Ithini iBhayibhile ngesondo?
Masithethe ngesondo. Ewe, igama "S". NjengamaKristu aselula, mhlawumbi siye salumkiswa ukuba singabelani ngesondo ngaphambi komtshato. Usenokuba unoluvo lokuba uThixo ucinga ukuba isini asilunganga, kodwa iBhayibhile ithi akukho nto iphikisana noko. Xa ujongwa ngokwembono kaThixo, isini esisebhayibhileni yinto ebalaseleyo.
Ithini iBhayibhile ngesondo?
Yima. Intoni? Ngaba isondo yinto elungileyo? UThixo wadala isini. AsinguThixo kuphela owayila ukuba isini sizale ngokutsha - ukuba senze abantwana - wadala ukuba neentlobano zesini sonwabe. Ibhayibhile ithi isini yindlela yendoda nomfazi yokubonakalisa uthando lwabo phakathi kwabo. UThixo wadala isini ukuba ibe yimbonakaliso yothando entle neyonwabisayo:
Ke kaloku uThixo wamdala umntu ngokomfanekiso wakhe, wamdala ngokomfanekiso kaThixo. bayila indoda nenkazana. UThixo wabasikelela wathi kubo: "Qhamani, nande." (Genesis 1: 27-28, NIV)
Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina kwaye ingene kumkayo, babe nyama-nye. (Genesis 2: 24, NIV)
Ngamana umthombo wakho ungasikeleleka kwaye ube nemihlali ngumfazi wobutsha bakho. I-doe enothando, inyamakazi enobubele: ukuba amabele akho aya kuhlala anelisile, ukuba soze uthandwe luthando. (IMizekeliso 5: 18-19, NIV)
"Umhle kanjani kwaye umnandi, okanye uthando, ngokuzonwabisa kwakho!" (INgoma yazo iiNgoma 7: 6, NIV)
Umzimba awenzelwe ukwenza uhenyuzo, kodwa yiNkosi neNkosi ngenxa yomzimba. (1 Kori. 6: 13, NIV)
Indoda kufuneka yanelise umfazi malunga nezesondo kwaye umfazi kufuneka anelise iimfuno zomyeni. Umfazi unika amandla emzimbeni wakhe kwindoda yakhe kwaye nendoda inika amandla emzimbeni wayo kumfazi wayo. (1 KwabaseKhorinte 7: 3-5, NLT)
Kulungile. Kukho okuninzi okuthetha ngesondo okusingqongileyo. Siyifunda phantse kuwo onke amaphephandaba kunye namaphephandaba, siyayibona kumabonwakude nakwiifilimu. Kusemculweni esiwumamelayo. Inkcubeko yethu igcwele ezokwabelana ngesondo, isenza kubonakale ngathi ukuba sex ngaphambi komtshato kuhamba kakuhle kuba imnandi.
Kodwa iBhayibhile ayivumelani. UThixo usibiza sonke ukuba silawule inkanuko zethu kwaye silinde umtshato:
Kodwa ke ngenxa yokuba kukho ukungaziphathi kakuhle, indoda nganye inayo inkosikazi yayo, kunye naloo mfazi indoda yakhe. Indoda mayiphumeze imbophelelo yayo emtshatweni wayo kumfazi wayo ngokunjalo umfazi endodeni yakhe. (1 kwabaseKhorinte 7: 2-3, NIV)
Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili somtshato masibe msulwa, kuba uThixo uya kugweba umkrexezi nako konke okuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini. (Heb. 13: 4, NIV)
Kukuthanda kukaThixo ukuba ungcwaliswe: ukuba ugweme uhenyuzo; ukuba elowo kuni afunde ukulawula ukuwulawula umzimba wakhe ngendlela eyiyo nehloniphekileyo, (1 Tesalonike 4: 3-4, NIV)
Kuthekani ukuba sele ndabelana ngesondo?
Ukuba wabelana ngesondo ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumKristu, khumbula, uThixo uyazixolela izono zethu zangaphambili. Izikreqo zethu zigutyungelwe ligazi likaYesu Krestu emnqamlezweni.
Ukuba sele ulikholwa kodwa wawela kwisono sesondo, likho ithemba lakho. Ngelixa ungasayi kubuyela kwakhona ekuzintombini kwakhona ngokwasemzimbeni, unokufumana ukuxolelwa nguThixo. Cela nje uThixo ukuba akuxolele kwaye uzinikele ngokunyaniseka ukuba ungaqhubeki usona ngale ndlela.
Inguquko yenene kuthetha ukuguquka esonweni. Yintoni emcaphukisayo uThixo sisono esinenjongo, xa usazi ukuba uyona, kodwa qhubeka uthatha inxaxheba kweso sono. Ngelixa ukunikezela ngesondo kunokuba nzima, uThixo usibizela ukuba sihlale sinyulu ngokwesondo kude kube umtshato.
Ke ngoko, bazalwana bam, ndifuna nazi ukuba ukuxolelwa kwezono kuvakalisiwe ngoYesu. Ngaye bonke abakholwayo banokugwetyelwa yiyo yonke into yokuba umthetho kaMoses awunakulungiswa. (Izenzo 13: 38-39, NIV)
Kuyimfuneko ukwala ukutya okunikelwe kwizithixo, ekutyeni igazi okanye kwinyama kwizilwanyana ezikrwitshiweyo nasekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini. Ukuba wenzile, uya kuba ulungile. Sala kakuhle. (Izenzo 15: 29, NLT)
Makungabikho kuziphatha okubi ngokwesini, ukungacoceki okanye ukubawa phakathi kwakho. Izono ezinjalo azinandawo phakathi kwabantu bakaThixo. (Efe. 5: 3, NLT)
Intando kaThixo kukuba ungcwele, ke uhlale kude kuzo zonke izono zesondo. Ke elowo kuni uya kulawula owakhe umzimba, uphila ngobungcwele nembeko, kungokunqweneleka kwinkanuko, njengabahedeni abangamaziyo uThixo neendlela zakhe. Ungaze umenzakalise okanye ukrexeze umntakwenu ngale nto ngokuwaphula umfazi wakhe, kuba kaloku uNdikhoyo uyaziphindezela, ngenxa yazo zonke ezi zinto, njengoko besikulumkisile. U-Thixo usibizele ukuba siphile ubomi obungcwele, hayi ubomi obungacocekanga. (1 Tes. 4: 3-7, NLT)
Nazi iindaba ezimnandi: ukuba uguquka ngokunyaniseka kwisono sesondo, uThixo uyakwenza ube mtsha kwaye ucoceke kwakhona, ukubuyisela ubunyulu bakho ngokomoya.
Ndingamelana njani?
Njengamakholwa, kufuneka silwe nezilingo mihla le. Ukuhendwa akusosono. Kuphela kuxa sinikezela kwisilingo apho sisona khona. Ke singasixhathisa njani isilingo sokuba neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato?
Umnqweno wokuba neentlobano zesini unokuba namandla kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba sele walala ngesondo. Kuphela kungokuthembela kuThixo ngamandla ukuze sikwazi ukoyisa isilingo.
Akukho sihendo sinibambayo, ngaphandle kwaqhelekileyo komntu. Kwaye uThixo uthembekile; ayizukuvumela ukuba uhende ngaphaya koko unokukunyamezela. Kodwa xa uhendwa, iya kukubonelela nendlela yokuzivumela ukwazi ukuxhathisa. (1 Kori. 10: 13 - NIV)