Ithini iBhayibhile ngoqhawulo mtshato kwakhona?
Umtshato yayiliziko lokuqala elasekwa nguThixo kwincwadi yeGenesis, isahluko 2. Ngumnqophiso ongcwele obonakalisa ubudlelwane phakathi kukaKristu noMtshakazi wakhe okanye uMzimba kaKristu.
Uninzi lweenkolelo zamaKristu ezisekwe eBhayibhileni zifundisa ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato kufuneka lujongwe kuphela njengendawo yokugqibela emva kokuba nayiphi na inzame yokufumana uxolelwaniso isilele. Kanye njengokuba iBhayibhile isifundisa ukuba singene emtshatweni ngononophelo nangentlonelo, uqhawulo-mtshato kufuneka luthintelwe kuzo zonke iindleko. Ukuhlonipha nokuhlonela izifungo zomtshato kuzisa imbeko nozuko kuThixo.
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Ngelishwa, uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nomtshato omtsha ziyinto yokwenene emzimbeni kaKristu namhlanje. Ngokubanzi, amaKristu aqhele ukuwela kwesinye sezikhundla ezine kulo mbambano.
Akukho mtshato - Akukho Mtshato mtsha: Umtshato sisivumelwano somnqophiso, senzelwe ubomi, ke akufuneki siphulwe phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko; umtshato omtsha wophula ngakumbi umnqophiso kwaye ke awuvunyelwanga.
Uqhawulo mtshato- Kodwa sukuphinda utshate: Uqhawulo-mtshato, nangona kungengokuthanda kukaThixo, ngamanye amaxesha lolona khetho kuphela xa yonke into isilele. Umntu oqhawule umtshato kufuneka ahlale engatshatanga ubomi bonke emva koko.
Uqhawulo-mtshato - kodwa uphinde utshate kuphela kwiimeko ezithile: Uqhawulo-mtshato, nangona ingesosifiso sikaThixo, ngamanye amaxesha alunakuphepheka. Ukuba izizathu zoqhawulo mtshato zibhalwe eBhayibhileni, umntu oqhawule umtshato angaphinda atshate, kodwa kuphela likholwa.
Uqhawulo-mtshato - Ukutshata kwakhona Nokuba zithini iimeko, bonke abantu abaqhawule umtshato abaguqukileyo mabaxolelwe kwaye bavunyelwe ukuba baphinde batshate.
Ithini iBhayibhile?
Esi sifundo silandelayo sizama ukuphendula eminye imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo malunga noqhawulo mtshato kunye nomtshato omtsha phakathi kwamaKristu ngokwembono yebhayibhile. Sithanda ukubulela umfundisi-ntsapho u-Ben Reid we-True Oak Fellowship kunye noMfundisi uDanny Hodges waseCalvary Chapel eSt.
Q1 - ndingumKristu, kodwa iqabane lam alikho. Ngaba ndifanele ndiwuqhawule umtshato neqabane lam elingakholwayo kwaye ndizame ukukholwa ukuze nditshate? Hayi. Ukuba iqabane lakho elingakholwayo lifuna ukukutshata, namathela emtshatweni wakho. Iqabane lakho elingasindiswanga lifuna ubungqina bakho obuqhubekayo bobuKrestu kwaye linokoyiswa kuKristu ngumzekelo wakho wobuthixo.
1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 12-13
Kwabanye ke nditsho oku (mna, ingeyiyo iNkosi): ukuba umzalwana uthe waba ngumfazi ongakholiweyo, aze umfazi lowo athande ukuhlala naye, makangahambi. Kwaye ukuba umfazi unendoda engakholwayo kunye nevumayo ukuhlala naye, mayingamelani naye. (NIV)
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Nabafazi, wathobeleni awenu amadoda ukuze kuthi, nokuba kukho kuwo, omnye kubo angakholi lizwi, boyiswa ngaphandle kwamazwi ngokuziphatha kwabafazi babo xa bebona ubunyulu kunye nembeko ngobomi bakho. (NIV)
I-Q2-NdingumKristu, kodwa iqabane lam, elingakholwayo, landishiya lafaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato. Ndingenza ntoni? Ukuba kunokwenzeka, zama ukubuyisela umtshato. Ukuba uxolelwaniso alunakwenzeka, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale kulo mtshato.
1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 15-16
Kodwa ke ukuba lowo ungakholiweyo uyahluka, makenjenjalo. Indoda okanye umfazi okholwayo akabophelelekanga kwiimeko ezinjalo; Usibizele ukuba siphile ngoxolo. Wazi njani, mfazi, ukuba uyisindisa indoda yakho? Wazi ngani na, ndoda, ukuba umsindisa umfazi wakho? (NIV)
Q3 - Zithini izizathu zebhayibhile okanye izizathu zoqhawulo mtshato? Ibhayibhile iphakamisa ukuba "ukungathembeki emtshatweni" kuphela kwesizathu esingokweZibhalo esivumela uThixo ukuba aqhawule umtshato aze aphinde atshate. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokutolika phakathi kweemfundiso zobuKristu ngokubhekisele kwinkcazo ngqo "yokungathembeki emtshatweni". Igama lesiGrike lokungathembeki emtshatweni elifumaneka kuMateyu 5: 32 kunye ne-19: 9 liguqulela nakweyiphi na indlela yokuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo kubandakanya ukukrexeza, ubuhenyu, uhenyuzo, iphonografi kunye nokulalana. Kuba ukudibana kwezesondo kuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yomnqophiso womtshato, ukwaphula olo manyano kubonakala kusisizathu esamkelekileyo soqhawulo-mtshato.
UMateyu 5:32
Ke mna ndithi kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe; ngaphandle kokrexeza, uyakrexeza; nalowo uzeka owaliweyo uyakrexeza. (NIV)
UMateyu 19: 9
Ndithi kuni nabani na oqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe, ngaphandle kokungathembeki emtshatweni, kwaye atshate omnye umfazi uyakrexeza. (NIV)
I-Q4-ndiqhawule umtshato neqabane lam ngenxa yezizathu ezingenasiseko seBhayibhile. Akukho namnye kuthi otshate kwakhona. Ndingenza ntoni ukubonisa ukuguquka nokuthobela iLizwi likaThixo? Ukuba kunokwenzeka, funa uxolelwaniso kwaye nidibane kwakhona emtshatweni nalowo wawusakuba liqabane lakho.
1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 10-11
Umtshato ndiyawunika lo mthetho (ingendim kodwa iyiNkosi): Umfazi akafanele ahlukane nendoda yakhe. Kodwa ukuba wenza njalo, kufuneka angatshati okanye axolelane nendoda yakhe. Kwaye umyeni akafanelanga ukuba aqhawule umtshato nomfazi wakhe. (NIV)
I-Q5-ndiqhawule umtshato neqabane lam ngenxa yezizathu ezingenasiseko seBhayibhile. Uxolelwaniso alusenakwenzeka kuba omnye wethu uphinde watshata. Ndingenza ntoni ukubonisa ukuguquka nokuthobela iLizwi likaThixo? Nangona uqhawulo-mtshato lubalulekile ngokwembono kaThixo (Malaki 2:16), ayisosono singaxolelekiyo. Ukuba uvuma izono zakho kuThixo kwaye ucela ukuxolelwa, uxolelwe (1 Yohane 1: 9) kwaye ungaqhubeka ngobomi bakho. Ukuba ungasivuma isono sakho kwiqabane lakho langaphambili kwaye ucele uxolelo ngaphandle kokudala ukwenzakala, kuya kufuneka uzame ukwenza njalo. Ukusuka kweli nqanaba ukuya phambili, kuya kufuneka uzinikele ekuhlonipheni iLizwi likaThixo malunga nomtshato. Ke ukuba isazela sakho siyakuvumela ukuba uphinde utshate, kuya kufuneka wenze ngononophelo kunye nentlonipho xa kufika ixesha. Tshata kuphela elinye ikholwa. Ukuba isazela sakho sikuxelela ukuba uhlale ungatshatanga, hlala ungatshatanga.
I-Q6-andifuni kuqhawula umtshato, kodwa owayesakuba liqabane lam wandinyanzela. Uxolelwaniso alunakwenzeka ngenxa yeemeko ezinokubakho. Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba andinakuphinda nditshate kwakhona kwixa elizayo? Kwiimeko ezininzi, omabini amacala anoxanduva lokuqhawula umtshato. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, ngokweBhayibhile uthathwa njengeqabane "elimsulwa". Uvumelekile ukuba uphinde utshate, kodwa kufuneka ukwenze oko ngononophelo nangentlonelo xa kufika ixesha, kwaye utshate kuphela kunye nomnye okholwa kunye naye. Kule meko, imigaqo efundiswe kwi-1 kwabaseKorinte 7:15, uMateyu 5: 31-32 no-19: 9 iyasebenza.
Q7-Ndiqhawule umtshato neqabane lam ngenxa yezizathu ezingezizo ezebhayibhile kunye / okanye ndatshata kwakhona ngaphambi kokuba ndibe ngumKristu. Ithetha ntoni le nto kum? Xa uba ngumKristu, izono zakho zangaphambili ziyacinywa kwaye ufumana isiqalo esitsha. Nokuba uyintoni na kwimbali yakho yomtshato ngaphambi kokuba usindiswe, yamkela uxolelo lukaThixo nokucocwa, Ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili, kufuneka uzinikele ekuhlonipheni iLizwi likaThixo ngomtshato.
2 kwabaseKorinte 5: 17-18
Ngoko ke, ukuba ubani ukuKristu, usisidalwa esitsha; endala ihambile, entsha ikho! Konke oku kuphuma kuThixo, owasixolelanisa naye ngokwakhe ngoKristu, wasinika ulungiselelo loxolelaniso. (NIV)
Q8 - Umlingane wam ukrexezile (okanye olunye uhlobo lokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo). NgokukaMateyu 5: 32 Ndinesizathu sokuqhawula umtshato. Ngaba kufuneka ndiwuqhawule umtshato kuba ndinako? Enye indlela yokujonga lo mbuzo inokuba kukucinga ngazo zonke iindlela thina, njengabalandeli bakaKristu, esikrexeza ngazo ngokomoya kuThixo, ngesono, ukulahla, ukukhonza izithixo nokungakhathali. Kodwa uThixo akasilahli. Intliziyo yakhe ihlala ixolela kwaye ixolelanise naye xa sibuya sibuye siguquke kwisono sethu. Singawandisa lo mlinganiselo ubabalo kumaqabane xa bengathembekanga, kodwa beze kwindawo yokuguquka. Ukungathembeki emtshatweni kuyatshabalalisa kwaye kubuhlungu. Ukuthembana kuthatha ixesha ukwakha kwakhona. Nika uThixo ixesha elininzi lokusebenza kumtshato oqhekekileyo kunye nokusebenza entliziyweni yomlingane ngamnye, ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke uqhawule umtshato. Uxolelo, uxolelwaniso, kunye nokubuyiselwa komtshato kuzukisa uThixo kwaye kungqina ngobabalo lwakhe olungaqhelekanga.
KwabaseKolose 3: 12-14
Kaloku uThixo ubanyule abantu abangcwele, ngokunjalo nenceba, nobubele, nokuthobeka, ubulali, nomonde. Kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo iziphoso zomnye nomnye kwaye uxolele umntu okukhubekisileyo. Khumbula ukuba iNkosi ikuxolele, nawe kufuneka uxolele abanye. Kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyinxibe luthando. Uthando lusidibanisa sonke ngokuvisisana okugqibeleleyo. (NLT)
Qaphela
Ezi mpendulo zenzelwe nje ukuba zibe sisikhokelo sokucinga kunye nokufunda. Azinikezelwanga njengenye yeengcebiso zebhayibhile nezingcwele. Ukuba unenkxalabo enkulu okanye imibuzo kwaye ujongene noqhawulo-mtshato okanye ucinga ukutshata kwakhona, sicebisa ukuba ufune iingcebiso kumfundisi wakho okanye kumcebisi ongumKristu. Ngapha koko, kuyinyani ukuba uninzi aluyi kuvumelana neembono ezichazwe kolu phando kwaye, ke ngoko, abafundi kufuneka bazihlolisise iBhayibhile, bafune ulwalathiso loMoya oyiNgcwele, kwaye balandele izazela zabo ngalo mbandela.