Ungabanceda njani abantwana bakho bahlule okulungileyo kokubi?
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba umzali akhulise isazela sokuziphatha nokuziphatha komntwana? THE abantwana abafuni kukhethwa okanye kuthatyathwe isigqibo kubo. Baye bayenza yacaca into yokuba kukho okuhle nokubi, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi bayazi ukuba baphosakele, yiyo loo nto befihla.
Bakhawuleza bayeka ukwenza 'ukuzimela ukwenza isigqibo. Kodwa ecaleni kokugqibela kuyimfuneko ukongeza ukunyaniseka, into ebalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwesakhono sokwenza izigqibo. Sisiqinisekiso sokusebenza ngokungqinelana ukwazi. Kulapho ukuzibophelela kwezemfundo kubazali kungena khona. Siphila kuluntu olunobubi ixhaphakile kwaye kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba, amaxesha amaninzi, singathanda ukwenza ukhetho endaweni yabantwana bethu, kuba sibabona bebuthathaka, bengenako ukwenza oko. Ngokwenyani, kufuneka sifunde ukwenza izazela kunokuba sizithathe. Umsebenzi wethu kudala iimeko zokuba izazela zabantwana bethu zifundiswe, zenziwe.
Uphando lwe ngenzuzo yinxalenye yethu kodwa sihlala sime kwizinto ezilungileyo, silinganise ukhetho ngento esiyithandayo, kuba oku kuwela ekuzingceni. Ulutsha kunye nabantu abancinci abatyholwa ngokungazi nto bayasokola kwinkcazo yesazisi sabo. Ngelishwa bahlala befumana imiyalezo kwaye bephefumla inkcubeko emisela vuoto zokuziphatha. Kubo ngokungathi yonke into inexabiso elifanayo. Kule meko inengxaki, iukungabikho ukuba ngumzali kunye nokungahambi kakuhle kwemeko yangaphandle, apho abantwana bethu bethambile khona, kumisela ukungabikho kokuziphatha abawela kuko. Ngenxa yoko, ukusebenza ngesazela namhlanje kunokuthetha ukulandela ulwalamano olulungileyo.
Olu luvo luphantsi kokulungileyo aluhambelani nokulunga kwenene. Isazela esikwenzayo asimazi umntu. Ukuqonda kunjalo isithuba Ingcwele apho uThixo athetha khona nomntu, yindawo apho aphulaphula khona ilizwi likaThixo scegliere sisiseko sokusebenza ngokwesazela kwaye yenye yezona ndlela zibalulekileyo. Abantwana kufuneka banikwe abantwana imigaqo ezibenza bakwazi ukukhetha. Kuya kufuneka babenakho ukuqonda ukuba kwezinye iimeko benze impazamo, kufuneka baqonde ukuba isazela siyabafumanisa iqiniso kwaye uyayamkela njengesipho. Kufuneka sincedise abantwana ukuba baqonde ukuba isenzo soloko silandela ikhrayitheriya. Yiyo loo nto ukufundisa isazela kuthetha aiutare Unyana ukwamkela umgaqo wokubambela.
Ukusebenza kwisazela kuthetha ukuhamba kunye nokuthatha isigqibo ngokukhululekileyo sokwenza ngaphakathi kwesi sikhokelo sexabiso, nantsi cammino ukwenza. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana ashukume kwaye athathe isigqibo nokuba ungakanani na, ngaphakathi kwesi sikhokelo akuso iwaranti ezilungileyo. Isakhelo semilinganiselo esiza kunikwa abantwana yi iprojekthi yezemfundo apho abazali babizelwe ukusebenza.