UNGAKHONZA NJANI NJE?

Ubomi bethu bokuthandaza akufuneki bupheleliselwe kwimithandazo yasekuseni neyangokuhlwa, kunye nakwezinye izinto zokuhlonela uThixo ezifunwa sithi ukuze singcwaliswe. Ngumbuzo wokufikelela kwimeko yomthandazo, oko kukuthi, ukuguqula ubomi bethu bonke bube ngumthandazo, ukunika ukholo nokuthobela amazwi kaYesu, owathi masihlale sithandaza. Utata R. PLUS SJ, kwincwadana yakhe exabisekileyo ethi Sithandaze Njalo, usinika imithetho emithathu yegolide yokufikelela kwimeko yomthandazo:

1) Umthandazo omncinci yonke imihla.

Ngumcimbi wokungavumeli usuku lugqithe ngaphandle kokuqhuba ubuncinci bezenzo zokuhlonela esikuqondileyo ukuba iNkosi iyasifuna: imithandazo yokuthwala kunye nokuhlwa, ukuvavanywa kwesazela, ukuphinda uqwalasele icandelo lesithathu leRosary eNgcwele.

2) Umthandazo omncinci imini yonke.

Kufuneka, emini, sifunde, nokuba kungokwengqondo kuphela, ngokweemeko, ezinye iindlela ezimfutshane: "Yesu ndiyakuthanda ngentliziyo yam yonke, uYesu inceba yam, okanye uMariya wakhulelwa ngaphandle kwesono, sithandazele thina sinokubhenela kuwe" njl. Ngale ndlela yonke imini yethu iyakuba ngathi ilungisiwe emthandazweni, kwaye kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukugcina isilumkiso sobukho bukaThixo kunye nokwenza imisebenzi yethu yokuhlonela uThixo. Singazinceda kulo msebenzi ngokuguqula ezona zinto ziqhelekileyo ebomini bethu zibe sisikhumbuzo sombono kwaye ke oko kusinceda sikhumbule ukwenza umthandazo; Umzekelo, xa uphuma uyongena endlwini thandaza kancinci, naxa ungena emotweni, xa uphosa ityuwa embizeni, njl. Ekuqaleni konke oku kunokubonakala kunzima, kodwa ukuziqhelanisa kufundisa ukuba ngexesha elincinci ukusetyenziswa kwe-ejaculations kuyagudla kwaye kuyindalo. Masingoyiki ngumtyholi, othi, ukuze asenze siphulukane nomphefumlo wethu, asihlasele ngandlela zonke, kwaye angoyiki ukusoyikisa ngokujongana nathi, ngendlela engeyiyo, ubunzima obungenakoyiswa.

3) Guqula yonke into ibe ngumthandazo.

Izenzo zethu ziba ngumthandazo xa zisenziwa ikakhulu kuthando lukaThixo; xa sisenza isenzo esithile, ukuba siyazibuza ukuba ngubani na kwaye siyenzela ntoni le nto, sinokubona ukuba singalawulwa zezona njongo zahlukeneyo; sinokunika abanye amalizo ngesisa okanye ukunconywa; Singasebenza kuphela ukuzityebisa thina, okanye ukulungelana nosapho lwethu kwaye ke senze ukuthanda kukaThixo; ukuba sinokucoca iinjongo zethu kwaye siyenzele yonke into iNkosi, sibutshintshile ubomi bethu baba ngumthandazo. Ukufumana ubunyulu benjongo, kunokuba luncedo ukwenza isithembiso ekuqaleni kosuku, ngokufanayo nesithembiso esicetywayo nguMpostile Womthandazo, kwaye, phakathi kwe-ejaculations, faka ezinye ezinemisebenzi yokunikela: umz. okanye Nkosi, ngenxa yozuko lwakho, nothando lwakho. Phambi kokuqala into ebaluleke kakhulu, okanye owona msebenzi ubalulekileyo wosuku, kunokuba luncedo ukucengceleza lo mthandazo, uthathwe kwithala: "Khuthaza izenzo zethu, Nkosi, kwaye uzikhaphe ngoncedo lwakho: ukuze zonke iintshukumo esizithathayo kuwe ukuqala kwayo nokuzaliseka kwayo kuwe ». Ukongeza, uluvo lokuba uSt. Ignatius waseLoyola asinike uNombolo 46 woQeqesho loMoya ulunge kakhulu: "cela ubabalo kuThixo iNkosi yethu, ukuze zonke iinjongo zam, izenzo kunye nokusebenza kwam kuyalelwe ngokupheleleyo kwinkonzo nasekudumiseni ubungangamsha bakhe obuNgcwele. "

Isilumkiso Ukucinga ukuba singabuguqula bonke ubomi bethu bube ngumthandazo ngaphandle kokunikezela ngenxalenye yosuku emthandazweni ngokufanelekileyo obizwa njalo kukukhohlisa kunye nebango elirhabaxa! Ngapha koko, njengoko indlu ishushu kuba kukho iiradiyetha kuwo onke amagumbi kwaye iiradiyetha ngokwazo zishushu kuba kukho umlilo kwenye indawo, othi, ubushushu obukhulu, bubangele ukusasazeka kobushushu kuyo yonke indlu, ngenxa yoko izenzo zethu Bayakuguqulwa benziwe umthandazo ukuba kukho amaxesha omthandazo omkhulu, oya kuthi kuthi, kuyo yonke le mini, loo meko yokuthandaza icelwe nguYesu.