Guardian Angel: Amava embundwini wokufa
Iincwadi ezininzi zithetha ngamakhulu abantu kwihlabathi liphela abaye banamava asecicini lokufa, abantu ekukholelwa ukuba baswelekile ngokwezonyango, abanamava amnandi kuloo meko babethetha ngayo xa bebuya ebomini. La mava ayinyani kangangokuba atshintshe ubomi bawo. Kwiimeko ezininzi babona izikhokelo zokomoya, izidalwa zokukhanya abaziqhelanisa neengelosi. Makhe sibone amanye ala mava.
URalph Wilkerson uxela ityala lakhe elapapashwa kwincwadi ethi "Return from the Afterlife". Wayesemsebenzini eenkwalini xa wafumana ingozi embi eyamshiya ephuke ingalo nentamo. Walahlekelwa yingqondo, kwaye, evuka ngosuku olulandelayo ephiliswe ngokupheleleyo kwaye enganyangeki ngokungaqondakaliyo, wathi kumongikazi: "Phezolo ndibone ukukhanya okuqaqambe kakhulu endlwini yam kwaye ingelosi ibikunye nam ubusuku bonke."
UArvin Gibson kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Sparks of Eternity" uxela imeko ka-Ann, intombazana eneminyaka esithoba ubudala, eyayinomgaqo we-leukemia; Ngobunye ubusuku wabona inenekazi elihle, eligcwele ukukhanya, elalibonakala ngathi licwecwe lenyulu kwaye lakhukhula yonke into ngokukhanya. Wabuza ukuba ungubani kwaye waphendula wathi yingelosi yakhe emgcinayo. Wamsa "kwihlabathi elitsha, apho umntu aphefumlela khona uthando, uxolo novuyo". Ekubuyeni kwakhe, oogqirha abafumananga zimpawu ze-leukemia.
URaymond Moody, kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Ubomi emva kobomi", ukwabalisa ngemeko yentombazana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, uNina, intliziyo yakhe yema ngethuba lotyando lwe-appendicitis. Njengoko umoya wakhe ushiya umzimba wakhe, ubona inenekazi elihle (ingelosi yakhe) emncedayo etoneleni kwaye imse ezulwini apho ibona khona iintyatyambo ezintle, uBawo ongunaPhakade noYesu; Kodwa bamxelela ukuba makabuye, kuba umama wakhe wayedakumbile.
UBetty Malz kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Angels Watching Over Me", ebhalwe ngo-1986, uthetha ngamava ngeengelosi. Ezinye iincwadi ezinomdla ngala mava angqamene nokufa zii "Life and Death" (1982) nguGqr. UKen Ring, incwadi ethi "Memories of Death" kaMichael Sabom (ngo-1982), kunye nekaGeorges Gallup ethi "Adventures in Immortality" (1982).
UJoan Wester Anderson, kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Where Angels Walk", uxela imeko kaJason Hardy oneminyaka emithathu, eyenzeka ngo-Epreli 1981. Usapho lwakhe lwaluhlala kwindlu yelizwe kwaye inkwenkwana yawela edamini lokuqubha. Bathe bakufumanisa inyani, usana sele lurhaxekile kwaye sele luphantsi kwamanzi ubuncinci iyure, luswelekile eklinikhi. Lonke usapho lwaluphelelwe lithemba. Babiza abongikazi abafika kwangoko bamsa esibhedlele. UJason wayekwikhoma kwaye ngokwabantu akukho nto inokwenziwa. Emva kweentsuku ezintlanu, inyumoniya yaphuhliswa kwaye oogqirha bakholelwa ukuba isiphelo besifikile. Usapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe bathandaza kakhulu ukuba umntwana aphile, kwaye kwenzeka ummangaliso. Waqala ukuvuka kwaye emva kweentsuku ezingamashumi amabini wayesempilweni kwaye wakhutshwa esibhedlele. Namhlanje uJason yindoda enamandla neyomeleleyo, eqhelekileyo. Kwakwenzeke ntoni? Umntwana, ngamagama ambalwa awathethileyo, wathi yonke into imnyama echibini, kodwa "ingelosi ibinam kwaye bendingoyiki". UThixo wayethumele ingelosi engumgcini ukuba imsindise.
Inguqulelo kaGqr. UMelvin Morse, kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Closer to the Light" (1990), uthetha ngemeko yentombazana eneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala uKrystel Merzlock. Uwele edamini lokuqubha warhaxwa; khange anike ntliziyo okanye zimpawu zobuchopho ngaphezulu kwemizuzu elishumi elinethoba. Kodwa ngokungummangaliso wabuya wachacha ngendlela engenakuqondakala ngokupheleleyo yenzululwazi yezonyango. Waxelela ugqirha ukuba, emva kokuwela emanzini, waziva ephilile kwaye uElizabethe wayehamba naye ukuya kubona uYise ongunaPhakade noYesu Krestu. Xa ebuzwa ukuba ngubani uElizabethe, waphendula ngaphandle kokuthandabuza: "Ingelosi yam yokulinda." Kamva uxelele ukuba uBawo ongunaPhakade umbuzile ukuba uyafuna ukuhlala okanye abuye kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuhlala naye. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokuba ebonisiwe umama wakhe kunye nabantakwabo, ekugqibeleni wagqiba kwelokuba abuye nabo. Xa ebuyela ezingqondweni, uxelele ugqirha ezinye iinkcukacha azibonileyo kwaye wazithanda phezulu phaya, ezinje ngebhubhu ebekwe emakhaleni kunye nezinye iinkcukacha ezibonisa ubuxoki okanye into awayeyithetha yayikukubona izinto ezingekhoyo. Ekugqibeleni, uKrystel wathi, "Isibhakabhaka sihle kakhulu."
Ewe, isibhakabhaka sihle kwaye sihle. Kuyahlawula ukuhlala kakuhle apho phezulu ngonaphakade, njengoko iya kuba njalo leya ntombazana ineminyaka esixhenxe yaswelekelwa kukufa kukaGqirha Diana Komp. Eli tyala lapapashwa kwiphephancwadi i <em> Life magazine ngoMatshi 1992. Ugqirha uthi: “Ndandihleli ecaleni kwebhedi yentombazana encinci, nabazali bayo. Intombazana yayikwinqanaba lokugqibela leukemia. Ngaxa lithile wayenamandla okuhlala phantsi aze ancume athi: Ndibona iingelosi ezintle. Mama uyababona? Mamela ilizwi labo. Zange khe ndive iingoma ezimnandi kangaka. Kungekudala emva kokufa kwakhe. Ndiva la mava njengento ephilayo neyinyani, njengesipho, isipho soxolo kum nakubazali bakhe, isipho esivela emntwaneni ngexesha lokufa ». Olunjani uvuyo ukukwazi ukuhlala njengaye kunye neengelosi kunye nabangcwele, sicula kwaye sidumisa, sithanda kwaye simnqula uThixo wethu ngonaphakade!
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