Kukuthini ukuzinikela kwaye kutheni kubalulekile?
Ukuba uya ecaweni rhoqo, mhlawumbi uve abantu bexoxa ngokuzinikela. Ngapha koko, ukuba uya kwivenkile yeencwadi zobuKristu, uya kubona lonke icandelo lokuzinikela. Kodwa abantu abaninzi, ngakumbi abakwishumi elivisayo, abaqhelanga ukuzinikela kwaye abaqinisekanga ukuba bangabadibanisa njani kwimicimbi yabo yonqulo.
Yintoni ukuthandaza?
I-adotional idla ngokubhekisa kwincwadana okanye kupapasho olunikezela ngokufunda okuthile ngosuku ngalunye. Zisetyenziswa ngexesha lokuthandaza okanye ukucamngca kwemihla ngemihla. Isicatshulwa semihla ngemihla sinceda ukugxila kwiingcamango zakho kwaye sikhokele kwimithandazo yakho, sikunceda ulungelelanise ezinye iziphazamiso ukuze unike uThixo ingqalelo yakho yonke.
Kukho ezinye zokuzinikela ngokuthe ngqo kumaxesha athile angcwele, anje ngeAdvent okanye iLent. Bafumana amagama abo kwindlela asetyenziswa ngayo; Ubonisa ukuzinikela kwakho kuThixo ngokufunda le ndima kwaye uthandaze ngayo yonke imihla. Yiyo loo nto ingqokelela yokufunda ifundiswa ke ngoko njengokuzinikela.
Sebenzisa i-adotional
AmaKristu asebenzisa ukuzinikela kwawo njengendlela yokusondela kuThixo kwaye afunde ngakumbi ngobomi bobuKristu. Iincwadi zokuzinikela azenzelwanga ukuba zifundwe ngaxeshanye; zenzelwe ukuba ufunde kancinci yonke imihla kwaye uthandaze kwiindinyana. Ngokuthandaza yonke imihla, amaKristu akhulisa ubudlelwane obomeleleyo noThixo.
Indlela elungileyo yokuqalisa ukufaka izixhobo zokuzisebenzisa kukuzisebenzisa ngokungacwangciswanga. Zifundele isicatshulwa, emva koko thabatha imizuzu embalwa yokucingisisa. Cinga ngentsingiselo yendima kunye nale nto yayithethwa nguThixo. Ke, cinga ngendlela yokusebenzisa eli candelo kubomi bakho. Cinga ngezifundo onokuthi uzithathe kunye notshintsho onokulwenza kwindlela oziphethe ngayo ngenxa yoko ukufundayo.
Ukuzinikela, isenzo sokufunda iivesi kunye nokuthandaza, sisiseko senkolo ezininzi. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba nzima kakhulu xa uhamba kwithala leencwadi kwaye ubone umqolo emva komqolo wokuzinikela okwahlukeneyo. Kukho izinto zokuzinikela ezikwasebenza njengamaphephancwadi kunye nokuzinikela okubhalwe ngabantu abadumileyo. Kukho izinto ezininzi zokuzinikela kwamadoda nabasetyhini.
Ngaba ikhona into endiyithandayo?
Ingumbono olungileyo ukuqala ngokuzinikela okubhalwe ngokukodwa kulutsha lwamaKristu. Ngale ndlela, uyazi ukuba umthandazo wakho wemihla ngemihla uya kujolisa kwizinto ozilawulayo yonke imihla. Thatha ixesha lokuba ukhangele amaphepha ukuze ubone ukuba yeyiphi na imithandazo ebhalwe ngendlela ethetha nawe. Kungenxa yokuba uThixo usebenza ngandlela ithile kumhlobo wakho okanye komnye umntu ecaweni akuthethi ukuba uThixo ufuna ukusebenza ngaloo ndlela kuwe. Kuya kufuneka ukhethe umthandazo ofanelekileyo.
Ukuzinikela akuyomfuneko ukuba uqhelisele ukholo lwakho, kodwa abantu abaninzi, ngakumbi abakwishumi elivisayo, babafumana beluncedo. Zingaba yindlela elungileyo yokujolisa ingqalelo yakho kwaye ziqwalasele imiba obungakhange ucinge ngenye indlela.