Izizathu ezi-6 zokuba nombulelo kula maxesha othusayo
Ihlabathi libonakala limnyama kwaye liyingozi ngoku, kodwa likho ithemba kunye nentuthuzelo enokufumaneka.
Mhlawumbi ubambekile ekhaya uvalelwe wedwa, usinda kwinguqulelo yakho yoSuku loMhlaba. Mhlawumbi uya kuqhubeka nokusebenza, ngomsebenzi obalulekileyo ongenakwenziwa kude. Unokuba phakathi kwabantu abaninzi abaphethwe yintswela-ngqesho kwaye uzama ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kobu bumnyama. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, inoveli coronavirus ibutshintshile ubomi njengoko sisazi.
Njengokuba iintsuku neveki ziqhubeka, kungekho siphelo siqinisekileyo salo bhubhane ubonayo, kulula ukuziva unganathemba. Nangona kunjalo, phakathi kobudenge, kukho amaxesha amancinci oxolo kunye novuyo. Ukuba siyayikhangela, kusekho okuninzi esinokubulela ngako. Kwaye umbulelo unendlela yokutshintsha yonke into.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe ...
UNXIBELELWANO LUYAQALA.
Utshaba oluqhelekileyo luhlanganisa abantu, kwaye le yimeko apho uluntu lwehlabathi lujongana nesi sibetho. Abantu abadumileyo beza kunye ukuze bafunde amabali kwaye bakhulise imali yokondla abantwana. Umbhali uSimcha Fisher ubhale imbonakalo entle yezinto ezintle nezihle ezenzeka ngexesha lo bhubhani:
Abantu bayancedana. Abazali ekhaya bamkela abantwana babazali abasebenzayo; abantu baphosa iishepisi kwiivaranda zabamelwane bodwa; Iilori zokutya kunye neeresityu zibonelela ngokutya simahla kubantwana abavaliweyo iinkqubo zesidlo sasemini esikolweni. Abantu basebenzisa imithombo yeendaba ukuhambelana nabo banokuhamba kunye nabangakwaziyo, ke akukho mntu ushiyekileyo ngasemva. Iinkampani ezininzi zamandla kunye namanzi zinqumamisa izaziso zokuvalwa; Abanini mhlaba bayakwalela ukuqokelelwa kwerente, ngelixa abaqeshi babo bemka ngaphandle kwentlawulo; iikhondomu zibonelela ngendawo yokuhlala yasimahla kubafundi abaxakeke kukuvalwa ngequbuliso kweiyunivesithi zabo; Abanye ababoneleli ngeenkonzo ze-intanethi banikezela ngenkonzo yasimahla ukuze wonke umntu akwazi ukuhlala exhumekile; Abadlali bebhasikithi banikela ngenxalenye yomvuzo ukuhlawula imivuzo yabasebenzi bemidlalo abanqunyanyiswe imisebenzi; abantu bajonge ukutya okunzima ukukufumana kwabahlobo abanezidlo ezinesithintelo. Ndikhe ndabona abemi babucala bezinikela ukunceda ukuhlawulela irente abantu ongabaziyo, kuba iyafuneka.
Kubumelwane nakwiintsapho kwihlabathi liphela, abantu basebenza nzima ukunceda, kwaye kuyachukumisa kwaye kuyakhuthaza ukunikela ubungqina.
INTSAPHO EMANINTSI IXABELELA IXESHA EBALULEKILEYO.
Kuxakeke sisikolo, umsebenzi, imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya, kunokuba nzima ukufumana ukukhanya okungenasiphelo njengentsapho. Nokuba kuyonwabisa isikolo ngeepijama okanye ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi emva kwemini "kuba", iintsapho ezininzi ziyalonwabela eli xesha longezelelekileyo kunye.
UMDLALO WOBULELWANE
Ewe kunjalo, iingxoxo kunye nokuzabalaza akunakuphepheka, kodwa oku kunokuba lithuba lokusombulula ingxaki kunye nokwakha izakhono zonxibelelwano (ngakumbi ukuba ukhuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba basombulule ukungavisisani kwabo kunye!).
KUKHO IXESHA ELINGAKUMBI LOMTHANDAZO.
Zombini ngenxa yokuba ubhubhane unika isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuya kuThixo ngomthandazo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba kukho ixesha elikhululekileyo emini, umthandazo usentliziyweni yabaninzi ekhaya. UNathan Schlueter ucebisa ukuba iintsapho ziliguqule eli xesha libe yindawo yokubuyela umva, kwaye bazimisele ukuthandaza kunye nokusondela kuThixo.
Yenza oku kufane nokubuyela ekhaya. Oku kuthetha ukuba umthandazo wosapho oqhelekileyo usentliziyweni yesicwangciso sakho. Sithandazela i-Litany yaseSt. Joseph rhoqo kusasa kunye neRosari ngokuhlwa, sisenza intsimbi nganye ibe nenjongo ekhethekileyo, kubagulayo, kubasebenzi bezempilo, kwabangenamakhaya, kubizo, kuguqulwa imiphefumlo, njl. njl.
Le yindlela entle ukuba usekhaya endaweni yokuqhubeka nokusebenza. Ukucinga ngeli xesha "njengendawo yokubaleka yosapho" yindlela elungileyo yokuphinda uzenze ikheswa kunye nethuba lokukhula ebungcweleni nabantu obathandayo.
KUKHO IXESHA LOKUNIKELA IZIQINISEKISO.
Andazi ngawe, kodwa ezondawo zam zokusasaza ezonxibelelwano zigcwalisiwe ngemifanekiso yeeprojekthi zentlangano yosapho ezivela kubahlobo kunye neetekhnoloji zomsebenzi wobugcisa. Ukuzila ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuhamba ixesha elide okanye ikhalenda egcwele ixesha lokuqeshwa, abantu abaninzi banesithuba semini yabo yokwenza iiprojekthi ezide zokupheka kunye nezokubhaka (isonka esenziwe ngegwele elenziwe, nabani na?), Ukucoca nzulu, izinto zokwenza kunye izinto ozithandayo.
ABANTU Bazama ukuza KUQHAGAMSHELWANO NABAHLULELA BADALA.
Abahlobo andikhange ndithethe nabo ukusukela kwikholeji, usapho oluhlala ngaphandle korhulumente, kunye nabahlobo bam abamelwane bafikelela kubo bonke abantu kwimidiya yoluntu. Sijongana, sinayo "imihla yokudlala ebonakalayo" ngomboniso-kunye nokuxelela kwi-FaceTime, kwaye umakazi wam ufundela abantwana bam iincwadi zamabali kwiZoom.
Nokuba ayithathi indawo yonxibelelwano lomntu, ndiyayibulela itekhnoloji yale mihla ekuvumela ukuba uthethe kwaye unxibelelane nabantu kwihlabathi liphela, ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya.
SIBONAKALISE UKUZE NDIBE NESIMANGALISO SEBOMI ZOBOMI.
U-Laura Kelly Fannuci upapashe lo mbongo kwi-Instagram undishukumisile:
Zizo kanye izinto ezincinci- "uLwesibini odikayo, ikofu kunye nomhlobo" - uninzi lwethu oluphoswa kakhulu ngoku. Ndiyarhana ukuba emva kokuba lo bhubhane udlulile kwaye izinto zibuyele esiqhelweni, siyakuba nombulelo omtsha ngezi zinto zincinci zovuyo endaweni yokuzithatha njengesiqhelo.
Njengoko siqhubeka nokuzimela, ndiyakwazi ukufikelela kumaxesha anzima ngokucinga ngento endingenakulinda ukuyibona xa sele kugqityiwe. Njalo ehlotyeni, nabahlobo bam abamelwane kunye nam sipheka ngasemva kwendlu. Abantwana babaleka engceni, abayeni baxhobisa i-grill, kwaye umhlobo wam osenyongweni umenzela imargaritas edumileyo.
Ngokwesiqhelo ndizithatha lula ezi ntlanganiso; siyayenza rhoqo ngehlobo, ithini into enkulu? Kodwa ngoku, ukucinga ngezi ngokuhlwa ngokungacwangciswanga yinto endifumana. Xa ndinokuthi ekugqibeleni ndikwazi ukuba kunye nabahlobo bam kwakhona, ndikonwabele ukutya kwaye ndiphumle kwaye ndihleke kwaye sincokole, ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuba nombulelo ongazenzisiyo.
Ngamana singangaze siphulukane noxabiso ngesipho salezi zinto zincinci ziqhelekileyo siphoseka kakhulu kuzo ngoku.