Emva komhlaza weshumi elivisayo baba ngabazali ngokungathi kungommangaliso

Eli libali lesibini sikaChris Berns kunye noLaura Hunter 2 abazali, abasilwa idabi elifanayo ngokuchasene nomhlaza ekukhuleni kwabo kwaye ikamva libanike ezona zipho zintle. Aba babini baselula ngokumangalisayo bakwazi ukuba abazali.

UChris noLaura badibana kumnyhadala wabantu abakwishumi elivisayo abasinde kumhlaza. Enyanisweni, bobabini baye bahlangabezana nonxunguphalo lokuba balwe bebancinane kakhulu ngokuchasene nezona zifo zoyikekayo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwimeko yomhlaza weminyaka yokuzala, izigulane zicetyiswa ukuba mkhenkce amaqanda kunye namadlozi njengoko ichemotherapy inokukhokelela kubudlolo.

Ngelishwa, kwimeko yabantu abancinci be-2, le nto ayinakunikwa, njengoko i-chemotherapy kwafuneka iqalwe ngokukhawuleza, inikwe ubuncinci babo kunye nobudlova bomhlaza.

UChris noLaura: abazali phantse ngommangaliso

Esi sifo sabavavanya kwaye sibakhokelela ekubeni babe namava amnyama, sibatsalela kwezona ndawo zimnyama.

Uhambo lwe Chris ngokuchasene nomhlaza waqala xa lo mfana wayeneminyaka eli-17 kuphela ubudala. Kwafunyaniswa ukuba une-a isarcoma echaphazela izicubu ezijikeleze amathambo. Ixesha nezifo zamenza waba ngumlwelwe okwexeshana. Kuphela kusemva kweeseshoni ze-chemo ezili-14 apho waqala ukuhamba kwakhona kwaye waphucula.

laura ngelo xesha, nge-16 nje kuphela walwa no-a i-lymphoblastic leukemia acute, uhlobo lomhlaza wegazi, onyangwayo emva kweenyanga ezingama-30 zechemo.

Kodwa ikamva, emva kokuba libethe ezona zithonga zinzima, livuze abantu abancinci ngezona zipho zimnandi.

Emva kokuzama ukuba ngabazali iminyaka emibini ngempumelelo encinci, esi sibini sasisele siza kunikezela, xa ngokukhawuleza ummangaliso, uLaura ulindele umntwana oyintombazana. Ukuzalwa kwe willow yaye uvuyo lokuba ngabazali luye lwawavuza amakhwenkwe ngako konke ukubandezeleka kwawo. Bobabini baya kukulungela ukujongana nayo kwakhona, ukuze bakwazi ukufumana umzuzu wokuzalwa komntwana wabo.