Iimpawu eziphambili zabahlobo abangamaKristu okwenyaniso
Abahlobo beza, i
hamba abahlobo,
kodwa umhlobo wenene ukhona ukubukela ukhula.
Lo mbongo udlulisela umbono wobuhlobo obuhlala buhleli nobulula obugqibeleleyo, obusisiseko seentlobo ezintathu zabahlobo abangamaKristu.
Iintlobo zobuhlobo bobuKristu
Ukucebisa: Uhlobo lokuqala lobuhlobo bobuKristu kukucebisa. Kubudlelwane bokufundisa siyafundisa, sincome, okanye sifundise abanye abahlobo abangamaKristu. Obu bubudlelwane obusekwe kubulungiseleli, obufana nobo uYesu wayenabo nabafundi bakhe.
Ubuhlobo beMentee: Kubuhlobo bomfundi, sithi abo bafundiswayo, abacetyiswayo, okanye abafundiswa. Sisekupheleni kokufumana inkonzo, sikhonzwa ngumcebisi. Oku kuyafana nendlela abafundi abamkelwa ngayo nguYesu.
Ubuhlobo phakathi komntu nobabini: Ubuhlobo phakathi kwabantu ababini abusekelwanga ekunikeni iingcebiso. Kunoko, kwezi meko, aba bantu babini ngokuqhelekileyo balungelelana ngakumbi ngokomoya, belungelelanisa indlela eqhelekileyo yokupha nokuphana phakathi kwabahlobo abangamaKristu okwenyaniso. Siza kuphonononga ubuhlobo omnye komnye ngokusondeleyo ngakumbi, kodwa okokuqala kubalulekile ukuba ube nokuqonda okucacileyo kobudlelwane bokucebisa ukuze singabhideki ezi zimbini.
Ukucebisa ubuhlobo bunokuphela ngokulula ukuba omabini amaqela ayasilela ukuvuma ubunjani bobudlelwane kunye nokwakha imida efanelekileyo. Umcebisi kusenokufuneka athathe umhlala-phantsi aze athabathe ixesha lokuzihlaziya ngokomoya. Maxa wambi kusenokufuneka athi hayi, embekela imida ekuzibopheleleni kwakhe kumfundi.
Ngokufanayo, umcebisi olindele kakhulu kumcebisi wakhe ujonge ukunxibelelana nomntu ongalunganga. Abacebisi kufuneka bahloniphe imida kwaye bafune ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu ongenguye umcebisi.
Sinokuba sobabini umcebisi kunye nomcebisi, kodwa hayi nomhlobo omnye. Sisenokwazi ikholwa eliqolileyo elisikhokelayo kwiLizwi likaThixo, ngoxa thina sizipha ixesha lokukhokela umlandeli kaKristu omtsha.
Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo bahluke kakhulu kunokucebisa ubuhlobo. Obu budlelwane buqhele ukwenzeka ngobusuku nje obunye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bayakhula ngokuhamba kwexesha njengoko bobabini abahlobo beqhubela phambili ebulumkweni nasekukhuleni ngokomoya. Ubuhlobo obuqinileyo bobuKristu bukhula ngokwemvelo xa abahlobo ababini bekhula kunye elukholweni, ukulunga, ulwazi, kunye nolunye ubabalo lukaThixo.
Iimpawu Zabahlobo AbangamaKristu Okwenene
Ngoko bunjani ubuhlobo bokwenene bobuKristu? Masiyicazulule ibe yimikhwa ekulula ukuyibona.
Uthando lokuzincama
UYOHANE 15:13 uthando olungaphezu kolu, lokuba ubomi bakhe abuncamele izihlobo zakhe. (NIV)
UYesu ungoyena mzekelo ubalaseleyo womhlobo wokwenene ongumKristu. Uthando lwakhe ngathi lolokuzincama, alunakuzingca. Oku akakubonisanga ngemimangaliso yokuphilisa kuphela, kodwa ngokuzeleyo ngakumbi ngenkonzo ethobekileyo yokuhlamba iinyawo zabafundi, yaye ekugqibeleni xa wabubeka phantsi ubomi bakhe emnqamlezweni.
Ukuba sikhetha abahlobo bethu ngokusekelwe koko banokusinika kona, kunqabile ukuba sifumane iintsikelelo zobuhlobo bokwenene bobuthixo. EyabaseFilipi 2:3 ithi: “Ningenzi nanye into ngokuzingca okanye ngokusukelana, kodwa ngokuthobeka kwengqondo, nibagqala abanye njengabongamileyo kunawe. Ngokulinganisa iimfuno zomhlobo wakho ngaphezu kwezakho, uya kuba kakuhle endleleni yakho yokuthanda njengoYesu. Mhlawumbi uya kufumana umhlobo wokwenene.
Yamkela ngaphandle kwemiqathango
IMizekeliso 17:17: Umhlobo uthanda ngamaxesha onke; umzalwana uzalelwe imbandezelo. (NIV)
Sifumana obona buhlobo bubalaseleyo nabazalwana noodade ababaziyo nabamkelayo ubuthathaka nokungafezeki kwethu.
Ukuba sicaphuka msinya okanye sibambelele kwingqumbo, kuya kuba nzima ukuba sibe nabahlobo. Akukho ogqibelele. Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo ngamaxesha athile. Ukuba sizihlolisisa ngokunyanisekileyo, siya kuvuma ukuba sinetyala xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle kubuhlobo. Umhlobo wokwenene uyakhawuleza ukucela uxolo yaye uyakhawuleza ukuxolela.
Ukholose ngokupheleleyo
IMIZEKELISO 18:24 Indoda enamaqabane amaninzi inokonakala, kodwa kukho umhlobo onamathela ngokusondele ngakumbi kunomntakwenu. (NIV)
Lo mzekeliso utyhila ukuba umhlobo ongumKristu wokwenyaniso unokuthenjwa, ngokwenene, kodwa ukwabethelela inyaniso yesibini ebalulekileyo. Sifanele silindele ukwabelana ngentembelo epheleleyo nabahlobo abambalwa abanyanisekileyo. Ukukholosa ngokulula kunokukhokelela kwintshabalalo, ngoko kulumkele ukuthemba iqabane nje eliqhelekileyo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, abahlobo bethu abangamaKristu bokwenyaniso baya kuzingqina bethembekile ngokunamathela ngokusondele ngakumbi kunomzalwana okanye udade.
Ugcina imida esempilweni
1 Korinte 13:4 Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, uthando lunobubele. Sukumona ... (NIV)
Ukuba uziva udiniwe kubuhlobo, kukho undonakele. Ngokunjalo, ukuba uziva usetyenziswa okanye uxhatshaziwe, kukho into engalunganga. Ukuqaphela okona kulungileyo emntwini kwaye unike loo mntu indawo yimiqondiso yobudlelwane obunempilo. Akufunekanga sivumele umhlobo ukuba angene phakathi kwethu neqabane lethu. Umhlobo ongumKristu wokwenyaniso ngobulumko uya kukuphepha ukugxeka aze ayiqonde imfuneko yokulondoloza olunye ulwalamano.
Inika ukuguqulwa okufanayo
IMizekeliso 27: 6 ithi: Amanxeba omhlobo athembekile ... (NIV)
Abahlobo abangamaKristu bokwenyaniso baya kwakhana ngokweemvakalelo, ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Abahlobo bayathanda ukuba kunye kuba nje kumnandi. Sifumana amandla, inkuthazo nothando. Siyathetha, siyalila, siyamamela. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sithethe izinto ezinzima ekufuneka umhlobo wethu osenyongweni eve. Ngenxa yokuthembana kunye nolwamkelo olwabelana ngalo, sikuphela komntu onokuchaphazela intliziyo yomhlobo wethu, njengoko sisazi ukuba sidlulisa njani umyalezo onzima ngenyaniso nangobabalo. Ndikholelwa ukuba oku kuthetha IMizekeliso 27:17 xa isithi, “Njengokuba isinyithi silola isinyithi, umntu ulola omnye;
Njengoko siye sajonga ezi mpawu zobuhlobo bobuthixo, mhlawumbi siye sabona iinkalo ezifuna umsebenzi othile kwimigudu yethu yokwakha amaqhina omelele. Kodwa ukuba akunabahlobo abaninzi abasenyongweni, musa ukuba ngqongqo kakhulu kuwe. Khumbula ukuba, ubuhlobo bokwenene bobuKristu bubutyebi obunqabileyo. Bathabatha ixesha ukuhlakulela, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, siba ngamaKristu angakumbi.