Ukuzinikela: umthandazo "wamahlwempu", uhlobo lomthandazo lokufumana ubabalo
Intlupheko ibonisa imeko esisiseko emthandazweni.
Intlupheko njengombonakaliso wento engenamntu kunye nokubonisa inkalipho nokuqonda okugqibeleleyo kwayo konke kukaThixo.
Ukuba ukulinda yimbonakaliso yethemba, intlupheko yimbonakaliso yokholo.
Emthandazweni, lowo uziqonda ukuba uxhomekeke komnye ulihlwempu.
Ulahla isiseko sobomi kwisiqu sakhe, kwizicwangciso zakhe, kwizinto anazo, kwizinto ezithile anazo, kodwa azikhohlisa kuThixo.
Umntu olihlwempu uyayeka ukubala. Ukhetha "ukubala" kuMntu!
Indoda elihlwempu iyamthemba uThixo ongenelelayo, kodwa ke noThixo ongazenzi ukuba uve.
KuThixo ozibonakalalisa, njengoThixo onika mqondiso ...
Imalunga nokunikezela kuThixo okuxelela ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuhamba (kwangoko!), Kodwa ayikutyhili ukuba uza kufika nini.
Ukuphela kwento okwethutyana.
Olona hlobo kuphela lokuthuthuzeleka kukungaqiniseki.
Ukuphela kobutyebi sisithembiso.
Inye kuphela eyenze uLizwi.
Umntu othandazayo akasisityebi somoya, kodwa ungumngqibi ongenakunyangwa, ocela iziqwenga, imibhobho yokukhanya.
Ukunxanelwa kwakhe kumenza angxwelerhe amaqula, kodwa kumkhokelela ekubeni awufune rhoqo umthombo.
Umthandazo awuyonto "yokufika", kodwa yiza abahambeli, obepakishwe isikhwama sabo singenalo iqanda le-nest esonyukayo, kodwa yimfuneko eqhubeka ngokuhlwa nje.
Kuphela ngabo bangamahlwempu ngexesha abanokunika ixesha kuThixo!
Akunakulindeleka ukuba nabani na abe nexesha elininzi (kwaye uyenze kancinane loo nto) ufumana ixesha lokuthandaza. Okona kungcono, inika nje izikhuhli.
Le ndoda ihlwempu yenza ummangaliso wokunika ixesha kuThixo ngomthandazo. Ixesha alilelayo.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo, hayi elona ngaphezulu. Kwaye kuyinika ububanzi, ngaphandle kokulinganisa.
Ngomthandazo, amahlwempu athembela ungenelelo lukaThixo "kwangoko".
Xa sukuba ke benizisa ezindlwini zesikhungu, nakwizilawuli, nakwabanegunya, musani ukuzixhalela, ukuba nithini na, kuba uMoya oyiNgcwele uya kunifundisa ngalo mzuzu izinto eziza kutyhilwa ”(Lk 12,11).
Umthandazo ophosakeleyo ngocoselelo, ngocoselelo nangomthandazo oqondayo.
Indoda ehlwempu ethandazayo ayoyiki ubuthathaka, ayikhathalelanga inani, ubungakanani, impumelelo.
Umntu olihlwempu othandazayo ufumana amandla obuthathaka!
"Xa ndibuthathaka, kulapho ke ndomelele khona" (2 Cor. 12,10:XNUMX).
Umntu olihlwempu akafuni ukwaneliseka ngokweemvakalelo xa ethandaza. Kwaye ayiceli intuthuzelo elula.
Uyazi ukuba umxholo womthandazo awubandakanyi ulonwabo oluvakalayo.
Amahlwempu akhangela kuye uThixo, xa athe waphoxwa nguThixo, wazifihla, wanyamalala.
Ulapho, ngaphandle kokunikezela kukukhathazeka, ebambelela kwintando kunokuba azive, ngokunyaniseka kothando olunomdla wokwamkela naluphi na uvavanyo.
Uyazi ukuba intlanganiso ngamanye amaxesha yenzeka emhlanganweni.
Kodwa, rhoqo, ityiwa kwisifo esingapheliyo.
Ubusuku "obumnyama", ukubanda, usizi, ukungaphenduli, umgama, ishiyiwe, ukungayiqondi into, zibiza kakhulu "ewe" ukubiza amahlwempu ukuba athi emthandazweni.
Indoda elihlwempu inyanzelisa ukugcina umnyango uvulekile kulo Thixo ozikhanyelayo.
Isibane esikhanyayo asilungiselelwe ukuba shushu.
Kodwa ukunika ingxelo ngokunyaniseka.
Ukuba awuvumi ukuba umthandazo ukhuphe imbonakalo, ukukhulule ekungxakini, uthatha zonke izinto ezingafunekiyo, ususe iimaski zakho, awusoze uve ukuba uyintoni na umthandazo.
Umthandazo kukusebenza kwelahleko.
Awuthandazi kuba ufuna ukuba nawo. Kodwa kutheni uvuma ukuphulukana!
Emthandazweni, uThixo wenza ukuba ufumanise, okokuqala, ukuba yintoni ongayidingiyo, ekufuneka ungayenzi ngaphandle.
Kukho "kakhulu" ekufuneka ishiye igumbi ngokubaluleka.
Kukho "ngaphezulu" ekufuneka kunikeze indawo kokuphela okuyimfuneko.
Ukuthandaza akuthethi ukuqokelela, kodwa ukujongela phantsi, ukuphinda ubuveze ubuze kunye nenyani yokuba ngumntu.
Umthandazo ngumsebenzi omde, kunye nomonde wokwenza lula ubomi bomntu.
Ukuthandaza = Isenzi
Ukuza kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuntywila isiqithi sethu esincinci sokwaneliseka, ukuba sizivumele ukuba sitshitshiswe lulwandlekazi lukaThixo, ngamacebo obuqili oMthando wakhe;
ude ufumane ummangaliso wento engeyiyo eye ichukumisa okungapheliyo!
Yonke into kaThixo ibekwe kuphela kuloo nto, engasisithuba, evulekile ezandleni ezingenanto kunye nentliziyo emsulwa.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku siphindile:
Ukulinda = HOPE
IPHONDO = UKHOLO
Ngoku masongeze into yesithathu yomthandazo: DISSATISFACTION = DESIRE
Umthandazo wenzelwe abo bangazinikeli kwisigqibo sokuba izinto kufuneka zihlale zinjalo.
Xa indoda ivuma ukuba ayonelisekanga kwaye inqwenela ukwenza enye into, ke ilungile emthandazweni.
Xa umntu ezimisele ukuphulukana nayo yonke into ukuzama i-adventure, ukubeka ubomi bakhe esichengeni, ukuyeka imikhwa, kuye makuthandazelwe.
Umthandazo ngowokuba abo banganikezeli!
Umntu othile ubize uMkristu "lulutho olungonelisekanga".
Unoyolo ngento uBawo amenzele yona kwaye uyenzela yena, engonelisekanga yindlela yakhe yokuba ngunyana, umntakwabo kunye nommi wobukumkani.
Ngapha koko, umthandazo kwangaxeshanye ungunobangela wolonwabo kunye nokuqala kokungazithembi.
Ukugcwala kunye nentuthumbo. Ukuxakeka phakathi "esele" kunye "akukabikho".
Ukhuseleko kunye nophando.
Uxolo kunye ... nokukhunjuzwa nje ngento eseleyo!
Emthandazweni siyamangaliswa bubungangamsha besimemo sikaBawo, kodwa siziva ukungafani phakathi kwesithembiso sakhe kunye nokuphendula kwethu.
Sithatha indlela yomthandazo kuphela emva kokuba sihlakulele iintsholongwane zokungazinzi.
Abanye bethu banelisekile xa "watsho umthandazi".
Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sifumanise ukuba ukungoneliseki yimeko yomthandazo.
Yeha nina anelisekileyo ngoku! (ULuka 6.25)
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UMoya omkhulu, nelizwi lakhe ndilivayo emoyeni,
Ukuphefumla kwakhe okunika ubomi behlabathi lonke, ndibaze iindlebe.
Ndiza phambi kobuso bakho njengonyana wakho.
Uyabona, ndimncinci kunawe, emehlweni akho;
Ndifuna amandla akho kunye nobulumko.
Ndivise ubuhle bendalo kwaye ndenze amehlo am
cinga ngemitha yelanga elibomvu.
Izandla zam kufuneka zigcwele intlonipho
Izinto odalile zona neemfundiso zakho
Ukuba uzifihle kuwo onke amagqabi nakwelitye ngalinye.
Ndinqwenela amandla, ukuze ndingaziphakamisi kubazalwana bam.
kodwa ukwazi ukulwa notshaba lwam oluyingozi:
Soloko undenza ndikwazi ukuza kuwe ngezandla ezinyulu kwaye
Ngokunyaniseka, ukuze umoya wam,
Xa ubomi buba njengokukhanya kwelanga,
inokukufikelela ngaphandle kokuba neentloni.