Ingcebiso eluncedo kunye nebhayibhile kumtshato wobuKristu
Umtshato wenzelwe ukuba ube lumanyano oluvuyisayo nolungcwele kubomi bobuKristu, kodwa kwabanye unokuba ngumzamo onzima nolucelomngeni. Mhlawumbi uye wazifumana ukumtshato ongonwabanga, ngenxa nje yokuba unyamezela ulwalamano olubuhlungu nolunzima.
Inyaniso ikukuba, ukwakha umtshato ophilileyo nokuwugcina womelele kufuna umsebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, iingenelo zalo mzamo zixabiseke kakhulu kwaye azinakulinganiswa. Ngaphambi kokuba unikezele, qwalasela amacebiso omtshato wamaKristu anokukunika ithemba nokholo kwimeko yakho ebonakala ingenakwenzeka.
Indlela yokwakha umtshato wakho wamaKristu
Ngoxa uthando noluhlala luhleli emtshatweni kufuna umgudu owenziwe ngabom, akunzima kangako ukuba uqala ngemigaqo embalwa esisiseko. Eyokuqala kukwakha umtshato wakho kwisiseko esiqinileyo: ukholo lwakho kuYesu Kristu. Okwesibini kukuzibophelela ngokungagungqiyo ukuze umtshato wakho uphumelele. Le migaqo mibini isisiseko inokomelezwa kakhulu ngokuziqhelanisa nemisebenzi emihlanu elula rhoqo:
Thandazani kunye: Zipheni ixesha lokuthandaza neqabane lakho yonke imihla. Umthandazo awukusondezi nje kuphela omnye komnye, kodwa womeleza ngokunzulu ubudlelwane bakho neNkosi.
Ufundo LweBhayibhile Kunye: Bekela bucala ixesha elithe rhoqo lokufunda iBhayibhile nokuthandaza kunye. Indlela yokuthandaza kunye, ukwabelana ngeLizwi likaThixo kuya kuwutyebisa kakhulu umtshato wakho. Njengoko nobabini nivumela iNkosi kunye neLizwi laYo ukuba ziguquke ngaphakathi, niza kuthandana ngakumbi omnye nomnye kunye nokuzinikela kuKristu.
Yenzani izigqibo ezibalulekileyo kunye: Vumelanani ukwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo, ezinjengokulawula imali kunye. Awuyi kukwazi ukugcina iimfihlo kuthi ukuba uzibophelele ekwenzeni zonke izigqibo ezibalulekileyo zosapho kunye. Le yenye yeendlela zokukhulisa ukuthembana nokuhlonelana njengesibini.
Yiyani Kunye eCaweni: Fumana icawe apho wena neqabane lakho ninokunqula khona, nikhonze, kwaye nenze abahlobo abangamaKristu kunye. IBhayibhile ithi kumaHebhere 10:24-25 enye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokuvuselela uthando nokukhuthaza izenzo ezilungileyo kukuhlala uthembekile kumzimba kaKristu. Ukubandakanyeka ecaweni kukwabonelela usapho lwakho ngenkqubo yenkxaso ekhuselekileyo yabahlobo kunye nabacebisi ukukunceda kumaxesha anzima obomi.
Yondla i-Romance yakho: Qhubeka uphuma kwaye uphuhlise uthando lwakho. Izibini ezitshatileyo ngokufuthi ziyawutyeshela lo mmandla, ngakumbi xa ziqalisa ukuba nabantwana. Ukugcina uthando luvutha kuya kufuna ucwangciso oluthile, kodwa kubalulekile ukugcina ubuhlobo obusondeleyo emtshatweni. Ungaze uyeke ukwenza nokuthetha izinto zothando owawuzenza xa wawuqala ukuthandana. Hug, kiss and say I love you qho. Mamela iqabane lakho, nibambene ngezandla nize nihambe nihambahamba elunxwemeni ukutshona kwelanga. Bamba izandla zakho. Yiba nobubele kwaye ucingele omnye nomnye. Bonisa imbeko, hleka kunye, kwaye uqaphele xa iqabane lakho likwenzela into entle. Khumbula ukuncoma nokubhiyozela impumelelo yomnye nomnye ebomini.
Ukuba nobabini nenza ezi zinto zintlanu kuphela, akupheleli nje ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umtshato wenu uya kuhlala, uya kungqina ngenkalipho icebo likaThixo lomtshato wamaKristu.
Kungenxa yokuba uThixo wadala umtshato wamaKristu
Icebo lokugqibela lokwakha umtshato wamaKristu owomeleleyo yiBhayibhile. Ukuba sifundisisa oko kuthethwa yiBhayibhile ngomtshato, kungekudala siya kufumanisa ukuba umtshato wawuyingcamango kaThixo kwasekuqaleni. Eneneni, yayililungiselelo lokuqala elamiselwa nguThixo kwiGenesis, isahluko 2 .
Embindini wecebo likaThixo lomtshato zizinto ezimbini: ubuqabane kunye nokusondelelana. Ukusuka apho injongo iba ngumzekeliso omhle wobudlelwane obungcwele nobumiselwe ngokobuthixo phakathi kukaYesu Kristu noMtshakazi wakhe (ibandla), okanye umzimba kaKristu.
Kusenokukothusa ukufunda oku, kodwa uThixo akazange enze umtshato ukuze wonwabe. Eyona njongo kaThixo emtshatweni kukuba izibini zikhule kunye ebungcweleni.
Kuthekani ngoqhawulo-mtshato nokuphinda utshate?
Inkoliso yeecawa ezisekelwe eBhayibhileni ifundisa ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato lufanele lujongwe kuphela njengelinge lokugqibela emva kokuba nayiphi na imigudu enokwenzeka yokuxolelanisa iye yasilela. Kanye njengokuba iBhayibhile isifundisa ukuba singene emtshatweni ngenyameko nangentlonelo, uqhawulo-mtshato lumele luphetshwe kuzo zonke iimeko. Olu phononongo luzama ukuphendula eminye yemibuzo edla ngokubuzwa ngoqhawulo-mtshato nokuphinda utshate.