Intsapho: ungasisebenzisa njani isicwangciso sokuxolelwa

ISICWANGCISO SOKUGQIBELA

Kwinkqubo yemfundo kaDon Bosco, uxolelo luhlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo. Kwimfundo yangoku yosapho, ngelishwa, iyayazi inyikima eyingozi. Imozulu yenkcubeko esiphila kuyo ayisixabisi kakhulu ingcinga yokuxolelwa, kwaye "inceba sisidima esingaziwayo.

Ebhalela unobhala oselula uGioachino Berto, obonakalise ukuba uneentloni kwaye esoyika emsebenzini wakhe, uDon Bosco ngenye imini wathi: "Jonga, uyoyika kakhulu u-Don Bosco: uyakholelwa ekubeni ndilukhuni kwaye ndinyanzelisa, kwaye ke kuyabonakala ukuba uyakoyika kum. . Awunangxaki yokuthetha nam ngokukhululekileyo. Uhlala unexhala lokuba ungoneliseki. Zive ukhululekile ukuba woyike. Uyazi ukuba uDon Bosco uyakuthanda: ke, ukuba wenza ezincinci, ungakhathazeki, kwaye ukuba wenza ezinkulu, uyakukuthethelela ».

Usapho yindawo yokuxolelwa ngokugqibeleleyo. Kusapho, ukuxolela yenye yeendlela zamandla ezithintela ukonakaliswa kobudlelwane.

Sinokwenza iingcinga ezilula.

Amandla okuxolela afundwe kumava. Ukuxolelwa kufundiswa ngabazali bakhe. Sonke singabafundi kweli ziko. Kufuneka sifunde ukuxolela. Ukuba xa besingabantwana abazali bethu baye baxolisa ngeempazamo zabo, siya kuyazi indlela yokuxolela. Ukuba siye sababona bexolelana, besiya kwazi ngcono ukuba baxolelwe. Ukuba besiphila amava okuxolelwa kaninzi ngeempazamo zethu, ngekhe sazi ukuba asixolelwe, kodwa ngekhe sazibonela ngokwam amandla okuba ukuxolelwa kufuneka kuguquke abanye.

Uxolelo lwenene lumalunga nezinto ezibalulekileyo. Rhoqo sidibanisa uxolelo kunye neempazamo ezincinci kunye neempazamo. Ukuxolelwa kokwenene kwenzeka xa into enzulu ngokwenene kunye nokukhubekisa kwenzekile kungekho sizathu sivakalayo. Ukoyisa ukusilela okuncinci kulula. Uxolelo malunga nezinto ezinzulu. Sisenzo "sobugorha".

Uxolelo lwenene alufihli inyaniso. Ukuxolelwa ngokwenyani kuyayamkela into yokuba impazamo yenziwe ngokwenene, kodwa ithi loo mntu uyenzileyo usafanele ukuthandwa nokuhlonitshwa. Ukuxolelwa kungathethi izizathu: impazamo ihlala iyimpazamo.

Asibuthathaka. Ukuxolelwa kufuna ukuba impazamo eyenziweyo kufuneka ilungiswe okanye ubuncinci ayiphindi. Ukuphindisela akusoloko kuyindlela yokuziphindezela, kodwa ikhonkrithi iya kukwakha kwakhona okanye ukuqala kwakhona.

Uxolelo lwenene luphumelele. Xa uqonda ukuba uxolele kwaye uxolele, uyakhululeka kumthwalo omkhulu. Ngenxa yala magama mabini alula, "ndikuxolele", kunokwenzeka ukusombulula iimeko ezintsokothileyo, wonga ubudlelwane obumiselwe ukophula kunye namaxesha amaninzi ukufumana ukuzola kosapho. Ukuxolelwa kusoloko kukudosi yethemba.

Uxolelo lwenene luyalibala. Kwabaninzi kakhulu, ukuxolela kuthetha kuphela ukungcwaba i-hatchet ngesibambo ngaphandle. Zikulungele ukuyibamba kwakhona ngexesha lokuqala.

Uqeqesho luyafuneka. Amandla okuxolela aliqela kuthi sonke, kodwa njengazo zonke ezinye izakhono kufuneka siziqeqeshele ukuyikhupha. Ekuqaleni kuthatha ixesha. Kwaye unyamezelo oluninzi. Kulula ukwenza iinjongo, emva koko, izityholo zexesha elizayo kunye nezangoku zibangelwa kukuphoxeka okuncinci. Iya kuhlala ikhunjulwa ukuba nabani na okhomba umunwe kwabanye ubeka amanqaku amathathu kuye.

Ihlala iyimbonakaliso yothando lwenene. Abo bangazithandiyo ngokunyaniseka abanako ukuxolela. Ngale nto, emva kwayo yonke into, abazali baxolela kakhulu. Ngelishwa abantwana baxolela kancinci. Ngokwendlela kaOscar Wilde: "Abantwana baqala ngokuthanda abazali babo; bakhulile, babagweba; ngamanye amaxesha bayabaxolela. Ukuxolelwa ngumphefumlo wothando.

"Kuba abayazi into abayenzayo." Umyalezo owaziswa nguYesu eluntwini ngumyalezo woxolelo. Amagama akhe emnqamlezweni ayesithi: "Bawo, baxolele kuba abayazi into abayenzayo". Esi sivakalisi silula sinemfihlo yokufunda ukuxolela. Ngokukodwa xa kufikwa kubantwana, ukungazi kunye ne-naivety ngunobangela wempazamo phantse zonke. Umsindo kunye nesohlwayo kuphule iibhulorho, ukuxolelwa sisandla esoluliweyo ukunceda nokuchanekileyo.

Uxolelo lwenene luzalwa luvela phezulu. Enye yeendlela ezizalisekileyo zenkqubo yemfundo yeSalessian sisakramente soxolelaniso. UDon Bosco wayesazi kakuhle ukuba abo baziva bexolelwe kulula ngakumbi ukuxolela. Namhlanje bambalwa bayavuma: ngenxa yoku uxolelo oluncinci. Ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka sikhumbule umzekeliso wevangeli wabantu ababini abanamatyala kunye namazwi kaBawo wethu imihla ngemihla: "Usixolele amatyala ethu njengokuba nathi sibaxolela abo banamatyala kuthi".

nguBruno Ferreo -Salessian Bulletin-Epreli 1997