Utshintsho kuphela kwesiqhelo ebomini
Uninzi luzama ukuthintela kwaye luphephe ngenxa yokoyika kwaye luzinyanzele ukuba luphile ebubini. Ihlabathi lisezandleni zabo banesibindi sokuphupha kwaye bathathe umngcipheko wokuphila ngamaphupha abo. Ngamanye amaxesha ebomini umntu kufuneka afumane isibindi sokutshintsha indlela ngokunika intsingiselo entsha ebomini bakhe. Ewe kunzima kakhulu kodwa akunzima kangako…. Ngenye imini umnumzana, ngelixa babethetha ngomsebenzi, wathi kum: "Ndineminyaka nje engama-50 ubudala, ndiziva ndinethamsanqa, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba izakuba njalo iminyaka emininzi ... enkosi kuThixo". Isivakalisi esindenze ndacinga kwaye sindibuyisele ekucingeni ukuzincama okuninzi endikwenzileyo ukuza kulomzuzu ukuphucula imeko yam. Ngelo xesha ndandinomsebenzi owawundanelisa kakhulu, ndandihlala nesithandwa sam, ndandinabahlobo abaninzi, ndandizonwabisa, ngokufutshane, ndandinayo yonke into endiyifunayo, ndandicinga ukuba le iyakuba yindlela yam kwaye ungaze uyitshintshe. Ewe kwakungekho njalo, bendineminyaka engama-20 kwaye sisiqalo nje! Ukunyaniseka kokholo lwakho yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuze ube nesibindi sokubuyela emdlalweni, ukwazi ukunika abanye into eyeyakho, ukukhwaza ulonwabo lwakho okanye ukwenza okuhle kwabo bakungqongileyo ngezimvo zakho.
Kuyabonakala ukuba sithanda ukukholelwa ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo ejikeleze thina ibangelwa ngubani owaziyo ukuba yintoni. Kodwa oku akunjalo: impumelelo kunye nentlalontle yotshintsho olukhulu ixhaswa kuphela lukholo olukhulu nolomeleleyo lwangaphakathi. "Bhutiza uvulelwe, cela uzokunikwa" ... .. hlala ukhumbula njalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sibonise, kwisakhono sokuthabathela ikamva lethu ngesandla, siqhubele phambili siye eNkosini kwaye sicele ukuba ayitshintshe ngokuqinisekileyo into oyibonayo namhlanje njengento ongenakuze ube nayo. Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba uyakuyifumana! INkosi iyakuphika kuphela oko ingakuboni kulungile kuthi. Usigcinele izinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi. Ukuba uziva isidingo, yizise zonke iidrama zakho phambi kweNkosi unokholo nesibindi kwaye uqale ukutshintsha ubomi bakho. Nditsho ngothando lobuKrestu….