Umtshato kufuneka ubhiyozelwe njani?
Esi sikimu sigubungela nganye yezinto zesiko lomsitho womtshato wamaKristu. Yenzelwe ukuba ibe sisikhokelo esipheleleyo sokucwangcisa nokuqonda onke amabakala omnyhadala.
Ayizizo zonke izinto ezidweliswe apha ekufuneka zibandakanyiwe kwinkonzo yakho. Unokukhetha ukutshintsha iodolo kwaye ungeze eyakho intetho eya kuthi inike intsingiselo ekhethekileyo kwinkonzo yakho.
Umtshato wakho wobuKrestu ungabhalwa ngabantu, kodwa kufuneka ubandakanye ukunqula, ukubonakalisa uvuyo, umbhiyozo, uluntu, intlonipho, isidima nothando Ibhayibhile ayiboneleli ngolwandlalo okanye iodolo yokuchaza ngokuthe ngqo into ekufuneka ibandakanyiwe, kungoko kukho indawo yokuyila. Eyona njongo iphambili kufuneka ibe kukunika undwendwe ngalunye umbono ocacileyo wokuba nina, njengesibini, nenza umnqophiso ongunaphakade nozimeleyo omnye komnye phambi koThixo.Umsitho womtshato wakho kufuneka ube bubungqina bobomi bakho. phambi koThixo, ubungqina bakho bobuKristu.
Iminyhadala yomsitho womtshato
Imifanekiso
Iifoto zetheko lomtshato kufuneka ziqale okungenani imizuzu engama-90 ngaphambi kokuba inkonzo iqale kwaye iphele ubuncinci imizuzu engama-45 ngaphambi komsitho.
Iphathi yomtshato enxibe kwaye ilungile
Itheko lomtshato kufuneka linxibe, lilungile kwaye lilinde kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo ubuncinci imizuzu eli-15 ngaphambi kokuqala komsitho.
Yandulela
Nakuphi na ukwandulela okanye umculo wedwa kufuneka wenziwe ubuncinci imizuzu emi-5 ngaphambi kokuba umsitho uqale.
Ukukhanyiswa kwamakhandlela
Ngamanye amaxesha amakhandlela okanye izibane zikhanyisiwe ngaphambi kokuba kufike iindwendwe. Ngamanye amaxesha abagibeli bayazikhanyisa njengenxalenye yesandulela okanye njengenxalenye yomsitho womtshato.
Umsitho womtshato wamaKristu
Ukuwuqonda ngcono umsitho wakho womtshato wamaKristu kwaye wenze usuku lwakho olukhethekileyo lube nentsingiselo engakumbi, ungafuna ukuthatha ixesha ufunde ngokubaluleka kwebhayibhile ngezithethe zobuKristu banamhlanje.
Inkqubo
Umculo udlala indima ekhethekileyo kusuku lwakho lomtshato kwaye ngakumbi ngexesha lokutya. Nazi izixhobo zeklasi ezinokuqwalaselwa.
Ukuhlala abazali
Ukufumana inkxaso kunye nokubandakanyeka kwabazali nootat'omkhulu kulo msitho kuzisa intsikelelo ekhethekileyo kwesi sibini kwaye kukwazisa nembeko kwizizukulwana zangaphambili zomtshato.
Umculo osetyenziswayo uqala ngeeseshoni zeendwendwe ezihlonelwayo:
Izihlalo zomakhulu womkhwenyana
Ukuhlaliswa komakhulu womtshakazi
Izihlalo zabazali bomyeni
Ukuhlala kuka mama womtshakazi
Ukuhamba kwendibano yomtshato kuqala
Umphathiswa kunye nomyeni bayangena, bahlala eqongeni ngasekunene. Ukuba abagcini abakhaphi abakhaphi babakhwenyana behla ezantsi kwisibingelelo, bayangena nomphathiswa nomyeni.
Abakhonzazana bangena, bahlala ecaleni kwendlela ephakathi, enye ngexesha. Ukuba amangqina omyeni aphethe iitshakazi, angena kunye.
Umtshato uqala ngoMatshi
Ungena umtshakazi noyise. Ngokwesiqhelo, umama woMtshakazi uya kuhlala ngeli xesha njengomqondiso kuzo zonke iindwendwe. Ngamanye amaxesha umphathiswa uyakubhengeza ukuba: "Wonke umntu uyammela umtshakazi".
Imbizo yokunqula
Kumsitho womtshato wamaKristu, amazwi okuvula aqala ngokuqala ngo "Bathandekayo" ngumnxeba okanye isimemo sokunqula uThixo. La magqabaza okuvula aya kumema iindwendwe zakho kunye namangqina ukuba azokujoyina ekudumiseni njengoko ujoyina umtshato oyingcwele.
Umthandazo wokuvula
Umthandazo wokuvula, odla ngokubizwa ngokuba ucenga umtshato, uhlala ubandakanya ukubulela kunye nobizo lobukho bukaThixo kunye nentsikelelo ngenkonzo esezakuqala.
Ngamaxesha athile kwinkonzo, unokufuna ukuthandaza ngomtshato kunye njengesibini.
Ibandla lihleli
Ngeli xesha ibandla ngokubanzi licelwa ukuba lihlale.
Nika umtshakazi
Ukuhambisa umtshakazi yindlela ebalulekileyo yokubandakanya abazali bomtshakazi nomyeni kumsitho womtshato. Xa abazali bengekho, abanye abantu abatshatileyo bacela uthixo ozinikeleyo okanye umcebisi ukuba anike umakoti ahambe.
Ingoma yehlelo, uHymn
Ngeli xesha itheko lomtshato lihlala kwinqanaba okanye kwiqonga kwaye iNtombazana enguMdaka kunye noMphathi weRingi bahleli nabazali babo.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba umculo wakho womtshato udlala indima ebalulekileyo kumsitho wakho. Unokukhetha ingoma yecawa oza kuyiculela ibandla lonke, iculo, isixhobo somculo, okanye ingoma ekhethekileyo. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ingoma yakho oyikhethayo, kodwa ikwabonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunye nemibono njengesibini. Xa ucwangcisa, Nazi ezinye iingcebiso onokuthi uziqwalasele.
Intlawulo yabo batshatayo
Isityholo, esihlala sidluliswa ngumphathiswa ngexesha lomsitho, sikhumbuza isibini ngemisebenzi yabo kunye nendima yabo emtshatweni kwaye sibalungiselela izifungo abaza kuzenza.
Ukuzibophelela
Ngexesha lesithembiso okanye "uthethathethwano", abatshati baxela kwiindwendwe kunye namangqina ukuba beze ngokuzenzekelayo ukuza kutshata.
Izifungo zomtshato
Ngalo mzuzu womsitho womtshato, umtshakazi nomyeni bajongana.
Izibhambathiso zomtshato zisentloko yenkonzo. Abalingane bathembisa esidlangalaleni, phambi koThixo namangqina akhoyo, ukuba benze konke okusemandleni abo ukuzinceda ukuba bakhule kwaye babe yile nto abadalelwe ukuba babe yiyo uThixo, nangona kukho ubunzima, okoko nje bephila bobabini. Izibhambathiso zomtshato zingcwele kwaye zibonisa ukungena kubudlelwane bomnqophiso.
Ukutshintshana kwamakhonkco
Ukutshintshiselana kwamakhonkco kukubonisa kwesithembiso sesibini sokuhlala sithembekile. Iringi imele unaphakade. Ngokunxiba amakhonkco omtshato kubo bonke ubomi besi sibini, baxelela wonke umntu ukuba bazimisele ukuhlala kunye kwaye bahlala bethembekile omnye komnye.
Ukukhanyisa ikhandlela
Ukukhanyiswa kwekhandlela elinobunye kufanekisela umanyano lweentliziyo ezimbini nobomi. Ukubandakanya umsitho wamakhandlela omanyeneyo okanye omnye umzekeliso ofanayo unokongeza intsingiselo enzulu kwinkonzo yakho yomtshato.
Umthendeleko
AmaKristu ahlala ekhetha ukufaka uMthendeleko kumsitho womtshato wabo, beyenza ibe yinto yabo yokuqala njengesibini esitshatileyo.
Isimelabizo
Ngexesha lesiteyitimenti, umphathiswa ubhengeza ukuba esi sibini ngoku singumyeni nenkosikazi. Iindwendwe ziyakhunjuzwa ukuba zihloniphe umanyano olwenziwe nguThixo kwaye akukho mntu ufanele ukuzama ukwahlula isibini.
Umthandazo wokuvala
Umthandazo wokuvala okanye intsikelelo iza kuphela. Lo mthandazo ubonakalisa intsikelelo evela ebandleni, ngalo mfundisi, unqwenelela esi sibini uthando, uxolo, ulonwabo kunye nobukho bukaThixo.
Ukuncancisa
Ngeli xesha, umphathiswa ngokwesiko uxelela umyeni, "Ngoku ungamanga umolokazana wakho."
Inkcazo yesibini
Ngethuba lokuboniswa, umphathiswa ngokwesiko uthi, "Ngoku kulilungelo lam ukukwazisa okokuqala, Mnu noNksk. ____."
Umsitho womtshato ushiya iqonga, ngesiqhelo ngolandelayo:
Umyeni nomyeni
Ii-Ushers zibuyela kwiindwendwe ezihloniphekayo ezikhutshwa ngokulandelelana ekungeneni kwazo.
Abasebenzisi banokubeka umlilo kwiindwendwe ezisele, zonke ngaxeshanye okanye umgca omnye ngexesha.