Iindlela ezi-6 zokufumana umsebenzi wakho kunye nobomi obunentsingiselo



Njengoko ndibhalela oku, usapho loonomatse bajikeleza eyadini yam. Kufuneka kubekho ababhaki abalishumi elinambini, abanye betsiba ukusuka kwisebe ukuya kwisebe, abanye iinzipho ezimbalwa emhlabeni, kwaye esinye isiqingatha seshumi elinethemba lokudlula i-alpha squirrel, esesityeni sengqolowa. Isivumelwano sonke siyaphazamisa ngokwaneleyo kumntu one-ADD

I-squirrel.

Ngapha koko, le yimvelaphi yam yokubhala, indawo yam yolonwabo. Into malunga nobomi bukasikonwhe iyazolisa umphefumlo wam. I-squirrels isenokungabi yinto yakho, kodwa amathuba okuba uchonge ngaphandle kwinqanaba elithile. Ukuzingela. Ukukhempisha. Ukubaleka. Ibhayisekile. Woyise imithi.

Indalo kaThixo ngumshumeli omkhulu, ukuba sineendlebe zokuva kunye namehlo ukubona. Uninzi lwexesha, hayi, ndineentloni zokuyithetha. Kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha, xa ikofu iphinde yadilizwa ngendlela eyiyo, intendelezo yam yandisa ecaweni.

Izolo lelinye lala maxesha.

Ndichitha ixesha elininzi ndicinga ngobuni bam kunye nenjongo. Yityhole kwiingcambu zam zemileniyali okanye uRick Warren, kodwa olona loyiko lwam lukhulu kukubetha iwotshi okanye "ukusebenzela le ndoda". Sikho ngaphezulu kwentlawulo enye. Ndiyayikholelwa lo nto.

Nokuba iingqondo zethu azikholwa, imizimba yethu iyakholelwa.

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Oku kundibuyisela kwiiklabhukazi. Ezi zilwanyana zoboya zenza izinto ezifanayo mihla le. Fihla ii-acorns. Ukunyuka imithi. Dlala ukuzingela. Benza izinto zeqela. Akukho namnye owake wafuna squirrel ukuba yintaka, isp okanye umthi. I-squirrels ziyonwaba ngokwaneleyo ukuba ngama-squirrels, Enkosi.

I-squirrels akufuneki inciphe. Bayandazi ukuba ndingubani kwaye kutheni ndilapha.

Ukufumana umsebenzi wakho sisitshixo sobomi obunentsingiselo kuba uphendula imibuzo emibini engaphelelwa lixesha: ndingubani? Kutheni ndilapha?

Uyabona, xa ubuqonda ubunikazi bakho kunye nenjongo yakho, ubomi bunengqiqo. Olu bizo lwakho lobuqu, ibhulorho phakathi kwesazisi kunye nenjongo. Ubizo butshabalalisa ukungqubana (ukuzama ukuba ngomnye umntu kunokuba uThixo akudalele ukuba ubenjalo) kunye nokungakhathali ngokomoya (ubomi obungenantsingiselo).

Uwufumana njani umsebenzi wakho? Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ukukhokela uhambo lwakho.

1. Ubizo lwakho kukuba ungubani, ayisiyiyo le uyenzayo.

Masiqale apha kuba ayikho enye into ebalulekileyo ukuba uyaphoswa yile ngongoma. Umsebenzi wakho okanye ikhondo lomsebenzi ayilulo ubizo lwakho.

Kwabanye bakho ezi ndaba ziyadimaza. Ndiyaxolisa.

Kwabaninzi, nangona kunjalo, ezi ndaba ziyakhulula. Umsebenzi okanye umsebenzi awukuchazi. Ndingafumana amen! Zingazinzi njani imisebenzi, akunjalo? Impendulo: Ndineminyaka engamashumi amathathu ananye kwaye ndisebenza kwinombolo yesithathu.

Ubizo lwakho kunokwenzeka ukuba lwenzeke ngaphandle kwe-9-5 yakho. Ndiyibiza ngokuba yi "side hustle". Ungayibiza ngokuba ngumzali okanye uqeqesho.

Umnxeba wam, ukuba ndikubuza, kukwenza izinto ziphilile. Nokuba isebenza njengeenjineli, ukukhulisa usapho, ukucoca icawa okanye ukubhala, lo mxholo uhambelana.

Xa ufumanisa ubizo lwakho, uyeka eli lize lisisidenge lokuba uThixo unendlela enye ebomini bakho. Isandi sakho simisela umendo wakho, hayi enye indlela ejikelezileyo.

2. Ubizo lwakho lukwenza uzive ungakufanelekeli kwaye ungoyiki.

Ubizo lwakho aluyi kuba lula. Ukufowuna kwakho kunokukushiya ulila kwindawo engekazalwa, kukushiye emnyango weofisi yomcebisi, okanye ukudityaniswa kwezi zimbini. Nokuba kunjalo, kuhlala kukuzisa esiphelweni sakho.

Abantu abaninzi bayasilela ukubiza kwabo kuba bekholelwa ukuba ubomi obunenjongo abulula. Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho nzima, akunjalo? Ndiyathetha, ukuba ayindonwabisi loo nto ayinakuba evela kuThixo.

I-Psssh.

Abantu ababini baseMelika abathanda intuthuzelo nokhuseleko bathetha ubuxoki obuninzi. Nantoni na efanelekileyo ukuba nayo ifuna ukuzincama. Xa ndijonga ezona nzame zibalulekileyo ebomini bam, umtshato, usapho, umfundisi kunye nokubhala kuza engqondweni. Onke la manxeba abhalwe entliziyweni yam, athabatha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla. Kwangelo xesha, yonke loo nto yandibumba ndangumntu ongcono, onovelwano ngakumbi nonemfesane, ndinekratshi kwaye ndidla ngaye.

Unokuba nobomi obulula okanye obunenjongo, kodwa awunakuba nazo zombini.

Unokuba nobomi obulula okanye obunenjongo, kodwa awunakuba nazo zombini.

3. Umsebenzi wakho uhlala uhambisa umhlaba phambili kwaye unegalelo kwinto enye eqhelekileyo.

UThixo uhambela phambili kwindalo kwaye ushukumisela abantu enkululekweni. Umsebenzi wakho uya kwenza okufanayo.

Impumelelo kunye neziphumo azizibonakaliso zomsebenzi. Kuyenzeka ukuba ube phezu kwentaba ngentliziyo engenanto. Uninzi lwexesha lokufumana kwakho umyalezo kwintlambo, kwezo ndawo zingenakukhanya kwindawo ebonakalayo, kwezo ndawo apho ithemba, ubuhle kunye nokusesikweni zibaluleke kakhulu.

4. Umsebenzi wakho ubandakanya abahlali.

Kuba ubizo lwakho luthunywe nguthixo, luyakuhlala lubandakanya ukwamkela nokunikela. Kumazwi kaYesu, “uze umthande ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu.” Awunakumthanda ummelwane wakho ngaphandle kokuba uzithanda. Kwaye ngekhe uzithande ngokwenyani ukuba awumthandi ummelwane wakho.

Ubizo lwakho luya kukhuthaza abanye, luzalise abantu ngethemba, okanye lukhulule abanye kumakhamandela okungekho sikweni. Ubizo lwakho alusoze malunga nawe, ngamanye amagama.

Inokudibanisa kunye nehlabathi. Iyakudibanisa kwindalo kaThixo, yonke le nto. Ngandlela ithile idibene kwaye konke kubalulekile.

5. Ufumana ubizo lwakho ekudibaneni kwento ekukhathazayo, akujike akuvuse ebhedini.

Yintoni ejika entliziyweni nasengqondweni yakho? Yintoni okungekho sikweni okanye ukwaphuka okucaphukisayo? Uziva nini uyaphila? Ukuba izibonelelo azinangxaki, ubuya kwenza ntoni? Ukuba unonyaka wokuphila, ubuya kuchitha njani?

Xa italente yakho kunye nendlela eyahlukileyo yokufumana uthando inxibelelana namava, ubona umbono wakho. Kwaye intle. Ixesha liyama.

Nika ingqalelo kula maxesha.

6. Ukuthetha kwakho kuyakunyusa kumandla okwangoku.

Xa uphila ngobizo lwakho, intliziyo kunye nengqondo yakho ziyeke ukuhlala kwixa elidlulileyo nakwixesha elizayo. Umzuzu kuphela wayo nayiphi na intsingiselo ngalo mzuzu, ngoku. Ubizo lwakho lukuvusa ebuthongweni kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uyalibona ilizwe ukuba linjani, hayi le nto ufuna ukuba yiyo.

Uphulukana nomdla kwimicimbi engabalulekanga. Xa ufumanisa ubizo lwakho, izinto ezinje ngomzimba, impumelelo, kunye neKardashians azinandawo ebomini bakho. Ukuba ukubonakala ngaphezulu sisisiqalekiso seminyaka yethu, njengoko kusitsho uRichard Foster, ubizo luchazo.

Ukuba ngaphezulu sisisiqalekiso seminyaka yethu, ubizo sisiyobisi.

Ukuba uziva ukuba kuninzi ebomini, ulungile. Akuyomfuneko ukuba woyike kusasa ngoMvulo. Udalwe ngentsingiselo, nentsingiselo. Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba ungubani kwaye ungobani na, ungacofa ubizo lwakho. Nceda ufumanise.

Ubabalo noxolo, mawethu.