Ungabelana njani ngokholo lwakho
AmaKristu amaninzi oyikiswa ngumbono wokwabelana ngokholo lwabo. UYesu akazange afune ukuba iKhomishini eNkulu ibe ngumthwalo ongenakwenzeka. UThixo wayefuna ukuba sibe ngamangqina kaYesu Kristu ngesiphumo sobomi kuye.
Indlela yokwabelana nabanye ngokholo lwakho kuThixo
Thina bantu siyabunzima ubuvangeli. Sicinga ukuba kufuneka sigqibe ikhosi yeeveki ezili-10 zokuxolisa ngaphambi kokuba siqale. UThixo wayila inkqubo elula yokuhambisa ivangeli. Wenza lula kuthi.
Nazi iindlela ezintlanu ezifanelekileyo zokuba ngummeli wevangeli.
Mamele ngendlela efanelekileyo uYesu
Okanye, ngamagama omfundisi wam, "Musa ukumenza uYesu abonakale njengesidenge." Zama ukukhumbula ukuba ubuso bukaYesu emhlabeni.
Njengabalandeli bakaKrestu, umgangatho wobungqina bethu kwihlabathi unefuthe elingunaphakade. Ngelishwa, uYesu akazange amelwe kakuhle ngabalandeli bakhe abaninzi. Anditsho ukuba ndingumlandeli ogqibeleleyo kaYesu, andinguye. Kodwa ukuba thina (abo balandela iimfundiso zikaYesu) sinokummela ngokunyanisekileyo, igama elithi "umKristu" okanye "umlandeli kaKristu" linokulahlekisa impendulo elungileyo kunendlela engeyiyo.
Yiba ngumhlobo ngokubonisa uthando
UYesu wayengumhlobo osenyongweni wabaqokeleli berhafu njengoMateyu noZakeyu. Wayebizwa ngokuba "ngumhlobo waboni" kuMateyu 11:19. Ukuba singabalandeli bakhe, kufanele ukuba kutyholwa ukuba singabahlobo naboni.
U-Yesu wasifundisa ukuba sabelane kanjani ngeVangeli ngokubonisa uthando lwethu kwabanye kuYohane 13: 34-35:
“Thandanani. Njengoko ndinithandileyo nina, nani thandanani njalo. Ngayo le nto baya kwazi bonke, ukuba ningabafundi bam, ukuba nithe nathandana. (NIV)
UYesu akazange axabane nabantu. Iingxoxo zethu ezishushu akunakulunga ukuba zitsalele nabani na ebukumkanini. UTito 3: 9 uthi, "Kodwa ke phepha iingxoxo zobudenge kunye neminombo yokuzalwa kunye neengxabano nokuxabana nomthetho, kuba awunto yanto." (NIV)
Ukuba silandela umendo wothando, simanyana ngamandla angenakunqandwa. Eli nqaku ngumzekelo olungileyo wokuba lingqina elingcono ngokubonisa uthando:
Ngoku, ngenxa yothando lwenu, akufuneki ukuba ndinibhalele, kuba nina nifundisiwe nguThixo ukuba nizithande. Kwaye ngokwenene, uyathanda lonke usapho lukaThixo eMakedoni. Nangona kunjalo, siyanimema, bazalwana noodade, ukuba nenze ngakumbi nangakumbi kwaye nenze ukuba amabhongo okuphila aphumle abe: kufuneka nikhathalele ishishini lakho kwaye nisebenze ngezandla, kanye njengoko besinixelele, ukuze yonke imihla Ubomi bunokufumana intlonipho yabasemzini kwaye ukuze ungaxhomekeki nakubani na. (1 Tes. 4: 9-12, NIV)
Yiba ngumzekelo olungileyo, onobubele, kunye nobuThixo
Xa sichitha ixesha ebukhweni bukaYesu, isimilo sakhe siya kusosulela kuthi. Ngokusebenza koMoya wakhe Oyingcwele kuthi, sinako ukuxolela iintshaba zethu kwaye sibathande abo basithiyileyo, kanye njengoko iNkosi yethu yenza. Ngobabalo lwakhe sinokuba yimizekelo emihle kwabo bangaphandle kobukumkani ababukele ubomi bethu.
Umpostile uPetros wasicebisa wathi: "Phila ubomi obuhle phakathi kwabahedeni, bathi, nangona bekutyhola ngokwenza into engalunganga, babone imisebenzi yakho emihle, bamzukise uThixo ngemini asityelele ngayo" (1 Petros 2:12) , NIV)
Umpostile uPawulosi wafundisa uTimoti oselula: "Kwaye umkhonzi weNkosi makangabi ngolwaxabene nothile, kodwa kufuneka abe nobubele kuye wonke umntu, akwazi ukufundisa, angabi nangqumbo". (2 Timoti 2:24, NIV)
Owona mzekelo mhle usebhayibhileni okholwayo othembekileyo ophumelele imbeko yookumkani babahedeni ngumprofeti uDaniel:
Ngoku uDaniel wayebalasele phakathi kwabalawuli kunye neerhuluneli ngenxa yeempawu zakhe ezikhethekileyo kangangokuba ukumkani wayecebe ukumbeka phezu kobukumkani bonke. Ngeli xesha, abalawuli kunye neerhuluneli bazama ukufumana izizathu zokumangalela uDaniel ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwimicimbi yaseburhulumenteni, kodwa abakwazanga ukwenza njalo. Babengenakufumana urhwaphilizo kuye, kuba wayethembekile kwaye akakhohlakele kwaye akakhathali. Ekugqibeleni athi la madoda, "Asizukufumana nasiphi na isityholo sokumangalela lo mntu, uDaniyeli, ngaphandle kokuba unento yokwenza nomthetho woThixo wakhe." (Daniyeli 6: 3-5, NIV)
Ngenisa kwiGunya kwaye uthobele uThixo
AmaRoma isahluko 13 asifundisa ukuba ukuvukela igunya kuyafana nokuvukela uThixo, ukuba awundikholelwa, qhubeka ufunde kwabaseRoma 13 ngoku. Ewe, le ndinyana ide isixelele ukuba sihlawule iirhafu zethu. Ekuphela kwexesha esinemvume yokungathobeli igunya kuxa ukuzithoba kwelo gunya kuthetha ukuba asiyi kumthobela uThixo.
Ibali likaShadraki, uMeshaki noAbhednego lisibalisela ngamabanjwa amathathu angamaJuda awayezimisele ukunqula nokuthobela uThixo ngaphezu kwabo bonke abanye. Xa uKumkani uNebhukadenetsare wayalela abantu ukuba bawe banqule umfanekiso wegolide awayewakhile, la madoda mathathu ala. Bema ngenkalipho phambi kokumkani owabatyhalayo ukuba bakhanyele uThixo okanye bajongane nokufa kwiziko lomlilo.
Xa uShadraki, uMeshaki no-Abhednego bakhetha ukuthobela uThixo ngaphezulu kwenkosi, babengazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uThixo uza kubasindisa kumadangatye, kodwa bema ngxi. Kwaye uThixo wabahlangula, ngokungummangaliso.
Ngenxa yoko, ukumkani ongendawo wathi:
Makabongwe uThixo kaShadraki, uMeshaki, noAbhednego, othumele isithunywa sakhe, wabasindisa abakhonzi bakhe. Bathembela kuye, bawutyeshela umyalelo wokumkani, bavuma ukuncama ubomi babo kunokuba bakhonze okanye banqule nawuphi na uthixo ngaphandle koThixo wabo.+ Ngoko ndiwisa umthetho+ wokuba bonke abantu bazo zonke iintlanga neelwimi bathethe nantoni na echasene noThixo kaShadraki, kaMeshaki nowabo. makasikwe uAbhednego, izindlu zabo zibe yimfumba, ngokuba akukho wumbi unokusindiswa ngolo hlobo. ” Ukumkani wabanyusela kwizikhundla eziphakamileyo uShadraki, uMeshaki noAbhednego eBhabhiloni ( Daniyeli 3:28-30 )
UThixo wavula umnyango omkhulu wamathuba ngokuthobela kwabakhonzi bakhe abathathu abakhaliphileyo. Obunjani ukuba namandla ubungqina bamandla kaThixo kuNebhukadenetsare nakubantu baseBhabheli.
Thandazela ukuba uThixo avule umnyango
Kwinzondelelo yethu yokuba ngamangqina kaKristu, sihlala sibaleka phambi koThixo.Sinokubona into ebonakala ngathi ingumnyango ovulekileyo wokwabelana ngevangeli, kodwa ukuba singena ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha emthandazweni, iinzame zethu zinokuba lilize okanye zingabinamdla.
Kuphela ngokufuna iNkosi ngomthandazo sikhokelwa yiminyango enokuvulwa nguThixo kuphela. Kungomthandazo kuphela apho ubungqina bethu buya kuba nesiphumo esinqwenelekayo. Umpostile omkhulu uPawulos wayesazi into okanye ezimbini malunga nokunikela ubungqina ngempumelelo. Usinike le ngcebiso inokuthenjwa:
Zinikele emthandazweni, ulumkile kwaye unombulelo. Kwaye usithandazele nathi, ukuze uThixo asivulele ucango, ukuze sibhengeze imfihlakalo kaKristu, endikhonkxiwe ngenxa yakhe. (KwabaseKolose 4: 2-3, NIV)
Iindlela ezisebenzayo zokwabelana ngokholo lwakho ngokuba ngumzekelo
UKaren Wolff weChristian-Books-For-Women.com wabelana ngeendlela ezithile zokwabelana ngokholo lwethu ngokuba ngumzekelo kaKristu.
Abantu banokubona ubuqhetseba kwimayile enye. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyenza kukuthetha enye into wenze enye. Ukuba awuzibopheleli ekusebenziseni imigaqo-nkqubo yobuKrestu ebomini bakho, awuzukusebenza nje kuphela, kodwa uyakubonwa njengoyinyani kwaye engeyonyani. Abantu abanamdla kwinto oyithethayo, njengoko benjalo ngokubona ukuba isebenza njani ebomini bakho.
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwabelana ngokholo lwakho kukubonisa izinto okholelwa kuzo ngokuhlala unethemba kwaye ube nesimo sengqondo esilungileyo nokuba usengxakini ebomini bakho. Khumbula ibali eliseBhayibhileni likaPetros ehamba phezu kwamanzi xa uYesu wayembiza? Waqhubeka ehamba phezu kwamanzi logama nje wayenikel’ ingqalelo kuYesu, kodwa emva kokuba enikel’ ingqalelo kuqhwithela, watshona.
Xa abantu abakungqongileyo bebona uxolo ebomini bakho, ngakumbi xa uziva ngathi ujikelezwe ziinkqwithela, ungabheja ukuba baya kufuna ukwazi ukuba ungayifumana njani into onayo! Kwelinye icala, ukuba konke abakubonayo kukuphezulu kwentloko yabo njengoko uzika emanzini, akukho nto ingako yokubuza.
Baphathe abantu ngentlonipho nangesidima, nokuba imeko ithini na. Nanini na xa unethuba, bonisa indlela ongatshintshi ngayo indlela ophatha ngayo abantu, nokuba sekutheni. UYesu wayebaphatha kakuhle abantu, naxa babemphethe kakubi. Abantu abakungqongileyo baya kuzibuza ukuba uyakwazi njani ukubonisa olu hlobo lwentlonipho kwabanye. Ngeke wazi, basenokude babuze.
Khangela iindlela zokuba yintsikelelo kwabanye. Oku akupheleli ekutyalweni kwembewu emangalisayo yesityalo ebomini bakho, kubonisa abanye ukuba awuyonyani. Bonisa ukuba uyayiphila into okholelwa kuyo. Ukuthi ungumKristu yenye into, kodwa ukuyiphila ngeendlela ezibonakalayo yonke imihla yenye into. ILizwi lithi, "Baya kubazi ngeziqhamo zabo."
Musa ukulalanisa kwiinkolelo zakho. Iimeko zivela yonke imihla apho ulungelelwano lungenakwenzeka kuphela, kodwa lulindeleke amaxesha amaninzi. Bonisa abantu ukuba ubuKristu bakho buthetha ukuphila ubomi bengqibelelo. Kwaye oh ewe, oko kuthetha ukuba uxelele unobhala wentengiso xa ekulahlela loo galoni yobisi!
Ukukwazi ukuxolela ngokukhawuleza kuyindlela enamandla kakhulu yokubonisa indlela esebenza kakuhle ubuKristu. Yiba ngumzekelo wokuxolelwa. Akukho nto idala iyantlukwano, intiyo, kunye nesiphithiphithi ngaphezu kokuthandabuza ukuxolela abantu abonzakeleyo. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kuba namaxesha apho unyanise ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ukuba lilungisa akukuniki simahla indlela yokohlwaya, ukuhlazisa okanye ukuhlazisa omnye umntu. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayithathi uxanduva lwakho lokuxolela.