazithandwa kangangexesha elithile, iWWJD. Wayeza kwenza ntoni uYesu? Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukhumbule xa kukho ukudimazeka. Xa ujonga lo mbuzo, beka isakhelo esifanelekileyo.
Nantsi into endithetha yona: ebeya kwenza ntoni uYesu ukuba ndiyemthoba? Akukho mntu ebusweni bomhlaba onokuthetha ukuba akakaze amdanise uThixo.Wenze ntoni uThixo xa wawenza? Ukwenze njani? Yile nto ekufuneka uyikhumbule xa umntu ekudumaza.
Ndiyavuma ukuba imeko yendalo kukuzithethelela ngentlungu kwaye ungayiphathi ngendlela awayeza kwenza ngayo uYesu, ekuhambeni kwexesha, oku kukukhathaza ngaphezu kwabo bakuphoxile. Khumbula la magama:
Bambanani nixolelane, ukuba omnye komnye unesikhalazo komnye umntu. Uxolelwe njengokuba neNkosi ikuxolele. Kwaye kuzo zonke ezi zinto zibalaseleyo beka uthando, olubamanyanisa bonke kumanyano olugqibeleleyo "(KwabaseKolose 3: 13-14, kongezwa ugxininiso).
Olu luthando: asikukuba samthanda uThixo thina, ikukuba wasithandayo yena, wamthuma uNyana wakhe ukuba abe sisicamagushelo sezono zethu. Bahlobo abathandekayo, kuba uThixo usithande kakhulu, kufuneka sithandane nathi ”(1 Yohane 4: 10-11, kugxininiswa).
"Ngaphezu kwako konke, thandanani ngokunzulu, kuba uthando lugubungela inkitha yezono" (1 Petros 4: 8).
Xa udanile, ndithandaza ukuba ukhumbule uthando olukhulu awenzele lona uThixo, kunye nezono zakho ezininzi, ezixolelwe nguThixo. Ayenzi lula intlungu kodwa ikunika umbono ofanelekileyo wokujongana nayo.