Ithetha ukuthini into ethi, "Ukwenza kwabanye" (Umgaqo wegolide) eBhayibhileni?
"Yenza kwabanye into othanda ukuba yenziwe kuwe" ngumbhalo webhayibhile ovakaliswa nguYesu kuLuka 6: 31 noMateyu 7:12; idla ngokubizwa ngokuba yi- "Golden Rule".
"Ke kuyo yonke into, yenzela abanye izinto ongathanda ukuba zenziwe kuwe, kuba oku kuyashwankathela umthetho nabaProfeti" (uMateyu 7:12).
"Yenza kwabanye into othanda ukuba yenziwe kuwe" (uLuka 6: 31).
Kwangolo hlobo u-John urekhoda: "Umyalelo omtsha endininike wona: thandanani. Indlela endanithanda ngayo, ke kufuneka nithandane. Ngayo le nto baya kwazi bonke ukuba ningabafundi bam, ukuba niyathandana ”(Yohane 13: 34-35).
Amagqabantshintshi e-Bhayibhile ye-NIV Study Theological Study kuLuka 6:31,
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba lo mthetho mgaqo uhambelana nje, ngokungathi senze ngendlela esifuna ukuphathwa ngayo. Kodwa amanye amacandelo eli candelo anciphisa ukugxila kwimbuyekezo kwaye, enyanisweni, uyayirhoxisa (vv. 27-30, 32-35). Ekupheleni kwecandelo, uYesu unika isiseko esahlukileyo sezenzo zethu: kufuneka sixelise uThixo uBawo (v. 36). "
Impendulo yethu kwisisa sikaThixo kufanele ukuba siyisongele kwabanye; Siyasithanda kuba ngaphambi kokuba asithande, ngoko ke, siyabathanda abanye njengoko sithandwa. Lo ngumyalelo olula kodwa onzima wokuphila. Makhe sihlolisise indlela esinokuphila ngayo le mihla yonke.
"Yenza kwabanye", Umyalelo omkhulu, Ummiselo wegolide ... Oko kuthetha kona ngokwenene
KuMarko 12: 30-31, uYesu wathi: “Uze uyithande iNkosi uThixo wakho ngentliziyo yakho iphela, ngomphefumlo wakho uphela, ngengqondo yakho iphela nangamandla akho ephela. Okwesibini kubaluleke ngokulinganayo: thanda ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu. Awukho omnye umthetho omkhulu kunale. Ngaphandle kokwenza inxenye yokuqala, awunalo kwaphela ithuba lokuzama isahlulo sesibini. Xa uzama ukuthanda iNkosi uThixo wakho ngentliziyo yakho iphela, ngomphefumlo, ngengqondo nangamandla ephela, ufumana uncedo loMoya oyiNgcwele okuncedayo ukuba ubathande abanye abantu.
Abanye abantu banokuthi kuyinto yethu ukubabenzela izinto ezintle abanye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho intshukumo "yobubele obungenachuku" ixesha elide. Kodwa ngokubanzi, uninzi lwabantu linceda abanye kuphela xa:
1. Ngumhlobo okanye usapho lwabo.
2. Zilungele bona.
3. Ndikwimeko entle
4. Balindele into ngembuyekezo.
Kodwa iBhayibhile ayitsho ukuba wenze ngokungathandabuzekiyo izenzo zobubele xa uziva ulungile. Uthi uthanda abanye ngamaxesha onke. Ubuye athi uyazithanda iintshaba zakho kunye nabo banitshutshisayo. Ukuba ulungile kuphela kubahlobo bakho, wahluke njani komnye umntu. Wonke umntu uyayenza (uMateyu 5: 47). Ukuthanda wonke umntu ngalo lonke ixesha kungowona msebenzi unzima kakhulu ukuwenza. Kuyimfuneko ukuvumela uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba akuncede.
Kuxhomekeka kumgaqo wegolide. Yenzela abanye izinto ongathanda ukuba zenziwe kuwe (uLuka 6: 31). Ngamanye amagama, phatha yonke into ngendlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo, kwaye uninzi lwazo zonke ziphathe yonke into njengoko naye uThixo ekuphathisile. Ukuba ufuna ukuphathwa kakuhle, phatha omnye umntu kakuhle; phatha omnye umntu kakuhle ngenxa yesisa osibabale. Ke ukuze, nokuba uziva njani kwimeko ethile, unganikezela ngobabalo olufana nolo, oluvela kuThixo mihla le. Ucinga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulungile, ulunge kakhulu, kwaye ekubuyiseleni ufumana ukugculelwa kwabanye abantu. Ngelishwa, oku kuyenzeka kwaye kuyakwenzeka. Abantu abasoloko bekuphatha ngendlela abafuna ukuphathwa ngayo okanye indlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba unokuyeka ukwenza into elungileyo. Musa ukuvumela umntu ukuba akutsalele kwinethiwekhi yakhe yobunzima obunomkhethe. Iimpazamo ezimbini azike zenze ilungelo kwaye ukuziphindezela akulolwethu.
Shiya isilonda sakho ukuba "senze kwabanye"
Wonke umntu wenzakele okanye wenzakeke ngandlela ithile kweli lizwe; Akukho mntu unobomi obugqibeleleyo. Amanxeba obomi anganzima kwaye andenze krakra, ke, enza ukuba ndivele ndedwa. Ukuzingca ngekhe kungavumeli ukuba ndikhule kwaye ndihambele phambili. Kulula kubantu abenzakeleyo ukuba baqhubeke nomjikelo wokuonzakalisa abanye abantu, nokuba bayazi okanye abazi. Abantu banamathele kwingqiqo yentlungu badla ngokusongela ikhukhamba elizikhuselayo kangangokuba bade bazibone bodwa. Kodwa ukuba wonke umntu ukhathazekile ngandlela thile, singawuyeka njani lo mjikelo wokwenzakalisa abanye?
Amanxeba akufuneki andenze lukhuni; Ndiyakwazi ukuphucula umbulelo kubo. Kulungile ukuzivumela ukuba ndive kabuhlungu, kodwa endaweni yokuqaqanjelwa, ndingavumela uThixo ukuba andinike umbono omtsha. Umbono wovelwano kuba ndiyayiqonda indlela ethile yentlungu esivakalelwa ngayo. Kusoloko kukho omnye umntu ogqitha kule nto sele endibonile. Le yindlela enkulu endinokuthi "ndiyenze kwabanye" -ukubanceda ukuba boyise iintlungu zobomi, kodwa kuqala kufuneka ndilahle iqokobhe lam elilukhuni. Ukwabelana ngeentlungu zam nabanye kuqalisa inkqubo. Umngcipheko okanye umngcipheko wokundenzakalisa uyenzeka ngokwenyani kunye nabo kwaye ngethemba lokuba baya kubona ukuba babekho ngokwenene.
Ukuphulukana nesiqu sakho
Xa ndihlala ndicinga ngesiqu sam nento ekufuneka ndiyenzile, amaxesha amaninzi andazi ukuba yintoni abanye abajikeleze mna. Ubomi bunokuxakeka, kodwa kufuneka ndinyanzelise ukuba ndijonge macala onke. Ngokwesiqhelo kukho amathuba amaninzi okunceda abanye ukuba ndithathe ixesha lokubabona kunye neemfuno zabo. Wonke umntu ukhathazekile ngemisebenzi yabo, iinjongo zabo, kunye namaphupha abo, kodwa isibhalo sithi abaxhalanga ngenxa yam kodwa benzela abanye (1 Kor. 10:24).
Ukusebenza nzima ukufezekisa injongo kunokuba yinto elungileyo, nokuba yeyaphezulu. Kodwa ezona njongo zintle zibandakanya ukunceda abanye kuzo. Umntu unokufunda kanzima kwisikolo sezonyango ukudala indlela yokuphila abayifunayo, okanye banokufunda nzima ukunyanga izigulo zabo. Ukongeza inkuthazo yokunceda abanye baphucule kakhulu nayiphi na injongo.
Zimbini izilingo ezikhulu xa ndijongana nomnye umntu. Enye kukucinga ukuba ndibhetele kunabo. Olunye kukucinga ukuba andilunganga njengabo. Nokuba aluncedo; ulwe nomgibe wokuthelekisa. Xa ndithelekisa, ndibona omnye umntu lowo kwisihluzi sam ngenxa yoko ndibajonga kodwa bajonge kum. Thelekisa ufuna ukuba ndijonge. Thelekisa kuphela wena namhlanje kunye nawe ukususela izolo. Ngaba ndiziphatha ngcono namhlanje kunayizolo? Ayifezekanga kodwa ingcono. Ukuba impendulo ngu-ewe, adumise uThixo; ukuba impendulo nguhayi, funa isikhokelo soMoya oyiNgcwele. Funa ukhokelo lweNkosi mihla le kuba asinakuba sodwa.
Ukuphelisa iingcinga zakho ngokusemandleni akho kwaye ujonge ukuba ngubani onguThixo kuya kukugcina umkhondo ukunceda abanye.
Khumbula uKrestu kunye nobomi bakho obutsha kuye
Sele ndifile kwisono sam nakukungathobeli kwam. Xa ndandisengumoni, uKrestu wandifela. Andinanto endinokumnika yona uKrestu, kodwa ke wandinxibelelanisa Undifele. Ngoku ndinobomi obutsha kuye. Ngenxa yobabalo, ndinethuba elitsha lokwenza ngcono yonke imihla kunye nesiqinisekiso sokuba ayisoze indishiye okanye indilahle. Uye wakufela.
Ngaba ulufumene ukhuthazo lokuba ungokaKristu?
Ukhe waziva ukuthuthuzelwa luthando lwakhe?
Usikelelekile ngobuhlobo noMoya wakhe?
Ke phendula ngokuthanda abanye abantu ngothando olufumana mihla le. Sebenza nzima ukuze uhlale ngokuvana naye nabani na odibana naye (KwabaseFiliphi 2: 1-2).
Phila ngokunceda abanye
UYesu wakwenza kwalula ngokuthi "bathande abanye," kwaye xa sibathanda ngokwenene abanye siya kwenza izinto ezininzi ezilungileyo. ITestamente eNtsha inemiyalelo emininzi yokwenza kwabanye, nto leyo isibonisa ukubaluleka kokufumana kukaThixo ukuthanda abanye njengoko nathi sithandwa. Siyakwazi ukuthanda kuphela kuba wasithanda kuqala.
Phila ngoxolo nemvisiswano nabanye; yiba nomonde kubo kuba abantu bafunda ngamanani ohlukeneyo kwaye abantu bayatshintsha ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Yiba nomonde njengoko befunda inyathelo elinye ngexesha. UThixo akakunikezeli, ngoko ke ungaziyekeli. Zinikele kwabanye abantu, ubathande kakhulu, ubakhathalele kwaye uchithe ixesha kunye nabo. Mamela zona, zinike indawo yokuhlala kunye nembeko apho kufanelekileyo, khathazeka malunga nabanye ngendlela efanayo kwaye ungakhethi isityebi ngaphezulu kwamahlwempu okanye okuphambene noko.
Musa ukugweba abanye kabukhali; nokuba izenzo zabo azilunganga, jonga kubo ngemfesane kuba bekwenza. Bamkela njengomntu odalwe ngokomfanekiso kaThixo kwanaindlela yabo engalunganga. Banokuthi okanye bangaphazanyiswa kwaye babone isiphoso sezindlela zabo xa ubamamela, kodwa xa umntu eziva ethe gqolo ethe kratya, ngekhe akwazi ukubona ithemba elisebabalweni. Eyona nto imbi nangakumbi, kunokubagweba abanye ebusweni, uyakhalaza kwaye abanyelise emva kwabo. Akukho nto ilungileyo ihlala iphuma kukunyelisa nokuhleba, nokuba ukhupha nje ukudandatheka kwakho.
Fundisa abanye, wabelane nabo, ubakhuthaze kwaye ubakhuthaze, kwaye ubakhe. Ukuba ungumculi, baculeleni. Ukuba unobugcisa, ubenzele into entle ukubakhumbuza ukuba ukulunga kukaThixo kulawula kwihlabathi eliweleyo. Xa usenza abanye bazive bhetele, akunakunceda kodwa uzive ubhetele. Le yindlela ke asiqambe ngayo: uthando, ukukhathazeka, ukwakha, ukwabelana, ukuba nobubele kunye nombulelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka nje ukukhuthaza umntu ukubabulisa apho bakhoyo kwaye ubekho ngokupheleleyo kunye nabo. Eli lizwe lilukhuni kwaye liwile lihlala lishiya imbeko; ngenxa yoko, kwanoncumo nokubingelela ngokulula kunokubanceda abantu ukuba bangaziva bodwa. Khonza abanye, bonisa iindwendwe kwaye uqonde izinto abazifunayo ebomini kwaye ngandlela-thile ugcwalise loo ntswelo. Ngamana izenzo zakho zothando zingabonisa olona thando lubalaseleyo lukaKristu kubo. Ngaba bayamdinga umntwana ongabalondolozi? Ngaba bayafuna isidlo eshushu? Ngaba bayayifuna imali yokubenza babonakale kwinyanga? Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze yonke into, ngena nje ngaphakathi wenze okuthile ukuphakamisa ubunzima babo. Xa abantu benesidingo ongakwaziyo ukusanelisa, bathandaze kwaye ubakhuthaze. Usenokungayazi impendulo yengxaki yabo, kodwa nguThixo owaziyo.
Baxolele abanye, kwanaxa bengakuxoleli
Ziyeke zonke izikhalazo zakho kwaye uvumele uThixo azisombulule. Indlela yakho eya phambili iya kuthintelwa okanye iyekwe ukuba awuzi. Baxelele inyani. Ukuba ubona into enokufuna ukutshintsha ebomini babo, baxelele ngokunyaniseka kodwa nangobubele. Ukwazisa abanye amaxesha ngamaxesha; amagama ezilumkiso kulula ukuva kumhlobo. Ubuxoki obuncinci abuyi kubasindisa ekuveni izinto ezimbi kwabanye. Ubuxoki busebenza kuphela ukukusindisa ekuziva ungakhululekanga.
Vuma izono zakho kwabanye. Ngqina ukuba ubunjani ngaphambili, kodwa ngobabalo lukaThixo awusekho. Vuma izono, vuma ubuthathaka, vuma uloyiko kwaye wenze phambi kwabanye abantu. Ungaze ube nesimo sengqondo esingcwele kunawe. Sonke sinesono kwaye asikho kwinto esiyifunayo, kwaye sonke sifuna ubabalo oluvela kukholo kuYesu kuphela. Sebenzisa iziphiwo osinikwe nguThixo kunye neetalente ukuze uncede abanye. Yabelana nabanye ngezinto ezilungileyo onazo; sukugcina ngokwakho. Musa ukuvumela ukoyika ukwaliwa kukuyekise ekuboniseni ububele kwabanye.
Khumbula uKrestu kaninzi-ninzi
Okokugqibela, zithobeleni omnye komnye ngokumhlonela kwakhe uKrestu. Ngapha koko, wayengacingi ngesiqu sakhe. Uthathe indawo ethobekileyo yokuza emhlabeni njengomntu ukuze asenzele indlela yokuba sifike ezulwini kwaye asibonise indlela yokuphila. Ude wafa emnqamlezweni ukuze atywinele isivumelwano kube kanye. Indlela ka Yesu kukucinga abanye rhoqo kunathi kwaye usimisele umzekelo. Into oyenzela abanye, uyenzela yena. Uqala ngokuthanda uThixo ngentliziyo, ingqondo, umphefumlo namandla akho onke. Oku kukukhokelela ekuthandeni abanye ngokusemandleni kwaye ezo zenzo zokuthanda abanye zizenzo zokumthanda. Yisangqa esihle sothando kunye nendlela sonke esasimele siphile ngayo.