I-Angelology: ungayibuza njani imibuzo kwingelosi yakho yokugada
Ingelosi yakho ekuLondolozayo iyakuthanda, ke inomdla kwinto oyithandayo kwaye uyonwabile ukukunceda ujonge iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakho-ngakumbi xa ungasondela kuThixo kule nkqubo. Nanini na xa unxibelelana nengelosi yakho ngexesha lomthandazo okanye lokucamngca, lithuba elihle lokubuza imibuzo kwizihloko ezininzi. Iingelosi ezingumlondolozi ziyakuthanda ukunika isikhokelo, ubulumko kunye nenkuthazo. Nantsi indlela yokubuza imibuzo kwiNgelosi yakho yoMgcini malunga nexesha lakho elidlulileyo, elangoku, okanye elizayo:
Inkcazo yomsebenzi wengilosi yakho
Ingelosi yakho ekuMgcini iya kuphendula imibuzo ngokomxholo wenkcazo yomsebenzi-yonke into uThixo ayinike ingelosi yakho ukuba iyenzele yona. Oku kubandakanya ukukhusela, ukukukhokela, ukukhuthaza, ukukuthandazela, ukunika iimpendulo kwimithandazo yakho, kunye nokurekhoda ukhetho olwenza ebomini bakho bonke. Ukugcina oku engqondweni kunokukunceda uqonde ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zemibuzo oza kuyibuza ingelosi yakho.
Nangona kunjalo, ingelosi yakho yokugada isenokungazazi iimpendulo zayo yonke imibuzo yakho okanye uThixo angavumeli ingelosi yakho ukuba iphendule imibuzo ethile oyibuzayo. Ke kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngelixa ingelosi yakho ifuna ukukunika ulwazi olunokukunceda uqhubele phambili kuhambo lwakho lokomoya, ngokuqinisekileyo ayizukuveza yonke into ongathanda ukuyazi ngalo mbandela.
Imibuzo malunga nexesha lakho elidlulileyo
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umntu ngamnye unelungelo elilodwa lokugcina umntu ojongileyo kuye ubomi bakhe bonke. Ke ingelosi yakho engumlondolozi inokuba yayikunye nawe ebomini bakho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ikujongile njengokuba ufumana uvuyo kunye nentlungu yazo zonke izinto ezze zenzeka ebomini bakho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Eli libali elityebileyo owabelana ngalo kunye nengelosi yakho! Ke ingelosi yakho engumlondolozi iya kukulungela ukuphendula imibuzo malunga nexesha lakho elidlulileyo, njenge:
"Undikhusele nini kwingozi ebendingayazi?" (Ukuba ingelosi yakho iyaphendula, ungathatha eli thuba ukubulela ingelosi yakho ngenkathalo ayinike yona ngaphambili.)
"Ngawaphi amanxeba adlulileyo ekufuneka ndiwaphilisile (ngokomoya, ngokwasengqondweni, ngokwasemphefumlweni, okanye ngokwasemzimbeni) kwaye ndingakufumana njani ngcono ukuphilisa kukaThixo loo manxeba?"
“Ngubani endinokumxolela ngokundivisa kabuhlungu ngaphambili? Ngubani endakhe ndamkhathaza ngaphambili kwaye ndingaxolisa njani ndize ndifune uxolelwaniso? "
"Zeziphi iimpazamo ekufuneka ndizifundile kwaye yintoni uThixo afuna ukuyifunda kuzo?"
"Kukuphi ukuzisola endikudingayo ukukuyeka, kwaye ndingangcono njani?"
Imibuzo malunga nesipho sakho
Ingelosi yakho yokugada inokukunceda ubone iimeko ezikhoyo ebomini bakho ukusuka kumbono wangonaphakade, oya kukunceda uqonde eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngelixa usenza izigqibo zemihla ngemihla. Isipho sobulumko esivela kumlindi wakho wokugada sinokukunceda ufumane kwaye ugcwalise ukuthanda kwakhe kuwe, ukuze ufikelele kumandla akho amakhulu. Nantsi imibuzo onokuyibuza kumlondolozi wakho wengelosi wesipho:
"Ndithatha sigqibo sini malunga naloo nto?"
"Ndingayisombulula njani le ngxaki?"
"Ndingalulungisa njani ulwalamano lwam nolwaphulwe ngumntu?"
"Ndingayeka njani ukukhathazeka ngale meko kwaye ndifumane uxolo ngayo?"
"UThixo ufuna ndizisebenzise njani iitalente andinike zona?"
"Zeziphi ezona ndlela zokunceda abanye abasweleyo ngoku?"
"Yeyiphi imikhwa yangoku ebomini bam ekufuneka itshintshiwe kuba ayinampilo kwaye iphazamisa inkqubela yam yokomoya?"
"Yeyiphi imikhwa emitsha ekufuneka ndiyiqale ukuze ndikwazi ukuba sempilweni nokusondela kuThixo?"
Ndivakalelwa kukuba uThixo undikhokele ukuba ndijongane nalo mceli mngeni, kodwa ndiyoyika ukuthatha umngcipheko. Ungandinika oluphi ukhuthazo? "
Imibuzo malunga nekamva lakho
Kuyalinga ukubuza i-Guardian Angel yakho ngalo lonke ulwazi malunga nekamva lakho, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ugcine engqondweni ukuba uThixo unokumisela oko ingelosi yakho ikwaziyo ngekamva lakho, kunye nento uThixo ayivumayo ingelosi yakho ukuba ikuxelele ngekamva lakho. Ngokubanzi, uThixo utyhila kuphela ulwazi oludinga ukulazi ngoku malunga nokuza kwenzeka ngokulandelayo-ukukhusela. Nangona kunjalo, i-Guardian Angel yakho iya kukuvuyela ukukuxelela nantoni na enokukunceda ufunde ngekamva. Eminye imibuzo onokuthi uyibuze i-Guardian Angel yakho malunga nekamva lakho ibandakanya:
"Ndingawulungiselela njani lo msitho okanye le meko ivelayo?"
"Sisiphi isigqibo endinokusithatha malunga noku ngoku ukuya kwicala elifanelekileyo kwikamva?"
"Ngawaphi amaphupha uThixo afuna ndiphuphe ngekamva lam kwaye zeziphi iinjongo uThixo afuna ukuzibekela zona ukuze ndizibone zizaliseka?"