“Ngaba yinyani ukuba umfazi wam undijongile esezulwini?” Ngaba abantu esibathandayo abangasekhoyo banokusibona kubomi basemva kokufa?

Xa umntu esimthandayo esifa, sishiyeka sinomlanjana emphefumlweni wethu nemibuzo engamawaka, esisenokungaze sifumane iimpendulo zayo. Eyona nto sizibuza yona ngokufuthi kukuba umntu ongasekhoyo esimthandayo usijongile kusini na zulwini.

Impendulo yalo mbuzo ifumaneka kwi ukholo nethemba yokukwazi ngenye imini ukubona umntu esimkhumbulayo kwakhona. Kuxhomekeka kwiinkcubeko neenkolelo, impendulo inokutshintsha.

Abanye bathi abantu esibathandayo basijongela phantsi sisezulwini sikhusele, sikhuthaze kwaye usixhase kwiingxaki zethu. Bakholelwa ukuba bayakwazi ukubona izenzo kunye neemvakalelo zethu, kwaye banokuba ngumthombo wempembelelo okanye isikhokelo kukhetho lwethu lobomi. Kuthiwa bayakwazi comunicare kunye nathi ngemiqondiso, amaphupha okanye intuitions.

Abanye endaweni yoko abakholwa kwanga abasithandayo bangasibukela sisezulwini. Bakholelwa ukuba emva kokufa, abantu baphelele ngokupheleleyo hlukile ukusuka kubukho basemhlabeni kwaye singenalo ithuba lokujonga okanye ukuphembelela ubomi bethu. Ngokwalo mbono, ukufa kumela isiphelo esiqinisekileyo bobomi kwaye akukho ukuqhubeka kokwazi okanye ubukho ngaphaya kweli nqanaba.

Sanikwa ubomi ukuze sisindiswe

Izimvo ngesi sihloko zinokwahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kumava ngamnye, iinkolelo zenkolo nezenkcubeko, kunye nokutolika komntu. Xa sithetha ngobomi basemva kokufa, yonke into ihleli igutyungelwe yimfihlelo kwaye akwaziwa. Uxwebhu kwi Ilizwi likaThixo weSibini iBhunga leVatican, uthi ubomi bunikwe kuthi «ngenxa yosindiso lwethu», oko kukuthi, ukusibonisa yonke into ekufuneka siyazi ukuba sijolise ngokunzulu kunye nesiseko sethu imfazwe ekhoyo kwiphulo lokufumana ulonwabo kwixesha elizayo kungekhona ukwanelisa iminqweno yethu.

Ngoko ke masiziyeke ukuba singaze sibenayo impendulo, kodwa siyayihlonipha ingcamango yomntu wonke kwaye masibambelele ukuba sifuna into eyenza sizive ngcono, sicinge ngobuso obunoncumo nobuzolileyo babo sibathandayo besijonge sisezulwini.