Imithandazo eli-XNUMX ekufuneka yenziwe ngumntwana ngamnye ongumKatolika
Ukufundisa abantwana bakho indlela yokuthandaza inokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Ngelixa kulungile ukuba ekugqibeleni sifunde ukuthandaza ngamazwi ethu, ubomi bomthandazo obusebenzayo buqala ngokwenza imithandazo ethile kwimemori. Indawo efanelekileyo yokuqala yimithandazo eqhelekileyo yabantwana enokuthi ikhunjulwe ngokulula. Abantwana abathatha umthendeleko wabo wokuqala bekufanele ukuba bayazi ngentloko le mithandazo ilandelayo, ngelixa ubabalo lwaphambi kokutya kunye nomthandazo wengelosi ogcinayo yimithandazo abanokufunda nokuba bancinci kakhulu abantwana ngokuyiphindaphinda yonke imihla.
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Umqondiso womnqamlezo ngowona mthandazo uphambili osisiseko wamaKatolika, nokuba sicinga njalo. Kufuneka sifundise abantwana bethu ukuba bayitsho ngentlonelo ngaphambi nasemva kweminye imithandazo yabo.
Eyona ngxaki ixhaphakileyo yabantwana ekufundeni uMqondiso woMnqamlezo kukusebenzisa isandla sasekhohlo endaweni yasekunene; okwesibini okuqhelekileyo kukuchukumisa igxalaba lasekunene ngaphambi kwekhohlo. Ngelixa le yokugqibela iyindlela echanekileyo yamaKristu aseMpuma, amaKatolika kunye namaOthodoki, ukwenza uphawu lomnqamlezo, amaLatin Rite Katolika enza uphawu lomnqamlezo ngokuchukumisa igxalaba lasekhohlo kuqala.
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Kufuneka sithandaze kuBawo wethu yonke imihla nabantwana bethu. Ngumthandazo olungileyo onokuwusebenzisa njengomthandazo omfutshane wasekuseni okanye wangokuhlwa. Nika ingqalelo kwindlela abantwana bakho ababiza ngayo amagama; maninzi amathuba okungaqondani kunye nokuchazwa gwenxa, njengo "Howard ibe ligama lakho".
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Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bathambekele kwiNtombikazi kaMariya kwaye bafunde ukuncoma uMariya kwangoko kwenza kube lula ukukhuthaza ukuzinikela kuMariya oNgcwele kunye nokwazisa imithandazo emide yaseMarian, enjengeRosari. Into eluncedo xa ufundisa uMkhululi onguMariya yeyokuba wenze inxenye yokuqala yomthandazo ("ngesiqhamo sesizalo sakho, uYesu") ze abantwana bakho baphendule ngenxalenye yesibini ("uMariya oNgcwele").
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Udumo lube ngumthandazo olula kakhulu ukuba nawuphi na umntwana onokwenza uMqondiso woMnqamlezo akwazi ukukhumbula ngokulula. Ukuba umntwana wakho unobunzima bokukhumbula ukuba sisiphi isandla aza kusisebenzisa xa esenza uMqondiso woMnqamlezo (okanye ukuba lelinye igxala lokuchukumisa kuqala), unokuziqhelanisa ngokwenza uMqondiso woMnqamlezo ngelixa uphinda ubhale uGloria, njengolwaluko lwama Katolika I-Orthodox yaseMpuma.
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Izenzo zokholo, ithemba kunye nesisa ziqhelekileyo kwimithandazo yakusasa. Ukuba unceda abantwana bakho ukuba bacengceleze le mithandazo mithathu, baya kuhlala benendlela emfutshane yokuthandaza ekhoyo ngezo ntsuku xa bengenaxesha lakuthandazela indlela ende yokuthandaza.
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Ithemba lesenzo ngumthandazo omkhulu wabantwana abakwiminyaka yokuhamba isikolo. Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bayikhumbule ukuze bakwazi ukuthandaza kuMthetho weThemba ngaphambi kokuba bathathe uvavanyo. Ngelixa kungekho sithatha indawo yokufunda, kulungile ukuba abafundi baqonde ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba bathembele kumandla abo bodwa.
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Ubuntwana lixesha elizaliswe ziimvakalelo ezinzulu, kwaye abantwana bahlala befumana ukwenzakala okwenyani nokubonakalayo nokwenzakala okuvela kubahlobo nakwabo bafunda nabo. Ngelixa eyona njongo iphambili yesenzo sothando kukubonisa uthando lwethu kuThixo, lo mthandazo uyisikhumbuzo semihla ngemihla kubantwana bethu ukuba bazame ukukhulisa uxolelo nothando kwabanye.
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Umthetho woKhuphiswano ngumthandazo obalulekileyo weSigramente sokuVuma, kodwa kufuneka sikhuthaze nabantwana bethu ukuba bayitsho rhoqo ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba balale. Abantwana abenze uvumo lwabo lokuqala kufuneka benze uvavanyo olukhawulezileyo lwesazela ngaphambi kokuba bathethe isenzo sokonwaba.
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Ukuhlakulela umbulelo kubantwana bethu kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwihlabathi apho uninzi lwethu lunokubaninzi kwiimpahla. UXolo phambi kwesidlo yindlela elungileyo yokubakhumbuza (kunye nathi ngokwethu) ukuba yonke into esinayo ivela kuThixo. (Cinga ukongeza iGrace Emva kwesidlo kwindlela yakho ngokunjalo, ukuba uhlakulele umbulelo kunye nokugcina ezo osweleke emithandazweni yethu.)
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Njengokuzinikela kwiNtombikazi enguMariya, abantwana babonakala ngathi bathambekele ekukholweni kwingelosi yabo. Ukuhlakulela le nkolelo besebancinci kuya kubanceda ukubakhusela ekuthandabuzeni kamva. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, bakhuthaze ukuba bongeze uMthandazo weengelosi eziGcinayo ngemithandazo yabo yobuqu yeGalos yabo enguMlondolozi.