Ngaba abantwana abangazalwanga baya ezulwini?
Q. Ngaba abantwana abakhutshiwe, abo baphulukene nokukhipha isisu ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nabo bazelwe beswelekile baya ezulwini?
A. Lo mbuzo uthatha ukubaluleka okukhulu kwabo bazali baphulukene nomntwana ngenye yezi ndlela. Ke, into yokuqala yoxinzelelo kukuba uThixo nguThixo onothando olugqibeleleyo. Inceba yakhe idlulela ngaphaya koko sinokukuqonda. Kufanele ukuba sibe seluxolweni ngokwazi ukuba nguThixo odibana naba bantwana baxabisekileyo njengokuba beshiya obu bomi kwangaphambi kokuba bazalwe.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwaba bancinci baxabisekileyo? Ekugqibeleni asazi kuba impendulo ayikaze ityhilwe ngqo kuthi ngeSibhalo kwaye iCawe ayikaze ithethe ngokucacileyo ngalo mbandela. Nangona kunjalo, sinokunikezela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngokusekwe kwimigaqo yokholo lwethu kunye nobulumko bemfundiso yabangcwele. Nazi ezinye zezi zinto zilandelayo:
Okokuqala, sikholelwa ukuba ubabalo loBhaptizo luyimfuneko kusindiso. Aba bantwana ababhaptizwanga. Kodwa oko akufuneki ukuba kusikhokelele ekubeni sigqibe kwelokuba andikho ezulwini. Nangona iCawe yethu ifundise ukuba ubhaptizo luyimfuneko kusindiso, ikwafundisile ukuba uThixo angalunika ubabalo lobhaptizo ngokuthe ngqo nangaphandle kwesenzo sobhaptizo lomzimba. Ke ngoko, uThixo unokukhetha ukunika ubabalo lobhaptizo kwaba bantwana ngendlela afuna ngayo. UThixo uyazibophelela kwiisakramente, kodwa akabophelelwanga kuzo. Ke ngoko, akufuneki sikhathazeke malunga noku kufa kwabantwana ngaphandle kwesenzo sangaphandle soBhaptizo. UThixo ngokulula angabanika olu lubabalo ngokuthe ngqo ukuba unqwenela njalo.
Okwesibini, abanye bacebisa ukuba uThixo uyazi ukuba loluphi usana olukhulelweyo oluza kukhetha okanye hayi. Nangona bengazange babuphile ubomi babo kweli hlabathi, abanye bacingela ukuba ulwazi olugqibeleleyo ngoThixo lubandakanya ulwazi ngendlela aba bantwana abaya kuphila ngayo ukuba banokunikwa ithuba. Oku kukuthelekelela nje kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka. Ukuba oku kuyinyani, ke aba bantwana baya kugwetywa ngokomthetho kaThixo wokuziphatha kunye nolwazi olugqibeleleyo lwenkululeko yabo yokuzikhethela.
Okwesithathu, abanye bacebisa ukuba uThixo ubanikeza usindiso ngendlela efanayo naleyo wayinikela ngayo kwiingelosi. Banikwa ithuba lokwenza ukhetho xa befika kubukho bukaThixo kwaye olo khetho lukhetho lwabo lwanaphakade. Njengokuba iingelosi kuye kwafuneka zikhethe ukuba ziya kumkhonza na uThixo ngothando nenkululeko, kusenokwenzeka ukuba aba bantwana banethuba lokukhetha okanye ukumala uThixo ngexesha lokufa kwabo. Ukuba bakhetha ukuthanda nokukhonza uThixo, basindisiwe. Ukuba bakhetha ukumala uThixo (njengoko isinye kwisithathu seengelosi besenza), bakhetha ngokukhululekileyo isihogo.
Okwesine, ayichanekanga into yokuba uthi wonke umntu ukhutshiwe, ukhuphe isisu okanye uzelwe abantwana abafileyo abaziyela ezulwini. Oku kuyala ukhetho lwabo olukhululekileyo. Kufuneka sithembele ukuba uThixo uyakubavumela ukuba basebenzise ukhetho lwabo olukhululekileyo njengathi sonke.
Okokugqibela, kufuneka sikholelwe ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uThixo ubathanda aba bantwana baxabisekileyo ngaphezulu kokuba omnye wethu wakwazi. Inceba yakhe kunye nokusesikweni kugqibelele kwaye uya kuphathwa ngokungqinelana nenceba nobulungisa.