Yintoni ubudlelwane bokomoya kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo
Elona nxalenye likhulu ngokufunda oku, ube lixhoba le-COVID-19 (coronavirus). Izihlwele zakho ziye zacinywa, imibhiyozo yeLenten yangoLwesihlanu oLungileyo, izitishi zomnqamlezo kwaye… kulungile… zonke iintlanzi eziqhotsiweyo zikaColumbus zirhoxisiwe. Ubomi njengoko sibazi bujikile babhekiswa phantsi, washukunyiswa washiywa ecaleni. Kula maxesha ekufuneka sikhumbule ubunyani bobudlelane bokomoya. Kukudibana kokomoya, kanye njengokufumana i-Eucharist ngokwasemzimbeni, apho siya kugcina amandla ethu okuxhathisa.
Yintoni ubudlelane bokomoya? Ngokoluvo lwam, yinto exhaphakileyo yokholo lwethu eyayibalulekile kuninzi lwabangcwele kwaye ekufuneka ifundiswe ngakumbi kwiiparishi zethu nakwiiklasi zekatekizimu. Mhlawumbi eyona nkcazelo ilungileyo yobudlelane bokomoya ivela kuSt.Thomas Aquinas. U-St Thomas Aquinas wafundisa ngeentlobo zobudlelane, kubandakanya umthendeleko womoya, kwi-Summa Theologiae III yakhe xa wathi "yayingumnqweno onamandla wokufumana uYesu kwi-Sacrament Ebusisiweyo nokumamkela ngothando". Isidlo sasemoyeni ngumnqweno wakho wokufumana umthendeleko xa uthintelwe ekwenzeni njalo, njengakumatyala esono esibi, ungekafumani umthendeleko wakho wokuqala okanye ucima abantu.
Masingadimazeki okanye singafikelwa ngumbono ongeyonyani. IMisa isabanjelwe kwihlabathi liphela kwaye iDini eliNgcwele kwiAltare lisaqhubeka kwihlabathi liphela. Ayiqhutywa esidlangalaleni namabandla amakhulu. Ukungabikho kweparishi egcwele amarhamente akuyenzi iMisa isebenze kancinci kunokuba ibizele. IMisa nguMisa. Ubudlelane bokomoya, enyanisweni, bunokufaka ubabalo oluninzi kunye nefuthe kuwe nakumphefumlo wakho ngokungathi ubufumana uMthendeleko ngokwasemzimbeni.
UPopu John Paul II ukhuthaze ubudlelane bokomoya kwincwadi yakhe yoncwadi enesihloko esithi "Ecclesia de Eucharistia". Uthe ubudlelane bokomoya "ibiyinxalenye entle yobomi bamaKatolika kwiinkulungwane kwaye banconywa ngabangcwele ababengabaphathi bobomi babo bokomoya." Uqhubeka kwincwadi yakhe yokubhala encoma esithi: "Kwi-Eucharist, ngokungafaniyo nayo nayiphi na isakramente, imfihlelo (yomthendeleko) igqibelele kangangokuba isisa kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zayo yonke into elungileyo: le yeyona njongo yokugqibela yomnqweno wonke woluntu, ukuze sifikelele UThixo noThixo usijoyina kumanyano olugqibeleleyo. Ngokuchanekileyo kwesi sizathu kulungile ukuhlakulela ezintliziyweni zethu umnqweno oqhubekayo wesakramente ye-Ekaristi. Le yayiyimvelaphi yesiko "lobudlelane bokomoya", obabusekiwe ngokonwaba eCaweni iinkulungwane kwaye banconywa ngabangcwele ababengabaphathi bobomi bomoya ".
Ubudlelane bokomoya kukufikelela kwakho kubudlelane ngala maxesha angaqhelekanga. Yindlela yakho yokufumana ubabalo nge-Ekaristi ngokujoyina umbingelelo kwihlabathi liphela. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yokungabikho kokubanakho ukuya eMthendelekweni, siyakukhula kwaye nomnqweno noxabiso ngakumbi ukwamkela undwendwe ngokwasemzimbeni xa sikwazi ukuphinda. Vumela umnqweno wakho we-Ekaristi ukuba ukhule ngomzuzu ngamnye odlulayo kwaye ubonakaliswe kubudlelane bakho bokomoya.
Ndenza njani umthendeleko ngokomoya? Ayikho indlela eqinisekisiweyo, esemthethweni yokuba nobudlelane bokomoya. Nangona kunjalo, kukho umthandazo ocetyiswayo onokuwuthandaza naphi na xa uziva umnqweno wokufuna ukubanjwa:
“Yesu wam, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukho kwiSakramente eliSikelelekileyo. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto kwaye ndifuna ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Kuba andinako ukukufumana ngokomthendeleko ngeli xesha, ubuncinci ungene entliziyweni yam entliziyweni. Ndikwanga ngokungathi besele ndikhona kwaye ndizimanya ngokupheleleyo nawe. Ungaze uvume ukuba ndohlukane nawe. Amen "
Ngaba ibalulekile loo nto? EWE! Uninzi lunokuthi ubudlelane bokomoya abunabuchule njengoko kubalulekile njengokufumana uMthendeleko ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa andivumelani, kunjalo ke nangemfundiso yeCawa. Kwi-1983, iBandla leMfundiso yoKholo labhengeza ukuba iziphumo zoMthendeleko oNgcwele zingafunyanwa ngokudibana ngokomoya. U-Stefano Manelli, u-OFM Conv. U-STD wabhala kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Jesus, our Eucharistic love" ukuba "ubudlelane bokomoya, njengoko bafundiswa ngu-St. Thomas Aquinas no-Alphonsus Liguori, bavelisa iziphumo ezifanayo nomthendeleko womthendeleko, ngokwe Isimo esenziwe ngaso, ubukhulu okanye ubunzulu obuncinci anqwenelwa ngabo uYesu, kunye nothando olukhulu okanye oluncinci uYesu amkelwa ngalo kwaye anikwe ingqwalaselo efanelekileyo.
Umnqweno wobudlelane bokomoya kukuba unokwenziwa amaxesha amaninzi ngendlela ofuna ngayo, nokuba uyakwazi ukubuyela eMass, unokuhlala usenza umthendeleko ngokomoya yonke imihla xa ungakwazi ukubakho rhoqo kwiMisa yemihla ngemihla kunye namaxesha aliqela ngexesha losuku oluthile. .
Ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukugqiba kuphela ngo-St. Jean-Marie Vianney. U-St. Jean-Marie uthe, ebhekisa kubudlelane bokomoya, “xa singayi ecaweni, sijikisa emnqubeni; akukho donga lunokusishiya ngaphandle koThixo olungileyo ”
Bazalwane noodade abathandekayo, akukho ntsholongwane, akukho parishi ivaliweyo, akukho Misa irhoxisiweyo kwaye akukho zithintelo zinokuthintela ukuba ningene kuThixo.Kungokunyanzeleka ukuba sisebenzise umthendeleko ngokwasemoyeni, ngokuchaseneyo nomthendeleko womzimba, apho simanyana kakhulu Rhoqo ukuzincama kunye noKristu njengoko sasinjalo ngaphambi kokuhlaselwa yintsholongwane. Vumela ubudlelane bokomoya buwondle umphefumlo wakho kunye nobomi bakho. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukufumana umthendeleko ongaphezulu ngeli xesha, hayi ngaphantsi, ngaphandle kweMisa ezirhoxisiweyo. Isidlo sokomoya sihlala sifumaneka iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku-nangexesha lobhubhane. Ke qhubeka wenze le Lent ibalaseleyo: ukunxibelelana ngakumbi noThixo, funda ngakumbi, uthandaze ngakumbi, kwaye uvumele ukholo lwakho lukhule njengoko ubabalo luhamba.