Kuthekani ukuba ingqondo yakho ibhadula emthandazweni?

Ngaba ulahlekelwe ziingcinga eziphazamisayo neziphazamisayo xa uthandaza? Nantsi ingcebiso elula yokufumana kwakhona uxinzelelo.

Gxila emthandazweni
Ndihlala ndiwuva lo mbuzo: "Kufuneka ndenze ntoni xa ingqondo yam ibhadula ngelixa ndithandazayo?" Ndifumene impendulo ebalaseleyo kwincwadi eyabhalwa kumakhulu eminyaka eyadlulayo.

Umbhali weLifu lokuNgazi uyimfihlakalo. Mhlawumbi wayeyimonki, mhlawumbi umbingeleli, ebhala ngesiNgesi - isiNgesi esiPhakathi - ekupheleni kwenkulungwane yeshumi elinesine. Nika ingcebiso kumhlobo omncinci ngomthandazo.

Ndixhomekeke kuguqulelo olwenziwe nguCarmen Acevedo Butcher ukuba ndingene nzulu kubulumko obusebenzayo beLifu. Njengoko u-Butcher esitsho, umbhali wayefuna ukuhlala engaziwa ngesizathu. Ukukhanya kwafuneka kukhanyiselwe nguThixo, hayi ngaye.

"UThixo akaceli uncedo lwakho," ubhala u-Anonymous. “Ufuna uvale amehlo akho kuye umyeke ukuba asebenze kuwe. Inxalenye yakho kukukhusela umnyango kunye neefestile, ukugcina abangenayo kunye neempukane ngaphandle. "

Abo bangeneleli kunye neempukane? Iingcinga zethu eziphazamisekileyo nezingamkelekanga. Xa ndithandaza, xa ndihleli esofeni kwaye ndivale amehlo, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiza kuqala ukucinga ngento ekufuneka ndiyenzile emsebenzini, i-imeyile endiza kuyithumela, umbuzo endifuna ukuwubuza. Abangeneleli kunye neempukane ngokwenene.

Ke ndenza into u-Anonymous ayicebisayo, kukusebenzisa igama elinye ukundibuyisela kwinjongo yam. "Ngokufutshane igama, kokukhona linceda umsebenzi womoya," ubhala. “UThixo okanye uthando lusebenza kakuhle. Khetha elinye lala magama okanye elinye igama olithandayo, ukuba nje liyilungu. "

Kutheni ibinza elinye kuphela? Mhlawumbi yile ndlela esingabanjiswa ngayo yinto enzima kakhulu, kwaye sinamathele ezingqondweni zethu. Njengokuba esithi: "Akukho namnye umntu onamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba angaqonda ukuba ngubani uThixo, sinokumazi kuphela ngokuhlala simthanda. "

Umthandazo lithuba lokuhlala phantsi ulonwabele uthando lukaThixo, ukhumbule ukubaluleka kwalo. "Asinakucinga ngoThixo", ubhala umbhali. Kodwa sinokuhlangana neNkosi ngomthandazo.

Uyabhala: "Yiyo loo nto ndikulungele ukuncama yonke into endiyaziyo, ubhale into enye endingayicingiyo. Inokuthandwa, kodwa ingekho ngaphandle kwengcinga. "

Ulahlekile emthandazweni? Kuhle kuwe. Ngaba ulahlekelwe ziingcinga eziphazamisayo neziphazamisayo? Zama oku: gxila kwilizwi elinye elinamandla, lithetha kancinci kancinci ubuye kumthandazo wakho.

Uya kwenza into eyenziwe ngamakholwa amakhulu eminyaka.