Yenza u Yesu umlingane wakho emthandazweni
Iindlela ezi-7 zokuthandaza ngokweshedyuli yakho
Enye yezona zinto ziluncedo kakhulu onokuzenza kukucela umhlobo womthandazo, umntu oza kuthandaza nawe, buqu, ngomnxeba. Ukuba oku kuyinyani (kwaye kunjalo), kungangcono kangakanani ukwenza uYesu ngokwakhe abe liqabane lakho lomthandazo?
"Ndingayenza njani?" Usenokubuza.
"Ukuthandaza kunye noYesu, ukuthandaza into oyithandazelayo" Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yile nto kanye ekuthethwa ngayo ukuthandaza "egameni likaYesu". Xa usenza okanye uthetha egameni lomntu, uyenza kuba uyazi kwaye ulandela iminqweno yaloo mntu. Ke ukwenza u Yesu iqabane lakho lomthandazo, oko kukuthi, kuthetha ukuthandaza ngokwezibophelelo zakho.
"Ewe, kodwa njani?" Usenokubuza.
Ndiphendula ngelithi: "Ngokuthandaza le mithandazo isixhenxe ilandelayo nangokunyanisekileyo kangangoko." NgokweBhayibhile, ngamnye ngumthandazo ovela kuYesu ngokwakhe:
1) "Ndiyakudumisa".
Kwanaxa wayekhathazekile, uYesu wafumana izizathu zokudumisa uYise, esithi (kwimeko enjalo): “Ndiyakudumisa, Bawo, Nkosi yezulu nomhlaba, ngokuba ezi zinto uzifihlile kwizilumko nakwabafundileyo, wazityhilela abantwana. "Bancinci" (Mateyu 11:25, NIV). Thetha ngokubona icala eliqaqambileyo! Mdumise uThixo rhoqo nangokuzimisela kangangoko, kuba esi sisitshixo sokwenza u Yesu iqabane lakho lomthandazo.
2) "Intando yakho mayenziwe".
Kwelinye lawona maxesha obumnyama, uYesu wabuza utata wakhe: “Ukuba kunokwenzeka, mayidlule le ndebe kum. Kodwa hayi indlela endiya kuyenza ngayo, kodwa nendlela oya kuyenza ngayo ”(Mateyu 26:39, NIV). Emva kwexesha, emveni kweminye imithandazo, uYesu wathi, "Intando yakho mayenziwe" (Mateyu 26:42, NIV). Ke, njengoYesu, qhubeka uxelele uBawo oseZulwini onothando ukuba ufuna ntoni kwaye unethemba lini, kodwa -kuba kunzima kangakanani, kuthatha ixesha elingakanani- thandazela ukuba intando kaThixo yenziwe.
3) "Enkosi".
Owona mthandazo ka Yesu ubhalwe kwiZibhalo ngumthandazo wombulelo. Ababhali beVangeli bonke bathi "babulela" ngaphambi kokondla isihlwele nangaphambi kokubhiyozela iPasika kunye nabalandeli kunye nabahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo. Wafika engcwabeni likaLazaro eBhetani, wathandaza ngokuvakalayo (ngaphambi kokuba abize uLazaro aphume engcwabeni), "Bawo, ndiyabulela ngokundiphulaphula" (Yohane 11:41, NIV). Ke sebenzisana noYesu ekunikeni umbulelo, kungekuphela esidlweni, kodwa nakulo lonke ixesha elinokwenzeka kunye nazo zonke iimeko.
4) "Bawo, lizukise igama lakho".
Njengokuba ixesha lokubulawa kwakhe lisondela, uYesu wathandaza, "Bawo, lizukise igama lakho!" (Luka 23:34, NIV). Eyona nto wayeyixhalabele yayingekokukhusela kunye nokuchuma kwakhe, kodwa yayizukisa uThixo. Ke xa uthandaza, "Bawo, lizukise igama lakho," unokuqiniseka ukuba uyasebenzisana noYesu kwaye uthandaza kunye naye.
5) "Khusela kwaye udibanise icawe yakho".
Esinye sezahluko ezichukumisayo zeVangeli nguYohane 17, orekhoda umthandazo kaYesu kubalandeli baKhe. Umthandazo wakhe ubonakalise uthando olungcwele nolwalamano olusenyongweni njengoko wayethandaza esithi: "Bawo oyiNgcwele, bakhusele ngegama lakho ondinike lona, ukuze nabo babe njengathi" (Yohane 17:11, NIV). Emva koko sebenza noYesu ekuthandazeni ukuba uThixo akhusele kwaye amanyanise iBandla lakhe kwihlabathi liphela.
6) "Baxolele".
Ngexesha lokubulawa kwakhe, uYesu wathandazela abo izenzo zabo zingazukubangela iintlungu kuphela kodwa kwanokufa kwakhe: "Bawo, baxolele, kuba abayazi into abayenzayo" (Luka 23:34, NIV). NjengoYesu, thandazela ukuba abanye baxolelwe, nkqu nabo bakukhubekisileyo okanye bakukhubekisileyo.
7) "Ndiwunikela ezandleni zakho umoya wam".
UYesu waphinda amazwi endumiso awayebhekiswe kukhokho wakhe uDavide (31: 5) xa wayethandaza emnqamlezweni, "Bawo, ndiwunikela ezandleni zakho umoya wam" (Luka 23: 46, NIV). Ngumthandazo osele uthandazelwe kangangeenkulungwane njengenxalenye yemithandazo yangokuhlwa kwimfundiso yemihla ngemihla egcinwa ngamaKrestu amaninzi. Ke kutheni ungathandazi noYesu, mhlawumbi nkqu nobusuku bonke, ngokuzimisela nangokuzithoba ubeka wena, umoya wakho, ubomi bakho, amaxhala akho, ikamva lakho, amathemba akho kunye namaphupha akho, kukukhathalelwa kwakhe ngothando nangamandla onke?
Ukuba uthandaza rhoqo nangokunyanisekileyo le mithandazo isixhenxe, awuyi kuthandaza kuphela ngokusebenzisana noYesu; uya kuba ngakumbi nangakumbi njengaye emthandazweni wakho. . . nakubomi bakho.