Indlela yokufundisa abantwana bakho malunga nokholo

Iingcebiso malunga nokuba ungathini kwaye uphephe ntoni xa uthetha nabantwana bakho ngokholo.

Fundisa abantwana bakho ngokholo
Umntu ngamnye makenze isigqibo sokuba aqhubeke njani nohambo lokomoya eyedwa. Nangona kunjalo, luxanduva lwabazali ukubonelela umxholo, amabali, kunye nemigaqo yokholo kubantwana abakwintsapho yabo. Kufuneka sisebenzisane kwaye sidlulise ukholo lwethu ngokuthobeka kunye nobulumko, ngelixa siqonda ukuba ukholo lwabantwana bethu luya kukhula ngokwahlukileyo kolwethu. Kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, kufuneka siphile ngomzekelo.

Ukukhula kwam, ndandinethamsanqa lokuba nabazali abandifundisa mna nabantakwethu ukubaluleka kokholo kwindlela abaphila ngayo yonke imihla. Xa ndandineminyaka esixhenxe, ndikhumbula sihamba notata ngecawa ngeCawa. Ngaphambi kokungena kwesi sakhiwo, ndamcela ukuba andinike imali yesitya. Utata wafaka isandla sakhe epokothweni wandinika i-nickel. Ndandinentloni yimali andinike yona, ndacela enye. Ukuphendula, undifundise isifundo esibalulekileyo: eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba kutheni unika, hayi imali oyinikayo. Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, ndafumanisa ukuba utata wam akanamali ingako anokuyinika ngelo xesha, kodwa uhlala enikela ngako konke anako, nokuba kunjani. Ngaloo mini, utata wandifundisa ukuba nesisa ngokomoya.

Sifanele sifundise abantwana bethu ukuba nangona ubomi bunzima, nantoni na inokwenzeka ngethemba, ukholo nangomthandazo. Nokuba bathini na abantwana bethu, uThixo uhlala enabo. Kwaye xa becela umngeni kwaye babuza iinkolelo zethu kunye namabango, kufuneka samkele ukumelana kwabo ngendlela elungileyo, sivumela wonke umntu obandakanyekayo ukuba akhule kwaye afunde kule meko. Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba abantwana bethu bayazi ukuba siyabathanda nokuba bakhetha yiphi indlela.

Nkosi, sinike ubulumko kunye nesibindi sokudlulisela isipho sokholo kwisizukulwana esilandelayo.