Emva kokukhulula isixhobo sokuphefumla, indoda yeva inkosikazi yayo isebeza "Ndigoduse"
Xa ubomi bomtshato buqala, izicwangciso zekamva kunye namaphupha aqala kwaye yonke into ibonakala ilungile. Kodwa ubomi abunakuqiniswa kwaye ngokufuthi buphazamisa izicwangciso ngeyona ndlela ingenakucingelwa. Eli libali lesibini esitshatileyo ekwafuneka sijamelane nesehlo ebesingenakuze sicinge ukuba siyasifumana. Eli libali elimangalisayo likaRyan Finley kunye nenkosikazi yakhe jill.
KwakungoMeyi 2007 xa Ryan uvuka kwaye emva kokujonga ixesha, ugqiba ekubeni avuse uJill, umfazi wakhe ngokunjalo. Wambiza, akaphendula. Waqalisa ukumdlikidla kodwa akhonto. Ngelo xesha waqala ukuxhalaba waza wabiza uncedo, ngelixa ezama ukumvuselela ngokuziqhelanisa ne-cardiac massage.
Ii-paramedics zifika kwaye zilayishe umfazi kwi-ambulensi. Walandela uBryan ngemoto yakhe. Kanye esibhedlele, oogqirha bamxilonga baza bafumanisa ukuba eli bhinqa lalihlaselwe sisifo sentliziyo. Ngoko baqala zonke iinkqubo zonyango zokuzinzisa, ngelixa uRyan elinde iindaba kwigumbi lokulinda. Emva kokulinda okudiniweyo, kufika iindaba engazange ifune ukuziva le ndoda. Ugqirha ummema ukuba ukuthandaza yaye uRyan uyaqonda ukuba imeko yomfazi wakhe yayimbi.
Kungekudala emva koko uJill, ibhinqa elidlamkileyo elineminyaka engama-31 ubudala liyangena coma. Eli bhinqa lahlala kwezo meko iiveki ezimbini, lingqongwe luthando lwabantu ababeze kulityelela. Phakathi kwaba bantu kwakukho umzala wakhe owayehleli ecaleni kwakhe waza wamfundela iBhayibhile kangangeyure.
Ephuma kwelo gumbi, washiya iBhayibhile kuRyan, ecebisa umfazi wakhe ukuba ayifunde yonke imihla. URyan waqalisa ukufunda iindinyana zeBhayibhile ngokuvakalayo, enethemba lokuba uJill wayeza kuvuka.
Emva kweentsuku ezili-11, le ndoda yabuyela ekhaya ukuze icamngce ngento ebalulekileyo. Oogqirha babemcebisile ukuba enze njalo NONE nto leyo eyagcina umfazi wakhe ephila, njengoko imeko yakhe yayingasenakuba ngcono.
UJill uvuka emva kweentsuku ezili-14 ekwikoma
emva Iintsuku ezili-14 kwi-coma Umatshini wokuphefumla kaJill wakhutshwa. Kwabanzima kakhulu endodeni ukuba ilinde iiyure ezamohlula ukuba avalelise, ejonge umfazi wakhe. Ngoko wagqiba kwelokuba alinde kwigumbi lokulinda. Noko ke, kwezo yure, uJill uqalisa ukuthetha amazwi ambalwa aze ashukume. Umongikazi uphuma egumbini ukuze alumkise uRyan ongaboniyo ebona umfazi wakhe ethetha. Into yokuqala uJill awayicela kumyeni wakhe yayikukumzisa ekhaya.
U-Ryan ongakholelwayo waqala ukumbetha ngemibuzo, ukuze abone ukuba nguye ngokwenene, ukuba umfazi ubuyele kuye. UJill wayekhuselekile, ummangaliso ekwakulindelwe ngawo wawuzalisekile.
Lo mfazi kwafuneka ahambe kwinkqubo yokubuyisela, kwafuneka afunde kwakhona izimbo ezincinci, ezifana nokubopha izicathulo zakhe okanye ukuxubha amazinyo, kodwa isibini sasijongene nayo yonke into yokubamba izandla.