5 amanyathelo asebenzayo okwandisa ubulumko obungcwele
Xa sijonga umzekelo woMsindisi wethu wendlela esifanele sithande ngayo, siyabona ukuba "uYesu ukhule ebulumkweni" (Luka 2:52). Iqhalo elisoloko lungumceli mngeni kum libonisa ukubaluleka kokukhula ngokuthi, "Intliziyo yoqondayo ifuna ulwazi, kodwa umlomo wezidenge wondla ubudenge" (IMizekeliso 15:14). Ngamanye amagama, umntu okrelekrele ufuna ulwazi ngenjongo, kodwa izidenge ziyaxhamla ngokungacwangciswanga, zihlafuna ngokungaginyisi mathe kumagama nakwiingcamango ezingabalulekanga, ezingenancasa nezingadli sondlo.
Sikondla ngantoni mna nawe? Ngaba siyasithobela isilumkiso seBhayibhile malunga nengozi "yokulahla inkunkuma?" Ngamana singafuna ngenjongo kwaye silumkele ukuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo kwizinto ezingenaxabiso. Ndiyazi ukuba bendilangazelela kwaye ndithandazela ulwazi notshintsho lukaThixo kwindawo enye yobomi bam ukuze ndiqonde ukuba kudlule iminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ngaphandle kokulandela icebo lakhe kwaye ndilifuna.
Ndakhe ndafunda kumhlobo wam indlela ephathekayo neyonwabisayo yokuzibekela iinjongo kwaye ndizikhumbuze ngokufuna ubulumko bukaThixo kwaye ndikhusele ingqondo yam ngenyaniso yakhe. Lo mkhuba undinike indlela emandiyilandele kwaye ndiqiniseke ukuba ndilandela uThixo ngentliziyo yam yonke.
1. Ndenza iifayile ezintlanu minyaka le.
Mhlawumbi uyamangaliswa ukuba kutheni le nto ingabonakali ngokomoya. Kodwa hlala nam!
2. Zijolise kubuchule.
Emva koko, khetha iindawo ezintlanu ofuna ukuba yingcali kuzo kwaye uleyibhelishe ifayile nganye nganye. Ilizwi lesilumkiso: khetha iindawo ezikummandla wokomoya. Uyawukhumbula umzekeliso? Awufuni kuzondla ngemisebenzi engenaxabiso. Endaweni yoko, khetha izihloko zexabiso laphakade. Ukukunceda ubone ezi ndawo zintlanu, phendula imibuzo: "Ufuna ukwaziwa ngantoni?" kwaye "Zeziphi izihloko ofuna ukudibanisa igama lakho nazo?"
Ndinomhlobo, uLois, umzekelo, ogama lakhe abantu abaninzi banxulumana nomthandazo. Nanini na xa sifuna umntu ecaweni ukuba afundise ngomthandazo, akhokele usuku lomthandazo kubafazi bethu, okanye avule umhlangano wokuthandaza, wonke umntu ngokuzenzekelayo umcinga. Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20, ebefunda oko kufundiswa yiBhayibhile ngomthandazo, ejonge kufutshane apho amadoda nabafazi beBhayibhile bethandazayo, efunda ngokuthandaza, kunye nokuthandaza. Umthandazo ngokuqinisekileyo yenye yeendawo zakhe zobungcali, esinye sezikhundla zakhe ezintlanu.
Omnye umhlobo waziwa ngolwazi lweBhayibhile. Nanini na xa abafazi ecaweni befuna umntu oza kukhokelela kuphando lweBhayibhile okanye ukubonelela ngesishwankathelo sabaprofeti, sasibiza uBetty. Ukanti omnye umhlobo uthetha namaqela olawulo lwexesha lecawa. Aba bafazi bathathu baba ziingcali.
Kule minyaka ndiqokelele uluhlu lweefayile ezigcinwe ngabafundi kwiklasi yam "Umfazi Ngokwentliziyo kaThixo". Nazi ezinye zezihloko zokukhuthaza ukucinga kwakho. Baqala kwiindlela ezisebenzayo (ukubuk 'iindwendwe, impilo, imfundo yabantwana, umsebenzi wasekhaya, isifundo seBhayibhile) ukuya kwezakwalizwi: iimpawu zikaThixo, ukholo, isiqhamo soMoya. Babandakanya indawo zenkonzo-ingcebiso ngeBhayibhile, ukufundisa, inkonzo, ulungiselelo lwabasetyhini- kunye neendawo zobuntu-ubomi bokuzinikela, amaqhawe okholo, uthando, ubuhle bokuzinikela. Bajolise kwindlela yokuphila (abangatshatanga, ukuba ngabazali, umbutho, ubuhlolokazi, indlu yomfundisi) kwaye bagxile kubuntu: ubungcwele, ukuzeyisa, ukuzithoba, ukwaneliseka. Ngaba awungethandi ukuya kwizifundo eziza kufundiswa ngaba bafazi kwiminyaka elishumi okanye ufunde iincwadi abanokuzibhala? Ngapha koko, ukukhula ngokomoya okunjalo kulungiselela ubulungiseleli. Okokuqala kukugcwalisa ukuze ube nento onokunikela ngayo kubulungiseleli!
3. Gcwalisa iifayile.
Qalisa ukufaka ulwazi kwiifayile zakho. Batyeba njengoko ukhangela ngenyameko kwaye uqokelela yonke into malunga nesihloko sakho ... amanqaku, iincwadi, iijenali zorhwebo kunye nokusikwa kweendaba ... ukuya kwiisemina ... ukufundisa ngalo mbandela ... ukuchitha ixesha nabo babalaseleyo kwezi ndawo, uqokelela ubuchopho babo ... uphando kwaye uphucule amava akho.
Ngaphezu kwako konke, funda iBhayibhile yakho ukuze uzibonele ngokwakho ukuba uthini uThixo malunga neendawo onomdla kuzo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iingcinga zakhe lulwazi oluphambili olunqwenelayo. Ndide ndibhale neBhayibhile yam. Iipinki ibalaselisa iivesi ezinomdla kwabasetyhini kwaye ngekhe umangaliswe kukwazi ukuba enye yeefayile zam ezintlanu ngu "Abafazi". Ukongeza ekuphawuleni loo manyathelo ngepinki, ndibeka u "W" kumda osecaleni kwabo. Nantoni na ebhayibhileni yam ebhekisa kwabasetyhini, abafazi, oomama, oomama, okanye abafazi beBhayibhile ine "W" ecaleni kwayo. Ndenze into enye no "T" wokufundisa, "TM" kulawulo lwexesha, njl. Nje ukuba ukhethe iindawo zakho kwaye usete ikhowudi yakho, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba uyakonwaba kwaye ukhuthazeke kangangokuba uya kuvuka ngaphambi kokuba i-alamu ikhale ixhala lokuvula iLizwi likaThixo, ukubhala ngesandla, ukufuna ubulumko baKhe kwimimandla ekuyo. Ufuna ubulumko!
4. Zibukele ukhula.
Ungaze uvumele iinyanga okanye iminyaka ihambe unesiqingatha sethemba lokuba into iya kutshintsha ebomini bakho okanye uya kusondela kuThixo ngaphandle kokulungiselela kunye negalelo elivela kuwe. Uyakonwaba kwaye umangaliswe xa ujonga ngasemva kwizifundo zakho kwaye uqonde ukuba uThixo usebenze kuwe, ekwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho ukuba inyani yaKhe soze ikulahle okanye ikulahle.
5. Yandisa amaphiko akho.
Ukukhula ngokomoya kukuzilungiselela ubulungiseleli. Kuza kuqala ukugcwalisa ukuze ube nento onokunika ngayo. Njengokuba uqhubeka nomnqweno wolwazi kwizihloko ezihlanu zomoya, khumbula ukuba usebenza kolu lwando lobuqu ukuze uncede abanye.
Njengomhlobo wam othandazayo uLois wazalisa ingqondo yakhe ngezinto zikaThixo kunye nokufunda kwakhe ubomi bonke ngomthandazo, wakuvumela oko kugcwele kugcwalise abanye kubulungiseleli. Ukukhonza abanye kuthetha ukuzaliswa zizinto ezingunaphakade, izinto ezifanele ukwabelwana ngazo. Ukugcwala kwethu kuba kukuphuphuma kobulungiseleli bethu. Yinto ekufuneka siyinike kwaye siyidlulisele kwabanye. Njengomntu othandekayo oqeqeshiweyo oqeqeshiwe ngaphakathi kum, "Akukho nto yokwenza ayilingani nento ephuma". Wanga uYesu angaphila aze akhanye ukusuka kum nakum!