Rhoxisa ukuqhomfa "umqondiso ovela kuThixo", ngoku intombi ineminyaka eli-10 ubudala, ibali elihle
UDesiree Burgess Alford, ze Black Diamond, IYunayithedi Steyitsi, wayengatshatanga, engasebenzi kwaye enengxaki yotywala xa wafumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe.
Emva koko wacinga ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo banokukhethaisisu kuba umntwana ngewaye "wonakalisile" ubomi bakhe, njengoko watshoyo yena.
Kodwa uThixo wangenelela.
Njengoko kuchaziwe Ixesha leEpocheneneni, uThixo, ngobusuku bangaphambi kokukhupha isisu, wayiphendula imithandazo yomfazi lowo ngomqondiso.
KuFacebook uDesiree ubhale wathi: “Kubusuku obungaphambili, uThixo wenze ummangaliso ebomini bam. Alukho usuku oludlulayo ndingacingi ngayo yonke into ephantse ndayiphosa. Kunzima nokuchwetheza kodwa ndabelana ngethemba lokukhuthaza omnye umntu osengxakini ”.
Kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo, uDesiree wayebhiyozela ukuba akazilanga kangangeenyanga ezilithoba emva kokoyisa ukuba likhoboka lotywala. Nangona kunjalo, wayengenamsebenzi, umyeni. Akukho kuzinza okanye kozinzo kwezoqoqosho.
Ke yathi yakufumanisa ukuba ikhulelwe, intombazana yaziva isoyikeka. Nangona ukhulele kusapho lwamaKristu, wayecinga nangokucwangcisa isisu.
Xa u-Alcoholics Anonymous wacebisa ukuba athathe ikhefu lokucinga ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo, u-Desiree waya kwindlu yelwandle, ephethwe ngabazali. Kwakungumhla ngaphambi kokukhipha isisu.
Ukuqhuba phantsi kwesibhakabhaka esiluhlaza, uDesiree wajonga phezulu: "Ndixelele uThixo ukuba kufuneka ndigcine olu sana, kufuneka ndifumane uphawu olucace gca njengesibhakabhaka," yatsho le ntokazi.
UDesiree wayengazi ukuba abantu ababini babesele bekwindlu yolwandle belinde ukudibana naye. Abazali bakhe, enyanisweni, babememe isibini esikhulileyo ukuba sithethe naye malunga namava abuhlungu okuqhomfa emva komtshato.
Lowo yayingumqondiso. UThixo wathetha noDesiree ngentshumayelo ecaweni ngobo busuku kwaye, kamva, ngomyalezo welizwi, indawo apho wayefanele ukukhupha isisu samazisa ukuba lo mkhuba uza kulibaziseka ngeentsuku ezimbini.
Ezo mpawu zinika lo mfazi uxolo olukhulu kwaye wagqiba kwelokuba arhoxise yonke into. Wazalwa ke uHartley, ngoku oneminyaka eli-10 ubudala.
Umfazi wathi ubomi bakhe butshintshile kwangoko: naye watshata kwaye namhlanje wabelana ngebali lakhe ukukhuthaza abanye oomama abadinga uncedo.
“Ngamanye amaxesha iintlungu zethu zisitshabalalisa ngonaphakade - watsho- ngubani onokucinga ukuba le ngelosi imnandi iyakuba yile nto kanye ndiyifunayo? UThixo usebenzise ubomi bakhe ukuguqula obam ”.