Thixo kutheni uthathe unyana wam? Ngoba?
Thixo kutheni uthathe unyana wam? Ngoba?
Ntombi yam ethandekayo, ndinguThixo wakho, uBawo onguNaphakade kunye noMenzi wayo yonke into. Intlungu yakho inkulu, uzililela ukuphulukana nonyana wakho, sisiqhamo semilenze yakho. Kufuneka wazi ukuba unyana wakho unam. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba unyana wakho ngunyana wam kwaye uyintombazana yam. NdinguBawo olungileyo ofuna okuhle kuni nonke, ndifuna ubomi obungenasiphelo. Ngoku undibuza "kutheni ndithathe unyana wakho". Unyana wakho wayecinga ukuba aze kum ukususela ekudalweni kwakhe. Andonanga, akukho gwenxa. Ukususela ekudalweni kwakhe, esemncinci, wayemiselwe ukuza kum. Ukusukela ekudalweni kwayo ndawubeka umhla wokugqibela kulomhlaba. Unyana wakho umisele umzekelo abambalwa abambalwa. Xa ndidala ezi zidalwa zishiywa ngabantu abancinci emhlabeni, uzidala zilungile, njengomzekelo kumadoda. Bangamadoda ahlwayela uthando kulo mhlaba, ahlwayela uxolo kunye nokuzola phakathi kwabazalwana.
Unyana wakho akasuswanga kuwe kodwa uhlala ngonaphakade, uhlala ebomini nabaNgcwele. Nokuba ukuhanjiswa kunokuba buhlungu kuwe, awukwazi ukuqonda kwaye akulwazi uvuyo lwalo. Ukuba wayehlonitshwa kwaye ethandwa ngumntu wonke kobu bomi, ngoku uyakhanya njengenkanyezi esibhakabhakeni, ukukhanya kwakhe kuhlala eParadesi. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubomi bokwenene abukho kulomhlaba, ubomi benene buye kum, kwisibhakabhaka sanaphakade. Khange ndimthathe unyana wakho, andinguye umntu onguThixo othathayo kodwa opha kwaye azityebise. Khange ndimthathe unyana wakho kodwa ndimnike ubomi benene kwaye ndikuthumele, nokuba ixesha elincinci, ngumzekelo omawuwulandele njengothando kweli lizwe. Sukhala! Unyana wakho akafanga, kodwa udla ubomi, uhleli ngonaphakade. Kuya kufuneka ukhulelwe kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unyana wakho uhlala kwizinga labaNgcwele kunye nokuthandazela ngamnye kuni. Ngoku uhlala ecaleni kwam, ucela ukubulela ngokungazenzisiyo kuni, ucele uxolo nothando kuye ngamnye wenu. Ngoku ulapha ecaleni kwam kwaye uthi kuwe “Mama ungakhathazeki ukuba ndiyaphila kwaye ndiyakuthanda njengoko bendikade ndikuthanda. Nokuba awundiboni ukuba ndiyaphila kwaye ndiyathanda njengoko ndenzayo emhlabeni, ngokuqinisekileyo uthando lwam lucocekile kwaye alunasiphelo apha.
Ke ntombi yam, musa ukoyika. Ubomi bomntwana wakho abususwanga kude okanye bugqityiwe kodwa buguqulwe nje. NdinguThixo wakho, ndinguBawo, ndisondele kuwe esentlungwini kwaye ndihamba nawe ngamanyathelo onke. Ngoku ucinga ukuba ndinguThixo okude, ukuba andibakhathalelanga abantwana bam, ndizohlwaya abalungileyo. Kodwa ndiyawathanda onke amadoda, ndiyanithanda kwaye nokuba nangoku niphila ngeentlungu andikushiyi kodwa ndiyaphila okwenu kubuhlungu njengoBawo olungileyo nonenceba. Bendingafuni kubetha ubomi bakho ngobubi kodwa kubantwana bam endibathandayo ndibanika iminqamlezo abanokuwuthwala ngokwentando yabantu bonke. Thanda njengoko uhlala uthanda. Thanda indlela omthanda ngayo unyana wakho. Akumele atshintshe umntu wakho ngokuphulukana nomntu omthandayo, inene kufuneka unike uthando olungakumbi kwaye uqonde ukuba uThixo wakho ukwenzela okona kulungileyo. Andizohlwayi kodwa ndenzela umntu wonke okuhle. Nokuba unyana wakho, nangona eshiye elihlabathi, ngoku akhanya kunaphakade, kunye nokukhanya okuyinyani, kukukhanya angekhe abe nakho kulo mhlaba. Unyana wakho uphila ngokupheleleyo, unyana wakho uphila ngonaphakade ngaphandle kwesiphelo. Ukuba ubunokuyiqonda imfihlakalo enkulu kunye neyodwa yokuba unyana wakho uphila ngoku uya kuphuphuma luvuyo. Ntombi yam andikhange ndimthathe unyana wakho kodwa ndikunike i-ezulwini yasezulwini ethelela abantu ubathandazela omnye komnye. Khange ndimthathe unyana wakho kodwa ndikuzele unyana wakho, ubomi obungenasiphelo, ubomi obungenasiphelo, uthando lukaBawo olungileyo. Undibuza "Thixo kutheni uthathe unyana wam?" Ndiyaphendula "andimthanga unyana wakho kodwa ndikunike ubomi, uxolo, ulonwabo, unaphakade, uthando kunyana wakho. Izinto ekungekho mntu emhlabeni unokumnika zona nokuba ungunina. Ubomi bakhe kweli lizwe bugqityiwe kodwa ubomi bakhe boqobo bunaphakade ezulwini. Ndiyakuthanda, Bawo.
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