Imithandazo emi-4 yonke indoda kufuneka imthandazele umfazi wayo

Awusoze umthande umfazi wakho ngaphezu kokuba umthandazela. Zithobe phambi koThixo usomandla kwaye umcele ukuba enze okuphela kwaKhe anokukwenza ebomini bakho: eli linqanaba lokusondelelana elingaphaya kwako konke ukunikezelwa lihlabathi. Ukumthandazela kukwenza uqonde ukuba ungobutyebi obungakanani na, umfazi akunikileyo uThixo. Ugalela impilo yakhe epheleleyo ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya.

Vumela le mithandazo mine ikukhokele njengoko ukhalela kuye yonke imihla. (Abafazi, ungaphoswa yile mithandazo mihlanu inamandla yokuthandazela umyeni wakho.)

Khusela uvuyo lwakhe
Ndiyabulela, bawo, ngesipho somfazi wam. Nguwe onika zonke iintsikelelo ezilungileyo nezigqibeleleyo, kwaye ndiyamangaliswa yindlela obonisa ngayo uthando lwakho ngaye. Nceda undincede ndisithande esi sipho simangalisayo (Yakobi 1:17).

Yonke imihla, iimeko kunye nokuphazamiseka kunokubamba ngokulula uvuyo ku ________. Nceda umthintele ekuvumeleni le mingeni iphazamise ingqalelo yakhe kuWe, umbhali wokholo lwakhe. Mnike uvuyo uYesu awayenalo xa wayesenza ukuthanda kukaYise emhlabeni. Ngamana angathatha wonke umzabalazo njengesizathu sokufumana ithemba kuWe (> KumaHebhere 12: 2 –3;> uYakobi 1: 2 –3).

Xa eziva ediniwe, Nkosi, hlaziya amandla akhe. Umjikeleze nabahlobo abakuthandayo nabaya kuthwala imithwalo yakhe. Mnike isizathu sokuziva ehlaziyekile kukhuthazo lwabo (u-Isaya 40:31; kwabaseGalati 6: 2; kuFilemon 1: 7).

Ngamana angazi ukuba uvuyo lweNkosi ngumthombo wamandla akhe. Mkhusele angadinwa kukwenza oko umbizele ukuba akwenze yonke imihla (Nehemiya 8:10; Galati 6: 9).

Mnike isidingo esikhulayo kuwe
Bawo, uzanelisa zonke iimfuno zethu ngokobutyebi bakho kuKristu. Ndiyamangaliswa kukuba ukhathalele ngokwaneleyo ukuba wonelise amaxhala ethu emihla ngemihla kwaye uqaphele zonke iinkcukacha zobomi bethu. Kwaneenwele ezisentloko zethu zibalwa njengokugcina abantwana bakho (KwabaseFilipi 4:19; UMateyu 7:11, 10:30).

Ndiyavuma ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndizicingela njengononophela i _______. Ndixolele ngokuthatha okwakho okwam. Uncedo lwakhe luvela kuwe. Ukuba kuxhomekeke kum, ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kukuyeka. Kodwa awusoze usilele, kwaye uyenza ibe ngumyezo ohlala unamanzi awaneleyo. Uhlala uthembekile, usoloko wonele. Mncede azi ukuba yiyo yonke into ayidingayo (Ndumiso 121: 2; IsiLilo 3:22; Isaya 58:11;> Yohane 14: 8 –9).

Ukuba uhendelwa ukuba afune intuthuzelo kwenye into, ngamana endaweni yoko aqonde indlela amandla oMoya wakho oyiNgcwele amvumela ngayo ukuba aphuphume lithemba noxolo. Akukho nto kulo mhlaba ithelekiswa nobukhulu bokwazi kwakho (KwabaseRoma 15:13; KwabaseFilipi 3: 8).

Mkhusele ekuhlaselweni ngokomoya
Wena Thixo ulikhaka lethu. Uyasikhusela kutshaba olufuna ukutshabalalisa, kwaye awuyi kusivisa iintloni. Ingalo yakho inamandla kwaye ilizwi lakho linamandla (Ndumiso 3: 3, 12: 7, 25:20; Eksodus 15: 9; Luka 1:51; Hebhere 1: 3).

Xa utshaba luhlasela, vumela ukholo lwakho kuwe lukhusele yena ukuze akwazi ukugcina isikhundla sakhe. Ngenisa iLizwi lakho engqondweni ukuze abeke ecaleni uhlaselo lwakhe kwaye alwe umlo olungileyo. Mncede akhumbule ukuba usinika uloyiso ngoKristu (> kwabase-Efese 6: 10-18; 1 kuTimoti 6:12; 1 kwabaseKorinte 15:57).

Uwoyisile kwaye uwaxhobile amandla okomoya kwaye yonke into ixhomekeke kuwe. Enkosi emnqamlezweni, ______ sisidalwa esitsha, kwaye akukho nto inokusohlula kuthando lwakho olungaqhelekanga nolungagungqiyo (Kolose 2:15; 1 Petros 3:22; 2 KwabaseKorinte 5:17;> KwabaseRoma 8:38 -39).

Utshaba loyisiwe. Wamtyumza intloko (Genesis 3:15).

Yakha uthando lwakhe
Bawo, wena wasithanda kuqala kangangokuba wathumela uNyana wakho ukuba athathe indawo yethu. Kuyamangalisa ukucinga ukuba ngelixesha singaboni, uKrestu wasifela. Akukho nto sinokuyenza enokuthelekiswa nobutyebi bobabalo lwakho (1 Yohane 4:19; Yohane 3:16; KwabaseRoma 5: 8; Kwabase-Efese 2: 7).

Nceda ________ ukhule ngaphambili kuthando lwakhe Kuwe. Ngamana angamangaliswa ngakumbi ngamandla akho, ubuhle kunye nobabalo lwakho. Ngamana angazi ngakumbi yonke imihla malunga nobunzulu nobubanzi bothando lwakho kwaye aphendule ngothando lwakhe olukhulayo (Ndumiso 27: 4; Kwabase-Efese 3:18).

Mncede ukuba andithande kuko konke ukusilela kwam njengoko ndifunda ukumthanda njengoko uKristu ethanda ibandla. Ukuze sibonane njengokuba usibona, kwaye sonwabele ukwanelisa iminqweno yomnye nomnye emtshatweni wethu (kwabase-Efese 5:25;> 1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 2-4).

Nceda umnike uthando olukhulayo kwabanye kuyo yonke into ayenzayo. Mbonise indlela yokuba ngunozakuzaku kaKrestu emhlabeni kunye nokuba ngumfazi ochazwe luthando ukuze abanye bazukise. Ndiyabulela kolo thando, angabelana ngeendaba ezilungileyo nawo wonke umntu (2 KwabaseKorinte 5:20; UMateyu 5:16; 1 AbaseTesalonika 2: 8).