Ingcebiso esebenzayo yamaKristu xa umntu omthandayo eswelekile
Uthini emntwini omthanda kunene xa ufunda eneentsuku nje ezimbalwa zokuphila? Ngaba uyaqhubeka nokuthandazela ukuphiliswa kwaye uphephe umxholo wokufa? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, awufuni ukuba umntu omthandayo ayeke ukulwela ubomi kwaye uyazi ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo uThixo uyakwazi ukuphilisa.
Uyalikhankanya igama "D"? Kuthekani ukuba abafuni ukuthetha ngayo? Ndasokola nazo zonke ezi ngcinga njengoko ndandibukele utata wam endimthandayo esiya esiba buthathaka.
Ugqirha wayechazile mna nomama ukuba utata ushiyeke nosuku okanye ezimbini kuphela ukuba aphile. Wayekhangeleka emdala kakhulu kangangokuba wayelele ebhedini yasesibhedlele. Wayethule cwaka iintsuku zambini. Olona phawu lobomi alunikileyo yayikukubambana ngesandla ngamanye amaxesha.
Ndandimthanda laa ndoda indala kwaye ndingafuni ukuphulukana nayo. Kodwa ndaqonda ukuba kufuneka simxelele ngezinto esizifundileyo. Kwakulixesha lokuthetha ngokufa nangonaphakade. Yayingumbandela wazo zonke iingqondo zethu.
Iindaba ezinobunzima
Ndazisa utata ngento esasixelelwe yona ngugqirha, ukuba akukho enye into ebenokuyenza. Wayemi emlanjeni okhokelela kubomi obungunaphakade. Utata wayenexhala lokuba i-inshurensi yakhe ayizihlawuli zonke iindleko zesibhedlele. Wayenexhala ngomama. Ndamqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye siyamthanda uMama kwaye siza kumhoya. Zehla iinyembezi, ndamazisa ukuba ingxaki inye kuphela kukuba sizakuphulukana kangakanani.
Utata wayewulwile umlo olungileyo wokholo, kwaye ngoku wayebuyela ekhaya ezokuhlala noMsindisi wakhe. Mna: "Tata undifundise kakhulu, kodwa ngoku ungandibonisa indlela yokufa." Emva koko wandikhama isandla sam wasiqinisa, kwaye ngokumangalisayo, waqala ukuncuma. Uvuyo lwakhe lwaphuphuma kwaye nam ngokunjalo. Khange ndiqonde ukuba iimpawu zakhe ezibalulekileyo bezihla ngokukhawuleza. Ngemizuzwana utata ebengekho. Ndayibona ivulwa ezulwini.
Amagama angathandekiyo kodwa ayimfuneko
Ngoku ndikufumanisa kulula ukusebenzisa igama elithi "D". Ndicinga ukuba uswazi lwalususwe kum. Ndithethile nabahlobo abanqwenela ukuba babuyele exesheni kwaye bancokole ngokwahlukileyo nabo baphulukene nabo.
Amaxesha amaninzi asifuni kujongana nokufa. Kunzima nokuba noYesu ulile. Nangona kunjalo, xa samkela kwaye siqonda ukuba ukufa kusondele kwaye kunokwenzeka, siyakwazi ke ukubonakalisa iintliziyo zethu. Singathetha ngezulu kwaye sibe nobuhlobo obusenyongweni kunye nesalamane. Sinokufumana amagama afanelekileyo ukuba athi kuhle.
Ixesha lokuvalelisa libalulekile. Yile ndlela esenza ngayo ukuba sibeke othandekayo kuThixo ukuba abe phantsi kweliso lakhe yenye yezona zinto zibonakalisa ukholo lwethu. UThixo usinceda ukuba sifumane uxolo kunye nenyani yokulahleka kwethu kunokuba sikhathazeke ngako. Amagama okwahlula anceda ukuzisa ukuvalwa kunye nokuphilisa.
Kwaye kuyamangalisa xa amaKristu eqonda ukuba sinala mazwi anzulu kwaye anethemba lokusithuthuzela: "De sibonane kwakhona".
Amagama okuthetha kulungile
Nazi ezinye izinto ezisebenzayo ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni xa umntu omthandayo sele eza kufa:
Uninzi lwezigulana ziyazi xa zisifa. Umongikazi wesibhedlele saseMassachusetts uMaggie Callanan uthe, “Xa abo basegumbini bengathethi ngayo, kufana nemvubu epinki etutu wonke umntu ohambahamba engayihoyi. Umntu ofayo uqala ukuzibuza ukuba akekho omnye umntu oyiqondayo le nto. Oku kukodwa kongeza uxinzelelo: kufuneka bacinge ngeemfuno zabanye endaweni yokujongana nezabo “.
Yenza lonke utyelelo lwakho, kodwa ube nolwazelelelo ngeemfuno zothandekayo wakho. Unokufuna ukubacula iculo elithandekayo, uzifunde kwizibhalo, okanye uncokole nje ngezinto owaziyo ukuba bayazithanda. Sukuyiphosa kwelokulunga. Oku kunokuba ngumthombo ophambili wokuzisola.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuvalelisa kunokumema impendulo ehlaziyayo. Umntu omthandayo usenokuba ulindele imvume yokuba afe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphefumla kokugqibela kunokuba ziiyure okanye kwiintsuku kamva. Rhoqo isenzo sokuvalelisa sinokuphindwa amatyeli amaninzi.
Thatha ithuba lokubonisa uthando lwakho kwaye uxole xa kufanelekile. Yazisa umntu omthandayo ukuba uza kumkhumbula kangakanani. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, zijonge emehlweni, zibambe ngesandla, uhlale kufutshane, kwaye uhlebeze ezindlebeni zazo. Nangona umntu ofayo enokubonakala ngathi akaphenduli, bahlala bekwazi ukukuva.