Ukuzinikela kwiiSakramente: abazali "umyalezo ekufuneka bawunike abantwana babo yonke imihla"
Umnxeba wobuqu
Akukho mntu unokubanga iwonga lomyalezo womnye ukuba akasifumananga isabelo. Kwanakubazali bekuya kuba kukuzigwagwisa ukuzibiza ngokuba bangabathunywa bakaThixo ukuba bekungekho lubizo lukhethekileyo lokuba benjenjalo. Olu bizo lwaseburhulumenteni lwalungomhla womtshato wabo.
Uyise nomama bafundisa abantwana babo elukholweni, kungekhona ngesimemo sangaphandle okanye ngethuku elingaphakathi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba babizwe ngokuthe ngqo nguThixo ngomthendeleko womtshato. Bafumana eNkosini, ngendlela endilisekileyo phambi koluntu, ubizo olusemthethweni, ubizo lobuqu-kwababini, njengesibini.
Umsebenzi omkhulu
Abazali ababizwa ukuba banike naluphi na ulwazi ngoThixo: kufuneka babe ngababhengezi besiganeko, okanye kunoko uthotho lweenyaniso, apho iNkosi izenza khona. Bavakalisa ubukho bukaThixo, oko akwenzileyo entsatsheni yabo noko akwenzayo. Bangamangqina obu bukho bothando ngelizwi nangobomi.
Abatshati bangamangqina okholo ngokufanayo nakubantwana babo kunye nawo onke amanye amalungu osapho (AA, 11). Bona, njengabathunywa bakaThixo, bamele bayibone iNkosi ekhoyo endlwini yabo baze bayibonise abantwana babo ngelizwi nangobomi babo. Kungenjalo abathembekanga kwisidima sabo kwaye balalanisa ngokunzulu uthumo olufunyenwe emtshatweni. Uyise nonina abamchazi uThixo, kodwa bambonise ekhoyo, kuba nabo bamfumene baza baqhelana naye.
Ngamandla obukho
Umthunywa ngulowo ukhwazayo. Ukomelela kwesaziso akumele kujongwe ngethoni yelizwi, kodwa lulweyiseko olunamandla lobuqu, ubuchule bokweyisela obungena nzulu, ihlombe elibakho ngandlela zonke nakuzo zonke iimeko.
Ukuze babe ngabathunywa bakaThixo, abazali bamele babe neenkolelo ezinzulu zobuKristu ezichaphazela ubomi babo. Kule ntsimi, ukuthanda okulungileyo, ukuthanda ngokwayo, akwanele. Abazali bafanele bazuze, ngobabalo lukaThixo, ubuchule kuqala kuko konke ngokomeleza iinkolelo zabo zokuziphatha nezonqulo, bemisela umzekelo, becingisisa nzulu ngamava abo, becingisisa nzulu nabanye abazali, kunye nabafundisi abaziingcali, kunye nababingeleli (Yohane Paul II , Intetho. kwiNkongolo yeZizwe ngeZizwe ye-III yoSapho, ngo-Oktobha 30, 1978).
Ngoko ke abanakuzenza ngathi bafundisa abantwana babo elukholweni ukuba amazwi abo akangcangcazeli aze avakale ngokuhambelana nobomi babo. Ekubabizeni ukuba babe ngabathunywa bakhe, uThixo ucela abazali abaninzi, kodwa ngesakramente yomtshato uqinisekisa ubukho bakhe kwintsapho yabo, ekuzisela ubabalo lwakhe.
Umyalezo ekufuneka utolikwe yonke imihla ebantwaneni
Umyalezo ngamnye ufuna ukutolikwa kwaye uqondwe ngokuqhubekayo. Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into, kufuneka ijongane neemeko zobomi, kuba ijongana nobukho, iinkalo ezinzulu zobomi apho kuvela khona imibuzo enzima kakhulu engenakuphepheka. Ngabathunywa, kuthi ngabazali abajongene nokucacisa, kuba banikwe isipho sokutolika.
UThixo unike abazali umsebenzi wokusebenzisa intsingiselo yesigidimi kubomi bentsapho baze ngaloo ndlela badlulisele intsingiselo yobuKristu kubantwana babo.
Lo mba wokuqala wemfundo yezenkolo kusapho ubandakanya amaxesha aqhelekileyo kuwo onke amava asebenzayo: ukufundwa kwekhowudi yokutolika, ukufunyanwa kolwimi kunye nokwabiwa kwezijekulo nokuziphatha koluntu.