Ithini iBhayibhile ngesondo ngaphandle komtshato?
"Sabani kulo uhenyuzo" -Into ethethwa yiBhayibhile ngohenyuzo
NguBetty Miller
Wubaleke umbulo. Zonke izono awazenzayo umntu zingaphandle komzimba; ke yena owenza umbulo, wona owakhe umzimba. Intoni? Anazi na ukuba umzimba wakho yitempile yoMoya Oyingcwele okukuwe, ukuba unoThixo, awunguye owakho? Ngenxa yokuba uzithenga ngexabiso: ngenxa yoko mzukise ke uThixo ngomzimba wakho nangomoya wakho, izinto ezizezikaThixo 1 Kor.
Ngoku malunga nezinto ondibhalele zona: kulungile ukuba umntu angamchukumisi umntu obhinqileyo. Kodwa ke, ukuphepha ukuhenyuza, indoda nganye mayibe nowayo umfazi, kwaye umfazi ngamnye abe neyendoda. 1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 1-2
Ithini iBhayibhile ngohenyuzo?
Intsingiselo yesichazi magama yegama elithi "uhenyuzo" ithetha nakuphi na ukwabelana ngesondo ngokungekho mthethweni kubandakanya ukukrexeza. EBhayibhileni, ingcaciso yesiGrike yegama elithi "uhenyuzo" ithetha ukuba neentlobano zesini ngokungekho mthethweni. Yintoni into ebandakanya isondo ngokungekho mthethweni? Yeyiphi imithetho esiphila ngayo? Imigangatho okanye imithetho yelizwe amaxesha ngamaxesha ayisoloko ihambelana neLizwi likaThixo Ooyise baseMelika basungula imithetho emininzi eyayisekwe kwimigangatho yobuKrestu nakwimithetho yeBhayibhile. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuhamba kwexesha i-United States ishenxile kule migangatho kwaye imigangatho yethu yokuziphatha iyalothusa ilizwe ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, isimilo sokuziphatha okubi asifumaneki eUnited States kuphela, sisibetho sehlabathi. Imibutho kuyo yonke imbali kunye nehlabathi jikelele yamkele imigangatho yesondo ebizwa ngokuba zizono eBhayibhileni.
Iziphumo zokuhenyuza kubomi bethu
Ubuhenyu abunyamezelwa kuluntu lwethu, kuyakhuthazwa. Isono sokuhenyuza sikwenziwe nakumaKristu, njengoko izibini ezininzi "zihlala kunye" kwaye zabelana ngesondo ngaphambi komtshato. Ibhayibhile isixelela ukuba sisabe kwesi sono. Sicebise amaKristu esini esahlukileyo ukuba babelane ngendlu kwaye basixelela ukuba ababelani ngesondo, ke oko kwakungalunganga. IBhayibhile ithi kula mazwi akweyoku- 1 kwabaseTesalonika 5: 22-23: “Khumkani kuzo zonke iintlobo zobubi. Kwangulo Thixo woxolo ukungcwalisa ngokupheleleyo; Kwaye ndithandaza kuThixo ukuba wonke umoya wakho, umphefumlo nomzimba zigcinwe zingenakusoleka ekufikeni kweNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu ”.
Ubomi bethu njengamaKristu bubungqina obuphilayo kwabanye kwaye asinakutyeshela imithetho kaThixo ngaphandle kokuthintela abanye ukuba beze kuKristu. Kufuneka siphile ubomi bethu sinyulu ngaphambi kwelizwe elinesono nelingendawo. Akufanele siphile ngemigangatho yabo kodwa ngemilinganiselo kaThixo esebhayibhile. Akukho sibini simele ukuhlala kunye ngaphandle kwamatyala omtshato.
Uninzi luthi bahlala kunye ngaphambi komtshato ukubona ukuba bayahambelana na, kuba abafuni kuqhawula umtshato. Ingabonakala njengesizathu esivakalayo sokwenza isono sobuhenyu, kodwa emehlweni kaThixo sisisono. Iinkcukacha-manani zibonisa kodwa ukuba abo bahlala kunye ngaphambi komtshato kunokwenzeka ukuba bahlukane kunabo bangenzi njalo. Ukuhlala kunye kubonisa ukungabikho kokuthembela ngokupheleleyo kuThixo kunye nokungakwazi ukuzibophelela ekukhetheni iqabane. AmaKristu ahlala kule meko yintando kaThixo kwaye kufuneka aguquke kwaye afune uThixo ukuba azi ukuba lo mntu ukulungele na. Ukuba kukuthanda kukaThixo ukuba babe kunye, mabatshate. Ngaphandle koko, iimeko zabo zokuhlala kufuneka zitshintshe.
NjengamaKristu, injongo yalo naluphi na ubudlelwane kufuneka ibe kukwenza ukuba iNkosi ithande kwaye yaziwe ngcono ebomini bethu. Ukuhlala kunye kulihlazo kwaye kuyazingca njengoko amaqela engakhathali ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni okanye angazichaphazela njani iintsapho zabo kunye nabanye. Baphilela ukwanelisa iminqweno yabo yokuzingca. Olu hlobo lokuphila luyatshabalalisa kwaye ngakumbi abantwana abanabazali abaphila umzekelo ombi phambi kwabo. Ayimangalisi into yokuba abantwana bethu badideke malunga nento elungileyo nengalunganga xa abazali bethoba ubungcwele bomtshato ngokuhlala kunye ngaphandle komtshato. Ukuhlala kunye kungalwenza njani uthando kunye nembeko ebantwaneni xa abazali babo besaphula imithetho kaThixo phambi kwabo kuba bebawela?
Namhlanje kubalulekile ukufundisa abantu abancinci ukwala ukuba neentlobano zesini kwaye bahlale bezintombi nangaphambi komtshato. Iingxaki ezininzi emitshatweni namhlanje zisuka kwinto yokuba ayizontombi xa zitshata. Abantu abancinci bazisa iimvakalelo ezenzakalisayo kunye nemizimba egulayo emitshatweni yabo ngenxa yemicimbi yangaphambili yokuziphatha okubi. Izifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo (izifo ezosulela ngesondo) zigcwele kangangokuba izibalo ziyothusa. Zili-12 lezigidi iimeko ezitsha zesifo esidluliselwa ngesondo eUnited States nyaka ngamnye kwaye iipesenti ezingama-67 zezi zibakhona kubantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-25 ubudala. Ngapha koko, unyaka ngamnye kwisinye kwisithandathu sabakwishumi elivisayo basulelwa sisifo i STD. Phakathi kwe-100.000 kunye ne-150.000 yabasetyhini bayazala ngonyaka ngenxa yezifo ezosulela ngesondo. Abanye banyamezela iminyaka yentlungu kuba ezinye zezi zifo azinyangeki. Elinjani ixabiso elibi lokuhlawula izono zesondo.
Isono sohenyuzo akuchazwa nje kuphela ukuba neentlobano zesini ngokungekho mthethweni phakathi kwabo bangatshatanga, ikwayiambrela yezinye izono zesondo. Ibhayibhile ikwathetha ngesono sombulo njengohenyuzo kweyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 5: 1: “Kuvakala ukuba kukho uhenyuzo phakathi kwenu; "
IBhayibhile ikwadwelisa oonongogo njengabahenyuzi kwiSityhilelo 21: 8: “Ke bona aboyikayo, abangakholwayo, nabangamasikizi, nababulali, namahenyukazi, nabakhafuli, nabakhonzi bezithixo, nawo onke amaxoki, isabelo sabo siya kuba sedikeni elivuthayo. ngomlilo nesalfure: kukufa kwesibini ntoni na? “Onke amahenyukazi nabaduni ngabahenyuzi. Amaqabane "ahlala kunye" ngokweBhayibhile, enza isono esifanayo esenziwa ngoonongogo. Abangatshatanga "abenza uthando" bawela kudidi olunye. Kungenxa yokuba uluntu lwamkele olu hlobo lobomi alwenzi ukuba lulunge. Ibhayibhile kufuneka ibe ngumgangatho wethu wokulungileyo nokungalunganga. Kufuneka sitshintshe imigangatho yethu ukuba asifuni ukuba ingqumbo kaThixo iwele kuthi. UThixo usithiyile isono kodwa uyamthanda umoni. Ukuba umntu uguqukile kwaye abize uYesu namhlanje, oko kuyakumnceda ukuba aphume kubo nabuphi na ubudlelwane obungekho mthethweni kwaye abaphilise kuwo onke amanxeba adlulileyo kwaye baphilise nakuphi na ukugula abasenokuba bakufumene.
UThixo usinike imithetho yeBhayibhile ukuze sizuze. Azidalelwanga ukuba zisikhanyele nantoni na elungileyo, kodwa zinikezelwe kuthi ukuze sonwabele isondo elifanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ukuba siyawathobela amazwi eBhayibhile kwaye "sibaleke uhenyuzo" simzukise uThixo ngemizimba yethu, iNkosi iyakusisikelela ngaphaya koko sinokukukholelwa.
Ulilungisa uYehova ngeendlela zakhe zonke, Unenceba ngezenzo zakhe zonke. INkosi isondele kubo bonke abo bayicelayo, kubo bonke abo bayibizayo ngenyaniso. Willyayenza into ekholekileyo kwabamoyikayo, Akuve ukuzibika kwabo, abasindise. UYehova ungumgcini wabo bonke abamthandayo, Abatshabalalise bonke abangendawo. Umlomo wam uya kumdumisa uYehova, Lilibonge igama lakhe elingcwele ngonaphakade kanaphakade. INdumiso 145: 17-21